TTC after miscarriage before AF

[mimdan]

Thank happy...although I'm just not feeling lucky enough my gut feeling tells me it will be a few more cycles yet before I see another bfp....does anyone get so fed up with Ttc it gets to the point when you just can't be bothered anymore ? Sometimes I think I should just appreciate what I already have and be done with it

I'm so sorry how long have you been TTC? I wish it wasn't so hard.

We've been ntnp for 2 years which I know isnt long to some...I may see how the next cycle or 2 go and then visit gp to see if they can help. Even if they can just regulate my cycles a little more I'd be happy..I really want things to happen naturally so I dont want to much intevention...my first two were natural as was the bfp I had recently so I'm hopeful but just feeling fed up with the emotions ttc brings...thanx for the hug how are you today ? X

I can see why you get fed up. Don't give up! You will get your rainbow baby and all of this will be worth it when you do. feel free to vent anytime you need to!

I'm ok. No spotting so that's encouraging to me. Maybe eventually I'll ovulate so I can get pregnant or a period.. Something. It stinks not knowing what my body is doing but guess it's all a waiting game. *shrug*

Thank you and the same to you hun...ranting is good, we should encourage ranting

I dont know if this is a silly question ...but..could it have been implantation bleeding ? If you were spotting and its stopped, then its possible right ? Plus when I was reading on google about implantation bleeding it said somewhere that it often happens around when AF is due which is why a lot of women mistake it for a light AF well my fx for you anyway

My dh would thank you... Ranting here means I rant less to him it does help sometimes for sure!

Hmmm we did bd 5 days before that but I wasn't really getting any ovulation signs then that I recall although I likely wouldn't have been looking that soon after miscarrying. I have some extra tests.. I may try one tomorrow morning just to see but not going to get my hopes up I didn't think of that and appreciate the suggestion!! Never know

Lol I dont really bother ranting to my OH I'd get more interest out of a brick wall, so...thats what I do

Oh excellent, now I'm glad I mentioned it ! Wishing you all the best sweet, good luck x

 

[firsttimer123]

Mimdan fingers crossed it's pregnancy pains!

 

[Eclaire]

I will stick with you because I want to see you all get sticky bfps.

As for symptoms I didn't have many. A little breast tenderness which I ignored. Upper abdominal pain paired with diarrhea started Sunday. Vivid dreams with night sweats. The night before my bfp I was nauseated by the smell of my prenatals. Hope that helps.

 

[happynewmom1]

So bfn today which I was expecting for the most part. Would have been amazing though lol how is everyone doing today?

 

[firsttimer123]

Cd19 going to wait until Sunday to test.... Got my bfp on cd22 last time... Not feeling pregnant bup I guess it's early

 

[happynewmom1]

Cd19 going to wait until Sunday to test.... Got my bfp on cd22 last time... Not feeling pregnant bup I guess it's early

Fx for you!!! It's definitely still early

 

[Eclaire]

Firsttimer do you know if/when you ovulated? Your cycles must be very short. I have heard every pregnancy (successful or not) will change your chemical makeup causing your cycles to be different. So don't be too broken hearted if your bfp doesn't come as early this time.

 

[firsttimer123]

My cycles are typically 26 days. That was exactly when I gt period counting first day of d&c my first cycle. This is cycle two... I am not sure if I ovulated... I never had ewcm.... My cN became wet and more clear but never ewcm.... And now it's sticky and creamy so I kno I have past the point of ov.

 

[firsttimer123]

Fingers crossed that I did o just without clear signals!

 

[happynewmom1]

Fingers crossed that I did o just without clear signals!

Yes! Some people don't get as much ewcm as others or wouldn't notice it unless checking cervix or something so hoping for you! Hopefully you do but if you didn't get your bfp this month, you might like checking into preseed for next month. It's a lubricant that acts like ewcm helping the sperm reach the egg. I've read it really helps those who don't get much ewcm but I've got my fingers crossed for you!!

 

[mimdan]

I may look into pressed next cycle as I don't get much if any....tested just now..didn't hold for very long so was quite weak but regardless. ..BFN had cramps last night then nothing until just now..I'll keep testing until AF shows

Éclaire thank you for staying with us and for sharing your symptoms

Firsttimer and happy...fX for you guys x

 

[firsttimer123]

Hmm I usually do get ewcm, but maybe things hVe changed since mc. I'll look into preseed if I don't get a bfp this month. I'll be testing as of Monday!

 

[happynewmom1]

I may look into pressed next cycle as I don't get much if any....tested just now..didn't hold for very long so was quite weak but regardless. ..BFN had cramps last night then nothing until just now..I'll keep testing until AF shows

Éclaire thank you for staying with us and for sharing your symptoms

Firsttimer and happy...fX for you guys x

Hopefully it was just too diluted can't wait to see more bfps here. Fx for you both!

 

[happynewmom1]

Good morning or is it afternoon for some of you? how is everyone?? Anymore tests or symptoms? Not much new here. Lots of ewcm and watery cm so that's weird. Kinda wish I had some opks right now.. Would be nice to know if I'm finally ovulating or maybe it's just trying to. Who knows hope everyone is well!

 

[firsttimer123]

Cd20 over here and it's afternoon ! Still have creamy cm, have sore throat... Some twinges in lower right stomach (do I imagine this? Lol) happy Easter!

 

[happynewmom1]

Cd20 over here and it's afternoon ! Still have creamy cm, have sore throat... Some twinges in lower right stomach (do I imagine this? Lol) happy Easter!

Ohhh hope those are good signs! I got loads of creamy cm with my first two pregnancies! Fx for you!! And thank you! Happy Easter to you as well! Do you have any plans for Easter?

Thanks for replying. I thought I scared everyone off Saturdays can be busy though. My grandparents took the kids and I to a car show which was interesting. So so hot out. I think I'm ready for a nap now lol

 

[traceyAndLee]

Hi lady's hope ya all well, I got a bfp on the 7 of March cupl days later the spotting kicking in, had a scan on the 23 of March was told it was a failed pregnec mc, I stop bleeding on the 29th - I peed on stick to day bfn in wich o was looking for, but I don't know wen to pee on my ov sticks??? Don't know wen af will show agen I'm hope I don't see her an get a bfp at them end of all this xxx

 

[firsttimer123]

Yes weekends are busy... We are travelling to family an spoiling our nephews! Hoping next Easter we will have our first to bring to the Easter festivities! I am going to test Monday am with a cheapie... Hoping I make it until then, at in laws today so at from my tests! Anyone else symptom spotting like me? I imagine everything being a preg symptom!

 

[mimdan]

Hi girls and welcome Tracey..sorry for your loss hun and fx for you !

Firsttimer can't wait to hear of your test result !

Happy...you didn't scare us off I was going to post last night but didn't want to drive you all crazy lol...have you tested with hpt again yet ?

I tested this morning which is now 6 days since EWCM with pink spots...BFN. .I have 1 test left so going to try and hold out now...still been getting cramps but not consistent...backache still there and I have this more than cramps...I don't know what's going on lady's but no AF yet...maybe I'm 6dpo I have no idea...I could cry...I knew the MC would muck up my cycles and just when they were becoming more regular...I don't want to sound too miserable but I just feel Ttc is not being fair

Anyways, happy easter to you all ! Looking forward to eating my galaxy easter egg I made OH buy me lol

 

[happynewmom1]

Tracey, I'm sorry about your loss I hope to see you get a bfp soon! Knowing when we will ovulate or get af after a mc is rough.. Almost torture not knowing. I've heard some say the first day of heavy bleeding when miscarrying can be considered cd1 although I've also heard cd1 is when bleeding stops so I dunno. Some women don't ovulate until after their first normal period too so not sure what to expect here. Some things make me think I am actually going to ovulate soon or its been trying to at least. Who knows.

That sounds like such a fun time, Firsttimer! Enjoy spoiling the kids and good luck testing!! Definitely share with us any updates! Hope you have an amazing and relaxing weekend!

Right now I'm symptom spotting like crazy to determine if I'm going to ovulate. I may go insane over it but trying to find things to distract from it and relax. The thing about symptom spotting for pregnancy is almost anything can be a symptom. I used to be obsessive about googling "__ early pregnancy" and of course someone would have had that symptom when they were pregnant Haha