TTC after miscarriage before AF

[ClaireZac30]

Thanks Xanzaba - I feel in real limbo. I feel like I'm pregnant again but I don't know if it's my mind playing tricks.

I'm still feeling very crampy today and have had some pain on my left side - could almost imagine a little eggy burrowing 🙏🏻

I'm also feeling headachey and fuzzy headed.

The very random red dot that appeared on my toilet paper yesterday, the size of a pin head - is that something you can get in ovulation? All last week and over the weekend I felt I was having ovulation cramps but wasn't sure if it had happened or not. I'm hoping it did and it's actually a sign of implantation again.

Also yesterday after seeing the red spot, my cm seemed to really pick up again. At times it was browny in colour, but it was really quite thick to the point it was hanging out of me when I went to the loo. Is this still possible post implantation?

I'm so confused at what my body is doing - I just want the line on my test to get darker!

 

[xanzaba]

I was a lot further along 14 weeks, so it's probably different, but I had a lot of what seemed like EWCM for about 3 weeks. The next cycle I had no EWCM. I've had a spot of blood at O, usually means a strong O.

 

[ClaireZac30]

Maybe its ovulation I experienced then. I just feel so pregnant and full. I was only pregnant a month ago so I feel like I've got that feeling back.

Finally my cm has turned all watery and I feel like I'm constantly wetting my knickers.

I'm desperate to get my BFP!

 

[xanzaba]

Well, I am 14 weeks pregnant right now and truly believe there are rainbows out there to catch. I hope this is it for you, and I know what you mean about feeling pregnant vs. not pregnant. A woman's intuition is priceless!

 

[Meowsie]

Hi everyone. Can I join this thread for support? I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks and D&C on 3/11 - I was devastated and extremely emotional in the first few days. Although I'm feeling better now, I want to get pregnant ASAP not only because of the miscarriage but because I'm getting older and so is our son who will be 5 soon.

Since the D&C, I haven't bled much - mostly just spotting and now it seems to be completely gone. Before getting pregnant my cycles were about 28-30 days and I usually ovulated on CD 14-16. I ordered some wondfo pregnancy tests and clearblue dig ovulation sticks that should arrive in the next 2-3 days and will start testing. I am drinking fertility tea (most red raspberry leaf), trying to sleep and eat well in hopes that I ovulate before my AF comes. We are planning on starting to DTD this weekend on CD10 (counting from D&C date).

 

[xanzaba]

Meowsie- I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you find some solace in TTC and catch your rainbow.

 

[Meowsie]

Thanks Xanxaba. I got my wondfo pregnancy tests yesterday, tested right away and got a positive (although much lighter than control line) - I'm not surprised of course. I did check my cervix and it was higher yesterday than the day before and not as firm and was somewhat wet inside (not ewcm though) so we ended up BDing using pre-seed just in case. Probably way too early for ovulation as it was CD8 counting from day of miscarriage. But I am tryign to be hopeful that I will ovulate before AF comes and so I'm trying to cover a wide range of days. I so feel for all the girls on here and wish everyone luck in conceiving healthy babies. It's great to be able to come on here and unload - its such a relief.

 

[TTC74]

Hi ladies. I'm sorry I missed so much. I was away for awhile having neck surgery. I'm Feeling better now and the anasthesia halted my O. So now that I'm off narcotics I'm about to O. The timing couldn't be better!

 

[Meowsie]

Welcome back TTC74.

Im confused because it seems I started spotting/light bleeding today, no cramps. I didnt bleed much after the 3/11 d&c, mostly just spotted and that ended 5 days ago. Does this mean somethings wrong? I was hoping to O in the next couple of days but guess not :/

 

[babyjourney89]

Hi ladies.
I got tested lately and found out that results for Rubella IGg anitbody is -ve (No immunity).
Now the thing is that i either get vaccinated and wait 3 months to start ttc or don't get vaccinated until i pregnant and get done with delivery. So i really need opinions inorder to make this decision.

 

[Frizzabelle]

I am not immune to rubella either....I have had the vaccine 4 times!
My doctor says she won't try to vaccinate me again as my body is obviously not accepting it. She said its fine as most other people are immune which they call 'herd immunity' so you are still unlikely to get it.
I would personally wait until after having a baby as it may not make a difference to you anyway but if you would feel more comfortable getting it and be less worried then get it xx

 

[BSelck24]

Hi ladies! I would love to join for some support-

I just suffered my third loss (although it's the first with my current husband, the first two were with my ex-husband). This was my earliest loss (at 5weeks) so PHYSICALLY it was much easier than my other two as the pain, the contractions and the bleeding weren't as bad. However EMOTIONALLY, this was really hard because I didn't expect this happening with my husband and I. I told myself that my previous losses were due to my ex and I not meant to have children. But now, I just feel like it's me having the issues of carrying a baby!

I do have my 1 year old son, who I thank God for everyday, but I just don't feel like I am done having children.

My bleeding from the miscarriage this time came hard and fast, only lasting 2 1/2 days. So I'm going to count my first day of bleeding as CD1 and start trying again this cycle. My Dr said to just take an hpt on Friday and make sure it's negative, otherwise I have to go back in to see her.

I loved reading back on this thread as there were so many positive stories of women getting their rainbow babies

Baby dust to everyone!

 

[mrs unicorn]

Hi ladies, can I join you? I had a MMC at 10 weeks (empty sac). It completely shattered our world I had an ERPC on 4th March. We weren't going to TTC straight away but I just want to pregnant again so badly. Our timing was a bit off as we were thinking NTNP, and I o'd much later than normal. I was feeling good about things but now I feel like it didn't happen this cycle and I'm so fed up. We were lucky and got our bfp on the 3rd attempt, which was amazing. I feel bad now because it's nothing compared to what some women have to go through but the past 6 months have left me exhausted, and I keep thinking how long is it going to go on for now?

Sorry for the moaning! Just need to get it out. Our family have been very supportive but now the mc is over I think everyone sees it as its done and dusted and all is ok, we're back to normal. But it doesn't feel like that.

 

[Jchihuahua]

Hi, I would also like to join you for support.

I have just had a miscarriage. I started spotting at 8 weeks and 4 days, brown blood the following day, then heavy bleeding and cramps and clots for the next 6 days. Brown spotting today so I think the miscarriage is almost over. The physical side hasn't been too bad but the emotional side and feelings of loss are horrendous, for my husband as well.

I am 40 and know I havent much time to try and conceive so want to start TTC immediately. I am so desperate to be pregnant again and feel so empty now.

 

[xanzaba]

Unicorn, chihuahua- I am so sorry for your losses. I needed the task of trying again, and the physical side of TTC was very comforting (especially when I had not interest in sex during pregnancy). Sending lots of positive thoughts and baby dust your way while you try for your rainbow babies.

 

[Babylove100]

I'm so sorry for your losses ladies, it makes me so sad to see how many people have had to join this thread in the last few weeks

I definitely understand the need to start trying straight away, it feels like you have a little control back in your life. Wishing all you ladies that your sticky rainbows are just around the corner.xx

 

[mrs unicorn]

It is incredibly sad and cruel but I'm so glad I have the ladies on this site to talk to. I think I would feel very alone without it.

Well I'm 8 DPO with a wierd chart and fighting the urge to poas. It's funny I didn't think I would feel like this all over again, not so soon anyway. We're weren't strictly TTC as we had no idea when/if I would o but it just so happened that we had a couple of days away booked the day a got a +opk. I keep bouncing from hopeful to hopeless!

 

[BSelck24]

Mrs. Unicorn good luck!! Keep us updated!

Thank you to all the pregnant ladies who keep checking back in and giving us hope as well!!

 

[Teeny Weeny]

Today marks exactly one year since my D&C. The day I was told my babies heart had stopped.

However, life has a way of working out and I am currently pregnant in my 3rd trimester with a rainbow baby girl.

To all of you that have recently joined the thread, have hope. You will get your babies. Xx

 

[mrs unicorn]

Teeny weeny, that has brought a tear to my eye. Thank you for your words of hope and encouragement. I've just tested this morning and bfn. It's what I expected but there's always some disappointment.

Congratulations and good luck for the birth!! X