TTC after miscarriage before AF

[laughingduck]

Wondfo's. They work really well! Considering buying a FRER but honestly Im not sure they are any better than wondfos.

 

[TinyLynne]

I only use FRER. They have NEVER let me down! Clearblue Digital with weeks estimator showed positive for me as well, this morning included! I have had them turn positive the day between when my betas were 10 and 5!

 

[laughingduck]

Ive used FRER's in the past and they are good, but tbh they dont pick up pregnancies any sooner than the wondfo's, and are so much more expensive and I am a poas addict, so that just wont do

Are you doing anying different this pregnancy? Any supplements? I found an awesome website of studies on mc, and started taking N-acetyl cysteine, co-q10, and maca root this cycle. I also restarted a cardio workout a few weeks ago. Im hoping something works! This is the site: https://sites.google.com/site/miscarriageresearch/

Has anyone told family members about their miscarriage(s)? I told my dad yesterday finally. Kinda feels good to get it off my chest.

 

[TinyLynne]

I'm not really doing anything differently. It's balanced or it's not, and that was determine a week and a half ago and there is nothing I can do at any point to change it.

I really feel uncomfortable talking about mine to my family. Told my mom recently and told my aunt after a couple beers a few weeks ago. I really don't feel any better after though.

 

[laughingduck]

What do you mean by balanced?

My line is not darker, seems like it may be gone so it may have been a faulty test, or maybe a chemical, hard to say. The month after my last loss I did not conceive either, despite being someone who generally conceives first shot, so I may just be someone who needs a cycle to readjust.

 

[TinyLynne]

If it got one of my DH's sperm that has all of the right chromosomes. He has a balanced translocation. So he has a good copy of 6 & 22, and a copy of each that have pieces that are swapped. If they only get one of the chromosomes with material from each of the 2 chromosomes than it doesn't have all of the right material and is unbalanced

 

[Angel5000]

I always bled like a normal, maybe slight heavier period. Have you had a day of full flow yet or just spotting? If you are just spotting then you maybe not be in the new cycle just yet. With my chemicals I spotted lightly for a few days and then AF came on full.

I spotted for a day, then had a regular flow for a day, then today is the second day of light. Not quite at a level that is "just spotting" but getting close.

 

[xanzaba]

Congrats Tiny!

Laughing Duck, hopefully the line gets darker!

AFM- I CD10 and think I'm gearing up to O. No EWCM yet, but I am getting that soda in the stomach feeling I always get. Hopefully this is it! I would be so happy if I O'ed like normal this cycle (CD 13/14).

 

[Babylove100]

I think I'm gearing up to O too, had some ewcm and a few cramps so fingers crossed I O on time as well after that silly wacky cycle!!!

 

[TinyLynne]

Go get it girls!!!!

 

[Teeny Weeny]

Go catch those eggies!
I so wish I had one to go get. Me and DH have been at it like troopers and my chart still shows no ovulation.
I am beyond disappointed as this is our last round of Clomid. Xx

 

[mssk]

ugghh. Cycle day 40 that is right ladies day 40 . Now I have a fever and my little ones are sick. We dtd the last few days for ourselves figuring me missed this cycle and it was nice to just do it for the heck of it. I think this next cycle whenever it shows I will go buy some OPK's I gotta find a way to pinpoint O time cause this is driving me nuts!

 

[Carlimar]

I just found this forum and quickly registered because I definitely need advice from women who are going through or who have been through what I am going through. I got my BFP on 8/29 and was so excited only to start spotting and passing tissue (sorry tmi) on Wed 9/9. I was 5wks 6 days. My Dr told me to do it naturally since I was so early and all I can think about as I lay in bed is wanting to start trying again as soon as I can. I usually temp and use opk but don't even know where to start. Any advice would be great.

 

[TinyLynne]

Hi Carlimar, sorry for your loss.

My mcs were all really earlier, earlier than yours, and my cycles that followed them were unchanged. I counted the first day of flow from mc as day 1. But everyone's bodies react differently. Just temp and OPKs to track your cycle. Those were the most helpful to me.

Good luck! And sorry again for your loss.

 

[xanzaba]

Hi Calimar- sorry you are here, but with early MCs things definitely get back to normal faster. I found that temping was helpful because my temps were down when the bleeding stopped for good.

I had an anovulatory cycle after MC (never normally), but mine was much further along. Still, knowing that things can be abnormal helped me when my cycles were abnormal, and coming here helped me through it as well. As Tiny said, we're all different, and we all respond differently. But you'll probably find someone who went through something similar in the process.

I hope you find your rainbow baby soon

 

[Carlimar]

TinyLynne- thanks for the advice good to hear that my cycle could possibly resume back to normal soon. I have always been very regular so that's kinda what I was hoping for. I guess I'll start tempting soon. Sucks because this was going to be my last pregnancy and I tempted for 6 months prior to and then 2 more months while trying to conceive and I thought I'd never have to do it again. But I guess God has different plans. Thank you again.

Xanzaba- thanks for your reply, I sure hope you're right and my body jumps right back to normal. Curious though what is a rainbow baby? Thanks

 

[happynewmom1]

Carlimar, I'm so sorry for your loss my first loss was at 6 weeks exactly. I didn't do opk or charting or anything but my body was weird that cycle. I thought I ovulated super early after the loss because of all the ewcm but I actually ended up ovulating late for me, which I could tell frim cervix position, more ewcm and cramps. I also ended up pregnant that month too but had a chemical but I also knew I ovulated late due to when I got the bfp that month. Just be aware your body might be a tad out of whack the cycle after. I highly recommend getting some raspberry leaf tea capsules to help the uterus lining and maybe maca.. I took those after the chemical and I felt like my body starting healing more and getting back on track. Good luck to you.. I also hope you get your rainbow baby soon (rainbow baby refers to the baby you have after a loss)

 

[Carlimar]

Happynewmom1- Thank you so much for the advice I have heard of raspberry leaf tea so good to hear it from another person. I will be picking some up. Thanks for clarifying rainbow baby for me =)

 

[happynewmom1]

Happynewmom1- Thank you so much for the advice I have heard of raspberry leaf tea so good to hear it from another person. I will be picking some up. Thanks for clarifying rainbow baby for me =)

You're welcome just male sure you quit taking the raspberry leaf after getting your bfp. It's really good stuff though

 

[mssk]

Hi Carlimar I am so sorry for your loss. Like Tiny said everyone is different but after my 1st loss at 6 weeks everything returned normally. The start of the miscarriage bleed was cycle day one and I ovulated on time on cycle day 14. I hope that things get back on track for you soon.