TTC following Clomid miscarriage

[MamaElla003]

I got pregnant with my second cycle of Clomid. Unfortunately, it ended with D&C. My DP and I will go TTC again once I get my period back!

 

[Buttercup_Way]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
Lots of luck with your next round of Clomid. Hopefully you will get your AF very soon so you can start to TTC again!

 

[MamaElla003]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
Lots of luck with your next round of Clomid. Hopefully you will get your AF very soon so you can start to TTC again!

Thank you so much! this forum has been my haven for the past few days. I had my D&C last Saturday and I'm still in pain, physically and emotionally. Good thing I found you guysss!

 

[Buttercup_Way]

I also found these forums such a support during my MMC in January. Met a wonderful girl on here going through the exact same thing and shes helped pull me through!

As im sure you have read in our previous posts i am currently pregnant, 5w4d with an early scan on Monday from my 2nd round of Clomid - Try and see it as reassurance that it can happen soon after a D&C! Took 5 weeks for my AF to arrive and i fell 2 weeks later!

The pain both emotionally and physically does ease, but it takes time. If you have any worries or just need to talk then dont hesitate to get in touch!

 

[MamaElla003]

I also found these forums such a support during my MMC in January. Met a wonderful girl on here going through the exact same thing and shes helped pull me through!

As im sure you have read in our previous posts i am currently pregnant, 5w4d with an early scan on Monday from my 2nd round of Clomid - Try and see it as reassurance that it can happen soon after a D&C! Took 5 weeks for my AF to arrive and i fell 2 weeks later!

The pain both emotionally and physically does ease, but it takes time. If you have any worries or just need to talk then dont hesitate to get in touch!

I forgot to say CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm wishing you a Healthy pregnancy for the next 34 weeks!!!

Your message made me cry, in a good way! Just when I'm about to lose hope, you came and saved me. I'm not even exaggerating! THANK YOU!!!

 

[Buttercup_Way]

Bless your heart! There is no need to thank me, i'm so pleased i was able to help!

Its always a huge support to talk to someone who is going through or has been through the same thing... Gives us all a little hope and courage in dealing with the heartache.

I have a subscription to this thread so anytime you feel down ill do my best to come online and offer as much support as possible!

It was only January i had my D&C and i remember it like it was yesterday! We will never forget the angel we lost but Clomid in my eyes, and im sure yours, is a miracle medicine!! You fell pregnant on your 2nd round, thats really great... So you know it can happen. Some people say a MC is the bodys way of preparing you for a very healthy pregnancy! I tried looking at it in a similar way - If my first baby had continued to grow with the problems it obviously had, it would have made things so much harder later down the line! Try and be positive!! The first few months after a MC are apparently your most fertile!!! Lets hold on to that hope for you!!

Right i best go cook my OH's dinner! Take care... Hopefully speak soon!

 

[MamaElla003]

Bless your heart! There is no need to thank me, i'm so pleased i was able to help!

Its always a huge support to talk to someone who is going through or has been through the same thing... Gives us all a little hope and courage in dealing with the heartache.

I have a subscription to this thread so anytime you feel down ill do my best to come online and offer as much support as possible!

It was only January i had my D&C and i remember it like it was yesterday! We will never forget the angel we lost but Clomid in my eyes, and im sure yours, is a miracle medicine!! You fell pregnant on your 2nd round, thats really great... So you know it can happen. Some people say a MC is the bodys way of preparing you for a very healthy pregnancy! I tried looking at it in a similar way - If my first baby had continued to grow with the problems it obviously had, it would have made things so much harder later down the line! Try and be positive!! The first few months after a MC are apparently your most fertile!!! Lets hold on to that hope for you!!

Right i best go cook my OH's dinner! Take care... Hopefully speak soon!

Aww, thank you so much! I'm trying to look at it that way, too! I'm only 22 but the doctor said my clock is ticking and my only shot at having babies is to do it now. (Severe PCOS). My dad got mad at me for a little while when I told him I was pregnant last February, but he hugged me after about an hour! BUT NOW, I have his and my mother's blessing! They told me that they're willing to do anything to make all of these possible.

I told my DP and my mother about this site and they told me to stick around, and I WILL!!! This is my first night here and I've already had my share of tears of hope and joy because of the thoughtfulness and love of all the people here, most specially of people like you! May God bless you and your baby all the time. Again, thank you!!

Take care while preparing for dinner!! Talk to you soon!

 

[Buttercup_Way]

Hey Ladies,

Loup89 - How are doing? Any sign of AF yet? Been keeping my fingers crossed for you!

MamaElla003 - How are you feeling? Hope your okay! Lovely to read above that you have your Mum and Dads support - Provides such comfort knowing you have family there for you... Sorry to hear you have severe PCOS, i dont have this im afraid so dont know too much about it. You wouldnt think at 22 your clock would be ticking, but you are in the right hands and gotta look forward to taking your next round of Clomid!
Im 27 so having been trying for over 3 and a half years has felt like a lifetime!! Praying this one sticks!!

Hope to hear from you both soon! Take care X

 

[Loup89]

I'm been trying to find time to get on here and see how you're doing but work has got me this week, I'm shattered!

Well something very weird is happening! No af, no bfp BUT I've been having ewcm for past few days and pains on my left side, I decided not to look too much into it but then yesterday I got really sore boobs which like I said before I get up to 2 weeks before af! I wish my body would make sense sometimes but oh well!

More importantly how are you feeling? Have you had anymore pain? I've been thinking of you lovely x

MamaElla003 - sorry to see you've suffered a loss too, I also have pcos and had a mc in december but I've found such support on here and trying to look ahead now

 

[Buttercup_Way]

Good to hear from you! Symptoms sounding hopeful, sore breasts can mean both AF & pregnancy so you never know. How many days into ur cycle are you now? Remember you saying it wasn't until later on you got your BFP.
I really do have my fingers crossed for you!

I'm still not great, pain gets worse and comes in waves. I feel quite faint at times too with accompanied shoulder pain. Trying to hold out until our scan on Monday but we are both preparing for the worse. Even our FS said we can't rule the ectopic out! Going in for blood tests tomorrow as I have to check for anti bodies in my system to rule out the chance of getting this Parvovirus B19! Been in contact with someone at work who has it - So angry she was allowed to come in and put someone pregnant at risk! Just adds to it all atm!

Would love to hear some gd news from u!! R u planning on seeing ur GP soon? Seeing as its been a while since ur last AF.

Again, so good to hear from you! Xx

 

[Loup89]

Sorry to hear you're still in pain hun Its so frustrating, you see so many women getting pregnant so easily and having what seems to be an easy pregnancy but not only do we have to wait years we have to go through all this stress as well just doesn't seem fair sometimes but I have everything crossed for you, please keep me updated on what happens Monday. I used to work in a restaurant quite a few years back and the amount of people coming in with various illnesses used to really wind me up, they'd be serving elderly and pregnant women with no consideration at all. Good luck for tomorrow, how long until you get the results back for the blood test?

AFM - I'm beginning to think that maybe I'm ovulating now? I definitely don't think I'm pregnant and I never ever get ewcm, because I don't ovulate on my own. Its only a possibility and I'm not sure if what ovulating this late means for getting pregnant but gotta try and keep my hopes up! x

 

[Buttercup_Way]

Blood taken, need to wait about a week for results so will call on Wednesday! Im hoping its a virus im already immune too because apparently most would have been exposed to it as a child. I know what you mean about people coming in with various illnesses inflicting them onto others - Others who are vulnerable - Isnt right!

So, you think you could be ovulating? So late as well.. But then your cycles are all over the place, especially after a miscarriage! This could be a little hope for you... If you can start to DTD as much as you can for a bit. Every other day or so perhaps? I think thats what they recommend then at least your giving it everything you can.
Might pay to start tracking your BBT - So many women use them, they are meant to be great. They will tell you when you have ovulated as there is quite a dip on the chart.
Such a nuisance that we struggle with OPK's!!
I know you dont want to get your hopes up, i do know how you feel but its not over until AF shows.. So you just dont know. Maybe seeing the Doc might help, possibly get some bloods taken or... I actually had a scan booked for a week after AF was due, if i hadnt had it yet and was getting BFNs. Basically the scan was booked in to see what was stopping AF from coming.. My FS also told me that she can see from the scan if AF is nearly ready to start... Might be worth asking about.

So apart from all this worry, stress and general feeling like everyone else out there has it so easy lol - How are you? How are your Wedding plans coming along?
I had my last dress fitting on Tue! All sorted now... I am wearing a Mori Lee 4816 if you fancied googling it - Very pretty but so not me! Then again like everyone says, on your Wedding day its good to go with something different...! I do feel a bit of a marshmellow though!! Im a size 8 but its had to be taken in so i just hope it fits next Friday! Lol!

Look forward to hearing from you soon!

 

[Loup89]

We were advised to dtd every other day and we've so far managed that for the past week, not sure how I've been so busy with work I feel exhausted!
I still don't know whats going on but at the moment I don't even have time for a drs appointment (maybe I'm trying to find excuses lol) but I will give it one more week and then book in.

I also bought a thermometer and was going to start tracking my bbt from beginning of next cycle, didn't know if starting mid way would show anything.

Oh wow, your dress is AMAZING! I wish I could get away with something like that, I wasn't brave enough and mine is quite simple, I'll try and see if I can find it online. Plans are coming along ok, I've no motivation to do the invites though, its such a boring job to do after the first 10 lol. How about you? Are you all set? What date is it you're getting married?
Have you thought about people guessing you're pregnant if your not drinking or anything? When I was pregnant before christmas and everyone was going for drinks I found it quite hard to keep it quiet, in the end I said wine had been giving me really bad hangovers so I was drinking 'vodka' & coke haha.

Hope you're feeling better now, still got everything crossed for you xx

 

[Buttercup_Way]

Work is keeping you pretty busy then! Least in a way its making time fly by for you. Great that your dtd every other day - Lets hope you are Ov'ing late - Keep your wits about you for implantation pain!
Though saying that the 2 times ive fallen ive never detected this!

I started my BBT tracking randomly in my cycle and saw it gradually to go up and at one point dramatically increase... Really just tried to get used to it and track until my period. See if your temp detected when AF was due.

Im sure your dress is stunning! We sent our invites out at the very last min lol! Was a boring and tedious job to undertake!
Everything set - Nothing left to do really - Wedding is 29 March... Too late now if ive forgotten anything lol.

I dont drink alcohol anyway so no one will suspect anything. But i do like your idea!! Vodka and coke - Nice little trick.

Been so emotional lately, cried my eyes out today, yesterday i was in such a strop! Up and down completely - Hope this passes, ill either cry like a baby at the wedding or smack someone lol!

Hope work calms down a bit for you, get lots of

 

[qwerty310]

Hi buttercup! i've been following your posts today. congrats to you! i hope that your scan went well and everything looks healthy and happy.

 

[Buttercup_Way]

Hi buttercup! i've been following your posts today. congrats to you! i hope that your scan went well and everything looks healthy and happy.

Really sweet of you to post thank you!

Scan went okay - After what seemed like a lifetime trying to find any sign of a baby we had giving up hope and both looked away from the screen - Then one of the senior nurses came in and we expected the worse... But luckily she did a scan from inside and there was a little tiny baby - Very small, only about 5 and a half - 6 weeks but due to its position we couldnt really get a good enough view of it. So she has booked us in for 2 weeks time to have another scan. Im just hoping now that it was too early to see anything and all we can do is pray the next one shows development.

How are you? Are you in a similar position?

X

 

[qwerty310]

Hi buttercup! i've been following your posts today. congrats to you! i hope that your scan went well and everything looks healthy and happy.

Really sweet of you to post thank you!

Scan went okay - After what seemed like a lifetime trying to find any sign of a baby we had giving up hope and both looked away from the screen - Then one of the senior nurses came in and we expected the worse... But luckily she did a scan from inside and there was a little tiny baby - Very small, only about 5 and a half - 6 weeks but due to its position we couldnt really get a good enough view of it. So she has booked us in for 2 weeks time to have another scan. Im just hoping now that it was too early to see anything and all we can do is pray the next one shows development.

How are you? Are you in a similar position?

X

My heart goes out to you! Take good care of yourself these next few weeks ... You've had a long run! My husband and I have been ttc for about a year now and we started clomid this spring with IUI. I'm one week into my tww and your posts were helpful in figuring out what we feel at the beginning. Keep me posted and good luck to you!

 

[Loup89]

I'm so glad to hear your scan went ok! Just try and stay positive now, I'm sure it will all work out for you & what great news in time for your wedding! You must be so excited!! I hope you have an amazing day and everything goes perfectly, I want to hear all about it xx
Are you going on a honeymoon?

AFM - I'm getting cramping pain today, nothing too bad though so I have decided to wait until Wednesday morning if af hasn't arrived do a hpt and if I still get BFN then book in to see my doctor, I wont be able to squeeze in any time before that.

 

[Buttercup_Way]

Hey!
Sorry ive been so long getting in touch. Busy few weeks.
Wedding went well - My hormones are all over the place though so it did have a huge effect on me. I was shattered by 9pm and spent most of evening sat on a comfy chair in a room away from the music!
But the day itself was lovely, everyone enjoyed themselves and we had a lovely stay in a beautiful hotel! We got back from London yesterday as a short break/honeymoon! I have blisters all over my feet and the sickness i had whilst away was awful! So its lovely to be home!

How are you getting on? Any news? Did you manage to book in a doctors apt?
I have my scan on Tuesday so im in 2 minds, anxious and excited! Pray we see something. My thinking is that if i have all these symptoms then something is working as i had nothing with the first pregnancy! Guess you just never know though!

Hope to hear from you soon with hopefully a good update!

X

 

[Loup89]

Hi lovely,

Glad you had a nice day even if you were tired, to be fair that will be me pregnant or not
I would give anything to feel pregnant right now, feeling quite down at the moment. AF arrived 2nd April, I wasn't at home so I didn't get to start clomid until day 3 but that should be ok so now I'm just waiting againnn! my OH goes away this weekend and we haven't BD in a few days so I'm hoping I don't ovulate until hes back! If this cycle doesn't work I'm out of clomid so will be back to gp or fs to see what to do next!

I haven't been on here much lately either, I'm having a bit of a rough time a few people at my work have caused me a whole lot of trouble at home and work, it even caused me to have a panic attack on Monday so I've had to try and not stress myself with anything.

How are you feeling now? and how did the scan go? I have been thinking of you and hoping for the best xx