TTC after miscarriage before AF

[happynewmom1]

I agree with happynewmom! Sounds promising

How are you doing, Firsttimer? Were you planning to test soon?

 

[firsttimer123]

lol I tested today bc I'm an addict... Could be anywhere between 1-5dpo ... But not 100% I od. I didn't have ewcm, it did get thinner but was never clear or super stretchy... Cervix was high and now is low... Who knows!

 

[happynewmom1]

lol I tested today bc I'm an addict... Could be anywhere between 1-5dpo ... But not 100% I od. I didn't have ewcm, it did get thinner but was never clear or super stretchy... Cervix was high and now is low... Who knows!

Ohhh well fx you did ovulate!! I'm a poas addict too and will start testing as soon as I can lol

 

[firsttimer123]

Just so tempting to try! Even tho bfns are so annoying

 

[happynewmom1]

Just so tempting to try! Even tho bfns are so annoying

True! But just keep telling yourself you are super early to test anyway so basically doing it for fun at that point really excited to start seeing some bfps for you all!

 

[Eclaire]

Thanks. You ladies have been very supportive. I will keep you updated as I get more info.

 

[mimdan]

Good luck Éclaire...fx for you, although I'm sure you'll be fine x

 

[mimdan]

Just started having cramps hope it's not AF..wish her away for me girls pretty sure I had backache earlier too so pretty sure she's going to show soon..boooo !

 

[happynewmom1]

Just started having cramps hope it's not AF..wish her away for me girls pretty sure I had backache earlier too so pretty sure she's going to show soon..boooo !

Oh no!! Both of those signs could still be pregnancy so fx she stays far away!!!

 

[mimdan]

Thank happy...although I'm just not feeling lucky enough my gut feeling tells me it will be a few more cycles yet before I see another bfp....does anyone get so fed up with Ttc it gets to the point when you just can't be bothered anymore ? Sometimes I think I should just appreciate what I already have and be done with it

 

[happynewmom1]

Thank happy...although I'm just not feeling lucky enough my gut feeling tells me it will be a few more cycles yet before I see another bfp....does anyone get so fed up with Ttc it gets to the point when you just can't be bothered anymore ? Sometimes I think I should just appreciate what I already have and be done with it

I'm so sorry how long have you been TTC? I wish it wasn't so hard.

 

[Eclaire]

Mimdan I have been trying for 10 cycles to get #2 and suffered 2 losses in that time. I also felt ready to give up and accept my dd as all I will ever have. I know people say all the time to try to relax and not worry so much, and that feels like impossible advice. But I believe there may be something to it. Try to stay positive. Each loss is hard, but it isn't the end. Hang in there.

 

[Eclaire]

Update: so the nurse called with my first beta results. I am indeed pregnant. My hcg levels are almost twice what they were at my mc. I have more blood work scheduled tomorrow to make sure things are doubling. I am thrilled and plan to tell my husband on Sunday in an Easter egg.

 

[happynewmom1]

Update: so the nurse called with my first beta results. I am indeed pregnant. My hcg levels are almost twice what they were at my mc. I have more blood work scheduled tomorrow to make sure things are doubling. I am thrilled and plan to tell my husband on Sunday in an Easter egg.

Yay!!! Congratulations!!!! Very excited for you!

 

[mimdan]

Thank happy...although I'm just not feeling lucky enough my gut feeling tells me it will be a few more cycles yet before I see another bfp....does anyone get so fed up with Ttc it gets to the point when you just can't be bothered anymore ? Sometimes I think I should just appreciate what I already have and be done with it

I'm so sorry how long have you been TTC? I wish it wasn't so hard.

We've been ntnp for 2 years which I know isnt long to some...I may see how the next cycle or 2 go and then visit gp to see if they can help. Even if they can just regulate my cycles a little more I'd be happy..I really want things to happen naturally so I dont want to much intevention...my first two were natural as was the bfp I had recently so I'm hopeful but just feeling fed up with the emotions ttc brings...thanx for the hug how are you today ? X

 

[happynewmom1]

Thank happy...although I'm just not feeling lucky enough my gut feeling tells me it will be a few more cycles yet before I see another bfp....does anyone get so fed up with Ttc it gets to the point when you just can't be bothered anymore ? Sometimes I think I should just appreciate what I already have and be done with it

I'm so sorry how long have you been TTC? I wish it wasn't so hard.

We've been ntnp for 2 years which I know isnt long to some...I may see how the next cycle or 2 go and then visit gp to see if they can help. Even if they can just regulate my cycles a little more I'd be happy..I really want things to happen naturally so I dont want to much intevention...my first two were natural as was the bfp I had recently so I'm hopeful but just feeling fed up with the emotions ttc brings...thanx for the hug how are you today ? X

I can see why you get fed up. Don't give up! You will get your rainbow baby and all of this will be worth it when you do. feel free to vent anytime you need to!

I'm ok. No spotting so that's encouraging to me. Maybe eventually I'll ovulate so I can get pregnant or a period.. Something. It stinks not knowing what my body is doing but guess it's all a waiting game. *shrug*

 

[mimdan]

Mimdan I have been trying for 10 cycles to get #2 and suffered 2 losses in that time. I also felt ready to give up and accept my dd as all I will ever have. I know people say all the time to try to relax and not worry so much, and that feels like impossible advice. But I believe there may be something to it. Try to stay positive. Each loss is hard, but it isn't the end. Hang in there.

Aww I'm sorry to hear that sweet that must have really took its toll on you. I feel so sorry for all the ladies here I doubt I'll give up ttc totally probably just switch off emotionally as I had started to do before the bfp I lost..we hardly dtd that cycle, so yes I too think there is something in relaxing with it all but like you say it can be hard advice to take.

Anyways, I hear congratulations are in order ! awww I knew you'd be ok...that bfp was too strong not to be a new pregnancy...I'm so happy for you...I felt a liitle emotional when you said about telling your husband in an easter egg, lovely idea ...I hope your planning on sticking around with us ! Hopefully they'll be some more bfp ladies in here soon too x

 

[mimdan]

Thank happy...although I'm just not feeling lucky enough my gut feeling tells me it will be a few more cycles yet before I see another bfp....does anyone get so fed up with Ttc it gets to the point when you just can't be bothered anymore ? Sometimes I think I should just appreciate what I already have and be done with it

I'm so sorry how long have you been TTC? I wish it wasn't so hard.

We've been ntnp for 2 years which I know isnt long to some...I may see how the next cycle or 2 go and then visit gp to see if they can help. Even if they can just regulate my cycles a little more I'd be happy..I really want things to happen naturally so I dont want to much intevention...my first two were natural as was the bfp I had recently so I'm hopeful but just feeling fed up with the emotions ttc brings...thanx for the hug how are you today ? X

I can see why you get fed up. Don't give up! You will get your rainbow baby and all of this will be worth it when you do. feel free to vent anytime you need to!

I'm ok. No spotting so that's encouraging to me. Maybe eventually I'll ovulate so I can get pregnant or a period.. Something. It stinks not knowing what my body is doing but guess it's all a waiting game. *shrug*

Thank you and the same to you hun...ranting is good, we should encourage ranting

I dont know if this is a silly question ...but..could it have been implantation bleeding ? If you were spotting and its stopped, then its possible right ? Plus when I was reading on google about implantation bleeding it said somewhere that it often happens around when AF is due which is why a lot of women mistake it for a light AF well my fx for you anyway

 

[happynewmom1]

Thank happy...although I'm just not feeling lucky enough my gut feeling tells me it will be a few more cycles yet before I see another bfp....does anyone get so fed up with Ttc it gets to the point when you just can't be bothered anymore ? Sometimes I think I should just appreciate what I already have and be done with it

I'm so sorry how long have you been TTC? I wish it wasn't so hard.

We've been ntnp for 2 years which I know isnt long to some...I may see how the next cycle or 2 go and then visit gp to see if they can help. Even if they can just regulate my cycles a little more I'd be happy..I really want things to happen naturally so I dont want to much intevention...my first two were natural as was the bfp I had recently so I'm hopeful but just feeling fed up with the emotions ttc brings...thanx for the hug how are you today ? X

I can see why you get fed up. Don't give up! You will get your rainbow baby and all of this will be worth it when you do. feel free to vent anytime you need to!

I'm ok. No spotting so that's encouraging to me. Maybe eventually I'll ovulate so I can get pregnant or a period.. Something. It stinks not knowing what my body is doing but guess it's all a waiting game. *shrug*

Thank you and the same to you hun...ranting is good, we should encourage ranting

I dont know if this is a silly question ...but..could it have been implantation bleeding ? If you were spotting and its stopped, then its possible right ? Plus when I was reading on google about implantation bleeding it said somewhere that it often happens around when AF is due which is why a lot of women mistake it for a light AF well my fx for you anyway

My dh would thank you... Ranting here means I rant less to him it does help sometimes for sure!

Hmmm we did bd 5 days before that but I wasn't really getting any ovulation signs then that I recall although I likely wouldn't have been looking that soon after miscarrying. I have some extra tests.. I may try one tomorrow morning just to see but not going to get my hopes up I didn't think of that and appreciate the suggestion!! Never know

 

[mimdan]

Ohhh Eclaire ! I almost forgot to ask you what symptoms (if any) you had ?

And whilst I'm bringing up the topic of symptoms, anyone else symptom spotting ?