TTC after miscarriage before AF

[mimdan]

Hi Girls...I got my BFP on Monday evening on 16th Feb, miscarried on the Friday 20th...3 days of heavy bleeding 3 days of spotting and nothing since..I did have a blood test done but doctor said HCG was too low to call the pregancy viable so what with that and the bleeding (and test line not getting much darker) I didnt go back to doc for 2nd test just to have confirmed what I already knew...I wanted to ttc straight away and that is what I have been doing..I havent tested since miscarriage as I peed on all the tests I had Lol but should have some ics arriving tomorrow..hoping its either neg or a new BFP, although I think it would be too early for BFP ( its been 12 days since miscarriage)...anyway thought a few ttc buddies would be nice so if anyone would like to join me, please do ...sorry for your losses girls and good luck TTC x

 

[Blu10]

Hi mimidan, cant say were TTC pre AF but we did DTD at the weekend and i had signs i may be ovulating. I had a MMC at 10 weeks and D&C at 12 weeks.
I hope there is truth is the extra fertile after a loss comments x

 

[mimdan]

Hi Blu

Hope your ok, Sorry for your loss

So have you had a cycle since MC or your NTNP since MC...I'm more of a NTNP ttc'er, I'd get too stressed/obsessed with all the tracking and temping etc plus I have PCOS so opks are pretty useless anyway. Do you use opks ?

FX you did OV and you catch that eggy ! Best of luck to you x

Yea I've read so many posts on women conceiving straight after MC so I hope we can be lucky too ! Hard not to get too hopefull though isnt it

 

[firsttimer123]

Hey Mimdan we are trying before first af too.... Hoping for a bfp in a few weeks if not then take it as a sign my body isn't quite ready

 

[mimdan]

Hi there firsttimer !

Sorry for your loss Lets hope this is a lucky thread !! keep us updated with how you get on

Good luck hun x

 

[mimdan]

Hello there, well I just peed on an ic and its negative...so atleast now if I see a BFP I'll know its a new PG, heres hoping...shall test again with FMU and then every so often while waiting for AF.

How are you doing blu and firsttimer ? Hope your both well x

 

[firsttimer123]

Still haven't had a positive opk.... They were getting darker but today lighter! Maybe I missed it but have been bding since bleeding stopped. Hopefully we get our bfp soon!!!!

 

[mimdan]

I sooo hope so firsttimer, we've been bd'ing since bleeding stopped too ...are you going to continue to track ov just incase ? Have you any other signs of ov ?

I'm not too sure what my body is doing at mo...OV/AF/PG ??...been having little sharp shooting pains on and off in breasts for 3/4 days and they hurt if my partner or children lean on them, a few twinges in ovary area on both sides, I think I felt a bit of cramping in uterus on left side today but could of imagined it, and I'm feeling a bit teary today ! Its been 14 days since MC started and 8 days since i last spotted so I'm thinking it must be OV, only time will tell x

 

[firsttimer123]

Yep will continue to track... Haven't had a change in cm yet so maybe it's still to come!!

 

[Blu10]

I suppose we NTNP too, ive never temped or used OPKs but i do get ovulation pain and EWCM so we tend to bed more then.
Im still waitibg for AF, had D&C 13th Feb xx

 

[mimdan]

Hi girls, hows it going today ? Anymore signs of ov or Af ? My boobs are still a bit sore, mainly on the sides so got a feeling AF will be here in next week or two...done another ic this morn, definate neg

 

[firsttimer123]

Mimdan what is an ic?

 

[mimdan]

Sorry hun..IC means internet cheapie which is a cheap home pregnacy test...because I didnt get second bloods done after MC I ordered some ics to check I'm back to negative..hope that makes sense x

 

[firsttimer123]

Oh ok makes sense! So many acronyms!! I had a beta of 5 going into my d&c so I'm assuming it's 0!

 

[mimdan]

I know what you mean ! Lol I remember having to google quite a bit to find out what everyone was talking about when i first came onto ttc sites AF ? LO ? IC ? BFP ? BFN ?

I hope you dont mind me asking but what is a D&C like ? Whats the procedure ? And does it hurt at all ? I think it sounds awful but then I'm someone who doesnt like the feel of smears...if you'd rather not talk about it I understand I'm just curious

 

[kariss]

Hi, can I join? 😊

I too miscarried recently started on the 16th feb - went for a scan on the 24th to be told almost everything had come away 😔
Bleeding only just stopped yesterday. Me and my partner also want to start trying as soon as possible and not wait for first AF, however I have decided to give ov tests a miss this round as I get myself too worked up lol.

Good luck to everyone trying!!

 

[firsttimer123]

Hey mimdan.... D&c was nothing compared to taking misoprostal! So for the procedure.... It's a day surgery so no eAting, you go to hospital, get an iv (no big deal!), then you are put under local anesthetic .... I feel asleep in operating room and woke up in recovery.... It was scary being in operating room but it's a simple surgery.... I had very little pain afterwards and bleed for a few days.... After my experience I think I will opt for d&c just bc I bled for so long after misoprostal went through the pain and had to have d&c anyways!

 

[firsttimer123]

No more opks for me this cycle and never got a positive... Hmm

 

[mimdan]

Hi, can I join? 😊

I too miscarried recently started on the 16th feb - went for a scan on the 24th to be told almost everything had come away 😔
Bleeding only just stopped yesterday. Me and my partner also want to start trying as soon as possible and not wait for first AF, however I have decided to give ov tests a miss this round as I get myself too worked up lol.

Good luck to everyone trying!!

Hi Karris ! Nice of you to join

Very sorry to hear of your loss how are you feeling today ?

Good luck for this cycle. I hope to hear you get another BFP very soon

 

[mimdan]

Hey mimdan.... D&c was nothing compared to taking misoprostal! So for the procedure.... It's a day surgery so no eAting, you go to hospital, get an iv (no big deal!), then you are put under local anesthetic .... I feel asleep in operating room and woke up in recovery.... It was scary being in operating room but it's a simple surgery.... I had very little pain afterwards and bleed for a few days.... After my experience I think I will opt for d&c just bc I bled for so long after misoprostal went through the pain and had to have d&c anyways!

Hello Firsttimer How are you today ?

Thank you for sharing your experience with me I'm sorry you had to go through it, thank god they use local anesthetic though ! Yes I have read a few stories about misoprostal that are simular to yours it certainly sounds like more of a hindrance than a help

How come no more OPKS for you this cycle ? Have you none left or have you decided to have a break from it ? Maybe ov already happened before you tested ? Or like you say maybe its still to come