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Hi all,
What are your views on making holiday plans when TTC? Most of mine and OH's friends are turning 30 next year and in the last week I've already had 2 invitations to birthday weekends in Amsterdam! One for March and one for October so I could potentially have just given birth by Oct and be unable to go.
Normal holidays with OH or friends I would still book and go ahead with, but these 2 holidays will be full of partying and i would almost definitely be the only pregnant person there. If I'm pregnant by then of course!
I don't want to book and feel bound but i don't want to give it a miss and then miss out if I'm not pregnant and it will be a reminder that i am not yet pregnant too.
Atm I'm going to decline the one in Oct as it's too far ahead to think about and I don't know her that well anyway and I'm veering towards not going on the March one as it's a hostel known for partying (it's so fun I've stayed there before!) although OH is going too and has offered to get a hotel with me if I'm pregnant which could work and would be fab! Must explore this option!
How do you guys deal with future plans that might not work so well if you were pregnant?
What are your views on making holiday plans when TTC? Most of mine and OH's friends are turning 30 next year and in the last week I've already had 2 invitations to birthday weekends in Amsterdam! One for March and one for October so I could potentially have just given birth by Oct and be unable to go.
Normal holidays with OH or friends I would still book and go ahead with, but these 2 holidays will be full of partying and i would almost definitely be the only pregnant person there. If I'm pregnant by then of course!
I don't want to book and feel bound but i don't want to give it a miss and then miss out if I'm not pregnant and it will be a reminder that i am not yet pregnant too.
Atm I'm going to decline the one in Oct as it's too far ahead to think about and I don't know her that well anyway and I'm veering towards not going on the March one as it's a hostel known for partying (it's so fun I've stayed there before!) although OH is going too and has offered to get a hotel with me if I'm pregnant which could work and would be fab! Must explore this option!
How do you guys deal with future plans that might not work so well if you were pregnant?