TTC after miscarriage before AF

[TinyLynne]

Good luck ladies!!!

Guess what I had yesterday??? A positive OPK! CD39 today, lol, but I think I'm Oing today!! Tons of EWCM.

I really think stress pushed it back. Because once I realized stress could impact it, I tried really relaxing, and I felt my body start moving forward. BDed on Thursday and then again today. It sounds weird, but I keep visualizing good, normal balanced sperm reaching the egg. Even though it might be too old this time. We will see in a couple of weeks I guess!

 

[xanzaba]

Mind over matter in action Good luck tiny!

 

[mssk]

YAY Tiny! I am so happy that you are O'ing. Xan is right mind over matter!

 

[mssk]

I think I am gonna cave and test today. AF has officially been missed. I woke up really happy today because I have tons of thick creamy CM. I know it sounds ridiculous but it made my day! I guess it is the little things right?

 

[TinyLynne]

Post!!!!! Did you test???? I'm super excited right now!

 

[Babylove100]

Quick update from me. The dreaded witch decided to show her face a week early this cycle! So rude! I only got to pee on 1 stick! It makes my cycle only 21 days as well which worries me a bit and praying it's just a one off

 

[mssk]

FRER I am out this month.... I was just so sure.

 

[Babylove100]

FRER I am out this month.... I was just so sure.

Ah sorry Hun. Your not out till the shows! Fx you just have a shy bean.

 

[mssk]

I wish, but I am anywhere from 15-22 dpo I should definitely have a positive right? I tested with the regular 6 day sooner test.

 

[TinyLynne]

Sorry ladies.

My temp went up only slightly yesterday and just slightly from that today. Definitely not near my normal post O temps. But my mouth is metal tasting so I'm sure I Od in the last couple of days somewhere. On day 40 or 41 today....

 

[xanzaba]

Hi ladies. Sorry for the BFNs and the witches. I'm in the same boat as everyone else.

Tiny- I hope that's just left-over estrogen, which can be good for getting that BFP.

I guess those positives were left over HCG from last the MC, but at least now I know I'm back to baseline. Ready to DTD after witchy leaves.

 

[mssk]

STILL no AF......

 

[elliecain]

Hi all. My name is Ellie and I had my first ever bfp 8 days ago followed by a mc yesterday. We are really keen to start ttc again as soon as we can. I'm still very sad, but know that this will help me to heal.
What advice can you give me? When did you all ovulate again? Did any of you ttc again straight away?
I'm sorry I haven't read back previous posts in the thread, but there are so many I can't do them justice.
Thank you xx

 

[laughingduck]

Hello girls,
I guess I belong in this thread now! I had my second miscarriage in August at 5 weeks and ovulated 5 days ago I think. I never got a truly positive opk , but ot was almost as dark as the control one day, and had a bbt shift 2 days after. My first mc I had in June and the cycle after that I also did not get a positive opk and did not get pregnant that cycle (but I get oregnant very easily usually). So I am not really getting my hopes up. I wanted to try again right away again though because the first period after my first mc was super heavy, and I have had really scant periods since my daughter was born 4 years ago. Makes me think there is something wrong with my lining and if the onky time I have a good thick lining is right after a mc, I want to catch that! Anyway, I hope that all made sense lol. So far not a lot of symptoms, at 3 dpo my breasts were sore and yesterday I had cramping (quite a lot last night). Fingers crossed!
Elliecain Im really sorry to hear about your mc. I hear you are much more fertile after a mc so I hope you second your second bfp this month and it is a sticky. I know for a fact that a mc does increase progesterone in some women, because it does in me! They tested it at 4 weeks pregnant in my August pregnancy and it was 111! Normal levels for that time should have been 20 or so. So I hope the mc ends up being something yiur bidy beeded to get into gear (awful to think there is any benefit to such a distressing time, but naybe there is?)
For the other ladies, Im sorry for those who af got you. Mssk I hope af stays away and you get a late bfp! Are you sure on your ovulation date?
Good luck to everyone else!

 

[xanzaba]

Hi Elliecain and Laughingduck- sorry you find yourselves here, but hopefully it make waiting out your rainbow that much easier.

I think O depends on how far along you were. Both of my MCs were later (18 and 14 weeks) and I'm pretty sure I didn't ovulate the 1st cycle after each of them, then had a longer cycle with delayed O the following month.

Mssk- argggh! I've been thinking of you, maybe it's time to get a beta test?

AFM- day 5. AF started on the first so keeping track will be easy this month.

 

[mssk]

Hi Ellie and laughingduck. I am so sorry for your losses but I am glad that you found us. Good luck on your journeys TTCing I hope you both get your rainbows soon!

As for ovulating I think it mostly depends on how far along you were like xanzaba said. I O'd right after my first loss and not at all after the second--so I had to induce a cycle. I hope that it works out for you soon.

 

[mssk]

Afm- I am getting a little freaked out I have no idea what is going on. I took my third and final FRER from the same package and . So I accepted that this cycle just isn't it. I have still had several symptoms, most noticeably my breast are sore mostly in the AM or late afternoon...and so bad I want to rip my bra off. But, I had these symptoms when waiting for AF after Provera so I thought nothing of it. Until this morning. My breasts felt especially heavy. So I felt them thinking this is weird and then leaked breast milk about a half dollar size on my shirt. the the hell is going on with my body!?!

 

[TinyLynne]

Mssk - I'm so sorry about your body going crazy... Maybe your ovulation ended up getting delayed at some point? I don't know... I hope you figure something out soon!

 

[mssk]

Thanks TinyLynne I think I am going to have to call my OB tomorrow.

 

[xanzaba]

Hi Mssk- sorry it's so confusing. I was told that I could leak breast milk if my breasts were stimulated after the MC, but also maybe it could be pregnancy related? I think that this would warrant a doctor's visit... Getting a medical opinion would help ease the stress...