TTC after miscarriage before AF

[mimdan]

Éclaire, how are you ? Everything well ? X

 

[happynewmom1]

Hi girls and welcome Tracey..sorry for your loss hun and fx for you !

Firsttimer can't wait to hear of your test result !

Happy...you didn't scare us off I was going to post last night but didn't want to drive you all crazy lol...have you tested with hpt again yet ?

I tested this morning which is now 6 days since EWCM with pink spots...BFN. .I have 1 test left so going to try and hold out now...still been getting cramps but not consistent...backache still there and I have this more than cramps...I don't know what's going on lady's but no AF yet...maybe I'm 6dpo I have no idea...I could cry...I knew the MC would muck up my cycles and just when they were becoming more regular...I don't want to sound too miserable but I just feel Ttc is not being fair

Anyways, happy easter to you all ! Looking forward to eating my galaxy easter egg I made OH buy me lol

It's good to hear from you! No I haven't tested again. I don't think I will. Just makes me sad seeing negatives and I'm fairly certain I haven't ovulated yet.

Wow that sounds so confusing and frustrating I'm so sorry I think you have every right to feel that way. It's so hard not knowing what our body is doing especially when TTC try to relax this weekend and eat lots of chocolate!

What's a galaxy Easter egg?

 

[mimdan]

Well thats fair enough hun, I dont know how many tests and money I've wasted this cycle...talk about desperation yea bfn suck BIG TIME so I'm with you on not testing but how long I'll last is a different matter ..are you planning on buying anymore opks or are you just waiting it out.

I hate getting down about it all as I know it will happen when its meant to so yes your right maybe I really should just switch off from it all for a while and relax as best I can...hard to do when your cramping though Lol

Galaxy...is a brand of chocolate here in the UK it is (in my opinion) the best chocolate out there, better than cadburys ! Silky smooth creamy milk chocolate mmmmm so yummy !

 

[traceyAndLee]

Thanks for some info girls, I'm at my mums for the weekend be back home Monday, Iay take a ov test and see how it go from there and also usey soft cups after we bd likeminded last time, what's vitamins are you girl taking??? X

 

[traceyAndLee]

Well thats fair enough hun, I dont know how many tests and money I've wasted this cycle...talk about desperation yea bfn suck BIG TIME so I'm with you on not testing but how long I'll last is a different matter ..are you planning on buying anymore opks or are you just waiting it out.

I hate getting down about it all as I know it will happen when its meant to so yes your right maybe I really should just switch off from it all for a while and relax as best I can...hard to do when your cramping though Lol

Galaxy...is a brand of chocolate here in the UK it is (in my opinion) the best chocolate out there, better than cadburys ! Silky smooth creamy milk chocolate mmmmm so yummy !

Oooh don't for get Galaxy cookie mmmm so fit x

 

[happynewmom1]

Well thats fair enough hun, I dont know how many tests and money I've wasted this cycle...talk about desperation yea bfn suck BIG TIME so I'm with you on not testing but how long I'll last is a different matter ..are you planning on buying anymore opks or are you just waiting it out.

I hate getting down about it all as I know it will happen when its meant to so yes your right maybe I really should just switch off from it all for a while and relax as best I can...hard to do when your cramping though Lol

Galaxy...is a brand of chocolate here in the UK it is (in my opinion) the best chocolate out there, better than cadburys ! Silky smooth creamy milk chocolate mmmmm so yummy !

I've never actually used opk strips.. Did you say you do? I'm not positive how to use them tbh but thinking they might help. I dunno. A couple things were making me wanna take a pregnancy test today but trying to tell myself anything I'm feeling is likely my hormones going nuts lol I can definitely be a poas addict so I totally get it!

Welll Yeah.. If you have cramps it would be really hard to switch off. I know it's not something we can just forget about or not think about. It is always on the back of our minds no matter what we do..but do try to enjoy family and chocolate this weekend

Wow.. I wish we had those! I've heard Cadbury chocolate is amazing so that must truly be good chocolate! Jealous! Chocolate is one of my weaknesses for sure lol

Tracey - I'm taking prenatal vitamins and I will be getting some fish oil/omega 3. The cycle I got pregnant on this last time I had just started taking the fish oil and I had a crazy amount of ewcm and it's actually all I was taking at the time so I figure it won't hurt to start it again. I'm terrible at remembering to take vitamins so I keep it at a minimum lol

 

[Eclaire]

Hello all.

Happynewmom I had tons of watery cm shortly after I stopped bleeding from the mc. It seemed really weird. But that stuff must be great since I did the day before it started and I think ovulated 5 days later and by some miracle got my unexpected bfp. Get on your man!

Mimdan I am doing okay. Really tired. Lots of pulling, cramping and lower back pain. My dd won't leave me alone. This constantly touching my chest. She even put her doll up against my chest this afternoon. She also wants nothing to do with my husband, which has happened with every pregnancy. I still haven't told him, but I think he knows something is up. I will tell him tomorrow. The only down side is that I was hoping to get the numbers from my second betas Friday afternoon so I could share them with hubby and put both our minds at ease. Unfortunately they weren't in yet so now I have to wait until Monday for the results. Not knowing is making me a nervous wreck.

Hope everyone else is having a good weekend.

 

[happynewmom1]

Hello all.

Happynewmom I had tons of watery cm shortly after I stopped bleeding from the mc. It seemed really weird. But that stuff must be great since I did the day before it started and I think ovulated 5 days later and by some miracle got my unexpected bfp. Get on your man!

Mimdan I am doing okay. Really tired. Lots of pulling, cramping and lower back pain. My dd won't leave me alone. This constantly touching my chest. She even put her doll up against my chest this afternoon. She also wants nothing to do with my husband, which has happened with every pregnancy. I still haven't told him, but I think he knows something is up. I will tell him tomorrow. The only down side is that I was hoping to get the numbers from my second betas Friday afternoon so I could share them with hubby and put both our minds at ease. Unfortunately they weren't in yet so now I have to wait until Monday for the results. Not knowing is making me a nervous wreck.

Hope everyone else is having a good weekend.

Ohhh that is great to know!!! I'll have to get some bd action going tonight.. Not that I'm sure he would complain or anything

Ah that must be so incredibly nerve wracking!! Praying everything comes back with good numbers! Fx for you!

 

[mimdan]

Thanks for some info girls, I'm at my mums for the weekend be back home Monday, Iay take a ov test and see how it go from there and also usey soft cups after we bd likeminded last time, what's vitamins are you girl taking??? X

Hi Tracey Hope your having a nice weekend at your mums. I'm taking prenatal, Pregnacare conception...make your pee green Lol what about you ?

I haven't tried the Galaxy cookies...I sooo should !

 

[mimdan]

Well thats fair enough hun, I dont know how many tests and money I've wasted this cycle...talk about desperation yea bfn suck BIG TIME so I'm with you on not testing but how long I'll last is a different matter ..are you planning on buying anymore opks or are you just waiting it out.

I hate getting down about it all as I know it will happen when its meant to so yes your right maybe I really should just switch off from it all for a while and relax as best I can...hard to do when your cramping though Lol

Galaxy...is a brand of chocolate here in the UK it is (in my opinion) the best chocolate out there, better than cadburys ! Silky smooth creamy milk chocolate mmmmm so yummy !

I've never actually used opk strips.. Did you say you do? I'm not positive how to use them tbh but thinking they might help. I dunno. A couple things were making me wanna take a pregnancy test today but trying to tell myself anything I'm feeling is likely my hormones going nuts lol I can definitely be a poas addict so I totally get it!

Welll Yeah.. If you have cramps it would be really hard to switch off. I know it's not something we can just forget about or not think about. It is always on the back of our minds no matter what we do..but do try to enjoy family and chocolate this weekend

Wow.. I wish we had those! I've heard Cadbury chocolate is amazing so that must truly be good chocolate! Jealous! Chocolate is one of my weaknesses for sure lol

Tracey - I'm taking prenatal vitamins and I will be getting some fish oil/omega 3. The cycle I got pregnant on this last time I had just started taking the fish oil and I had a crazy amount of ewcm and it's actually all I was taking at the time so I figure it won't hurt to start it again. I'm terrible at remembering to take vitamins so I keep it at a minimum lol

Morning Happy...No I dont use opks hun, I have read a lot of ladies with PCOS dont have much luck with them as they always get two good lines on them so useless really. I keep thinking about temping but I LOVE my sleep so dont think I'd get on too well although maybe I should give it a try next cycle, will have to read into it all though. Do you temp ?

Well I ended up having a good cry last night and ranted at my OH feeling a bit better for it today so going to take dog out for a nice long walk with OH soon which will be nice.

I take it your in the US ? What is the popular chocolate over there ? I didnt realize you dont have Cadburys !

 

[mimdan]

Hello all.

Happynewmom I had tons of watery cm shortly after I stopped bleeding from the mc. It seemed really weird. But that stuff must be great since I did the day before it started and I think ovulated 5 days later and by some miracle got my unexpected bfp. Get on your man!

Mimdan I am doing okay. Really tired. Lots of pulling, cramping and lower back pain. My dd won't leave me alone. This constantly touching my chest. She even put her doll up against my chest this afternoon. She also wants nothing to do with my husband, which has happened with every pregnancy. I still haven't told him, but I think he knows something is up. I will tell him tomorrow. The only down side is that I was hoping to get the numbers from my second betas Friday afternoon so I could share them with hubby and put both our minds at ease. Unfortunately they weren't in yet so now I have to wait until Monday for the results. Not knowing is making me a nervous wreck.

Hope everyone else is having a good weekend.

Hi Eclaire Glad you are feeling OK...those pregnacy symptoms sound promising I loved my sore boobies when I got my bfp lol but they weren't excruciating so I guess when they are VERY sore its not much fun.

I admire you for not telling OH yet Lol it must be hard not to spill the news ! Are you still planning to do the easter egg thing ?

I'm not going to tell you to not worry about numbers because I know its next to impossible..but I think you will be fine and I cant wait to read your update...sorry you have to wait longer than planned though, always a pain

 

[mimdan]

Oh and just for record I'm CD45 today

 

[happynewmom1]

Well thats fair enough hun, I dont know how many tests and money I've wasted this cycle...talk about desperation yea bfn suck BIG TIME so I'm with you on not testing but how long I'll last is a different matter ..are you planning on buying anymore opks or are you just waiting it out.

I hate getting down about it all as I know it will happen when its meant to so yes your right maybe I really should just switch off from it all for a while and relax as best I can...hard to do when your cramping though Lol

Galaxy...is a brand of chocolate here in the UK it is (in my opinion) the best chocolate out there, better than cadburys ! Silky smooth creamy milk chocolate mmmmm so yummy !

I've never actually used opk strips.. Did you say you do? I'm not positive how to use them tbh but thinking they might help. I dunno. A couple things were making me wanna take a pregnancy test today but trying to tell myself anything I'm feeling is likely my hormones going nuts lol I can definitely be a poas addict so I totally get it!

Welll Yeah.. If you have cramps it would be really hard to switch off. I know it's not something we can just forget about or not think about. It is always on the back of our minds no matter what we do..but do try to enjoy family and chocolate this weekend

Wow.. I wish we had those! I've heard Cadbury chocolate is amazing so that must truly be good chocolate! Jealous! Chocolate is one of my weaknesses for sure lol

Tracey - I'm taking prenatal vitamins and I will be getting some fish oil/omega 3. The cycle I got pregnant on this last time I had just started taking the fish oil and I had a crazy amount of ewcm and it's actually all I was taking at the time so I figure it won't hurt to start it again. I'm terrible at remembering to take vitamins so I keep it at a minimum lol

Morning Happy...No I dont use opks hun, I have read a lot of ladies with PCOS dont have much luck with them as they always get two good lines on them so useless really. I keep thinking about temping but I LOVE my sleep so dont think I'd get on too well although maybe I should give it a try next cycle, will have to read into it all though. Do you temp ?

Well I ended up having a good cry last night and ranted at my OH feeling a bit better for it today so going to take dog out for a nice long walk with OH soon which will be nice.

I take it your in the US ? What is the popular chocolate over there ? I didnt realize you dont have Cadburys !

Oh ok gotcha! I don't temp either. I don't think I'd want to set an alarm to do that... Sleep is too precious to me lol

Awwww I'm so glad you got a chance to just let things go for a moment. It can do wonders

Yes I'm in the US so we don't have certain things. My kids have actually started watching videos on YouTube with Kinder surprise eggs and wanted some but I read they are illegal over here lol oh well I guess Hershey chocolate and reeses pieces are pretty popular. Jelly beans is the "Easter" candy here but I prefer chocolate lol

I hope you all are having an amazing Easter!

 

[Eclaire]

Happynewmom try Cost Plus World Market. They have tons of Cadbury and kinder as well as other European candy brands.

Well I told my husband in his Easter egg this morning. He wasn't feeling well so his reaction was a bit dull. He is happy that it happened, but sad about a due date in December. He feels like December birthdays get neglected. I also feel like he is a little distant. I don't think he will get attached until he knows that this one is sticky. He also said this explains some of my behaviors like my mood swings. Men.

 

[firsttimer123]

Cd21 test bfn worst Easter present

 

[happynewmom1]

Cd21 test bfn worst Easter present

I'm so sorry

Eclaire, I'll do that. Thanks! I'm sorry about your dh reaction. I'm sure it will change once he sees this is your sticky bean in there

 

[traceyAndLee]

Thanks for some info girls, I'm at my mums for the weekend be back home Monday, Iay take a ov test and see how it go from there and also usey soft cups after we bd likeminded last time, what's vitamins are you girl taking??? X

Hi Tracey Hope your having a nice weekend at your mums. I'm taking prenatal, Pregnacare conception...make your pee green Lol what about you ?

I haven't tried the Galaxy cookies...I sooo should !

I'm taking b12 and mix bottle of vitamin with folic acid and Geritol some call it a baby in a bottle and ya know what the first mouth of taking it I got my BFP so taking it agen with soft cups, I know I havnt pee in any sticks but iv got bad very bad ovulation pains I get th all the tim but I didn't know was going to ovulati this week we have dune the deed so hoping it Gos all well this time hope everyone is well and good luck girls xxx

 

[oox_tasha_xoo]

Hi everyone, been umming and ahhing about whether to join in. Im currently suffering a miscarriage (bleeding started on 2/4). I was 5 weeks. I have a scan on tuesday to make sure everything has come away properly. I'm not 100% sure what my plans are now but im fairly sure at the moment to try before my next af. x

 

[happynewmom1]

Hi everyone, been umming and ahhing about whether to join in. Im currently suffering a miscarriage (bleeding started on 2/4). I was 5 weeks. I have a scan on tuesday to make sure everything has come away properly. I'm not 100% sure what my plans are now but im fairly sure at the moment to try before my next af. x

I'm so so sorry for what you are going through I'm glad you decided to join in! We are here for you if you need to vent or wanna symptom spot with us later or anything really. The ladies here are so sweet. I so want to see everyone get a bfp soon. Much hugs to you and fx you get your sticky bean soon

 

[oox_tasha_xoo]

Hi everyone, been umming and ahhing about whether to join in. Im currently suffering a miscarriage (bleeding started on 2/4). I was 5 weeks. I have a scan on tuesday to make sure everything has come away properly. I'm not 100% sure what my plans are now but im fairly sure at the moment to try before my next af. x

I'm so so sorry for what you are going through I'm glad you decided to join in! We are here for you if you need to vent or wanna symptom spot with us later or anything really. The ladies here are so sweet. I so want to see everyone get a bfp soon. Much hugs to you and fx you get your sticky bean soon

Thankyou, iv been reading through and everyone seems so lovely and supportive. Hope we all get our bfp's soon x