TTC after miscarriage before AF

[mssk]

xanzaba- I had to take Provera to induce AF but I am now 7 days post finishing Provera and still no AF. I guess it can take upwards of 14 days after you finish the pills to work, but it has never taken this long in the past. I had failed ovulation before the Provera and 1 day on it where I had really watery cm. But, I am pretty sure no ovulation. I am losing my mind I have even taken FRER's in the like 1% chance I got pregnant while on the Provera and all BFN's. The Dr. here won't do anything for me. I live in a really small town and he is actually a retired OB and only see's women to montior HCG and do physical exams. My high risk OB is 40 minutes away and I love him but I have to be 12 weeks to see him so I haven't seen him because these past two pregnancies haven't even gotten close to 12 weeks. His NP said she will see me but when I am pregnant again. But, without AF I am feeling pretty lost right now. I just want to at least be back to ttcing I can't take this all I want to do is cry. I feel like right now I am not working toward anything.

 

[xanzaba]

mssk- sending you and period thoughts. That is really frustrating. Will the doctor see you if, forbid, you go longer than the 14 days after Provera?

 

[mssk]

lol Thank you I need some serious period vibes. I am so frustrated I am in tears and making myself sick to my stomach. The RN will see me if I go the 14 days but it will probably be another 2 week wait for the appointment.

 

[TinyLynne]

Oh mssk, I am so sorry that you have such little support from the doctors in you area. I really hope that they get more supportive or that someone new moves into town soon! I couldn't imagine not having options in that department right now. Sending you lots of hugs!

 

[mssk]

Thanks TinyLynne I am really trying to stay positive. I know it will work out I just need something to happen. Not loving the wait right now. But, if AF doesn't come at least I will be going to the high risk OB office to see the RN and hopefully get things on the right track.

 

[Pato]

mssk I'm so sorry about all you are going through that truly sucks.... a plenty for you honey. I really hope something gives and you can get some answers real soon.

 

[xanzaba]

Tag- Eek, a positive OPK! That's awesome that the wait is almost over!

Mssk- any news?

 

[mssk]

Nothing yet. Waiting not so patiently. Hopefully Tomorrow will be a better day. On the funny end I was trying to talk to my husband about in with the kids in the room so I was using code their little 4 and 2 so we usually spell or use different words. But, anyway I told him we needed to DTD as much as we can so that AF will show. He was like I have no idea what you just said. I got a pretty good laugh out of that.

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk- lol. DH's are happy not knowing too much about all this! DH learned about the times we have to extra DTD, occasionally asks how my temps are looking, and then glazes over

Have you tried wearing white pants

 

[tag74]

Tag- Eek, a positive OPK! That's awesome that the wait is almost over!

Mssk- any news?

Crazy right? I never thought it'd happen.

Thanks TinyLynne I am really trying to stay positive. I know it will work out I just need something to happen. Not loving the wait right now. But, if AF doesn't come at least I will be going to the high risk OB office to see the RN and hopefully get things on the right track.

Sorry about AF! But I agree with xanzaba, wear white pants!

Praying you get your AF!

 

[TinyLynne]

Hope today is going better mssk!

 

[mssk]

It's here, it is finally here . Thank you ladies for all your positive vibes. I know it is crazy but when I woke up and was here I felt like a whole knew woman lol! I am so exicted back to TTCing for me.

 

[Teeny Weeny]

Glad to see she showed her face at last!
I was the same last month, hoping and praying to see her to move on. Good luck this cycle mssk. Xx

 

[mssk]

xanzaba- I know I try to talk to DH and he tries to listen for a few minutes and then I lose him. He said just let me know when it is time to bd and he will take out stock in FRER's lol.

 

[xanzaba]

Yay, mssk! Funny the things that make us happy (and sad) when TTCing. Glad you didn't have to resort to the white pants trick...

 

[ttcnumber2ky]

It's here, it is finally here . Thank you ladies for all your positive vibes. I know it is crazy but when I woke up and was here I felt like a whole knew woman lol! I am so exicted back to TTCing for me.

Yeah!!

 

[TinyLynne]

Yippee!!!! Finally! A new beginning!

 

[Pato]

That's great news mssk, now you have a fresh start. Hope this cycle brings even greater surprises for you

 

[tag74]

She must have worn white pants!

 

[LilMiss_91]

Can I join you ladies? I'm new to this board and was going to make a thread titled pretty much EXACTLY this! I've been lurking in the NTNP forum but it's sooo quiet over there and not many ladies in the same boat as me.
A short backstory, I 'm 23, my OH is 30. We have one beautiful son together who just turned 2. We TTC'd for 2 cycles in March/April and fell pregnant in the April. I had a constant "bad feeling" right from the first positive test depsite everyones reassurances that it was normal to worry. But I knew it was more than that. The day came that we had our scan booked at 12wks. I held my breath as the woman started to look around with the US wand. And there he was, my too-tiny, too-perfect for this world baby. The sonographer was very apologetic and told us that the baby had stopped growing at around 7wks.
I decided to go through medical management and try and pass the baby "naturally". Well it took 2 attempts at that and finally, on the 10th July I gave "birth" to our angel baby.
At first I wasn't sure if I wanted to TTC again straight away but the longer I had to wait to actually miscarry the more I knew I just wanted another HEALTHY pregnancy.
Which brings us to here.
The bleeding stopped about one and a half to two weeks ago now and we have been not exactly TTC because I don't think I've O'd yet, but we've not been preventing anything. As soon as AF arrives (if she does) we'll be TTC for real.