Buttercup_Way
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I'm sorry to hear your having such a bad time at the moment! You poor thing, work and the stress of ttc can certainly start taking their toll. I remember all those years of praying AF doesn't come and having to face her when she did! The disappointment was always heart wrenching.
On a plus side, as far away as it seems from any positive thoughts, at least you have now had a period! You wouldn't have wanted to go another 3 months waiting and putting a baby on hold some more. Remember they do say its better to leave ttc until at least 2 periods so lets just hope and pray for this time to work!
May be a blessing in disguise that you have taken Clomid a day late! Some people are so varied, 2-6/ 3-7/ 5-9 and they must all have some relevance into the timing of ovulation. Do you think your FS may consider doubling your dosage? Going from 50mg - 100mg? Im not sure why they put some women on a higher dose but there must be a reason that doctors do increase it!
If its any comfort, most women fall pregnant within the first 3 months of trying on Clomid, counting last time as 1 you have every chance to fall this time or next. A friend of my husbands, his partner was on Clomid for 6 months, last dose and she was adamant that it wouldn't work, she had basically given up any hope and took the tablets anyway so she could move on to her next fertility plan (i think doctors were going to try something else), that month, that last try, it worked! She now has a little girl, healthy and happy.
Clomid might not work every time but once its worked once there is nothing to say it wont work again. Maybe if this try doesnt work your FS might be able to do some trigger shots or extra boasts to help - Try and be positive, however hard it seems because there is so much help and and support out there and it works so well in your favour that you have fallen before! I have every faith in you... I'm sending lots of hope and baby dust your way.
I know its easy to say but try not to let work get to you! Upsetting to hear they have made you have a panic attack... Please try and look after yourself, stress is a huge factor to play in ttc. Hopefully, after these last few weeks things will get easier for you. Try and look forward to your Wedding! Give your mind something else to focus on.
Scan went okay, baby has developed for those 2 weeks but at the end of the day there is nothing to say thats enough. After all, i had a 7 week scan last time and it died 2 weeks later so i will not trust anything until a 12 week scan which isnt for another 3 weeks. I am prepared for the worst which in my opinion isnt a bad way to be, at least it wont be a huge shock if it does happen!
My thoughts are with you, i hope to hear from you soon! Fingers crossed for this round to work. Keep a track of ur BBT and when you see that dip start dtd.
Lots of hugs! Always here if you need to talk, about anything!
Keep Smiling!
I'm sorry to hear your having such a bad time at the moment! You poor thing, work and the stress of ttc can certainly start taking their toll. I remember all those years of praying AF doesn't come and having to face her when she did! The disappointment was always heart wrenching.
On a plus side, as far away as it seems from any positive thoughts, at least you have now had a period! You wouldn't have wanted to go another 3 months waiting and putting a baby on hold some more. Remember they do say its better to leave ttc until at least 2 periods so lets just hope and pray for this time to work!
May be a blessing in disguise that you have taken Clomid a day late! Some people are so varied, 2-6/ 3-7/ 5-9 and they must all have some relevance into the timing of ovulation. Do you think your FS may consider doubling your dosage? Going from 50mg - 100mg? Im not sure why they put some women on a higher dose but there must be a reason that doctors do increase it!
If its any comfort, most women fall pregnant within the first 3 months of trying on Clomid, counting last time as 1 you have every chance to fall this time or next. A friend of my husbands, his partner was on Clomid for 6 months, last dose and she was adamant that it wouldn't work, she had basically given up any hope and took the tablets anyway so she could move on to her next fertility plan (i think doctors were going to try something else), that month, that last try, it worked! She now has a little girl, healthy and happy.
Clomid might not work every time but once its worked once there is nothing to say it wont work again. Maybe if this try doesnt work your FS might be able to do some trigger shots or extra boasts to help - Try and be positive, however hard it seems because there is so much help and and support out there and it works so well in your favour that you have fallen before! I have every faith in you... I'm sending lots of hope and baby dust your way.
I know its easy to say but try not to let work get to you! Upsetting to hear they have made you have a panic attack... Please try and look after yourself, stress is a huge factor to play in ttc. Hopefully, after these last few weeks things will get easier for you. Try and look forward to your Wedding! Give your mind something else to focus on.
Scan went okay, baby has developed for those 2 weeks but at the end of the day there is nothing to say thats enough. After all, i had a 7 week scan last time and it died 2 weeks later so i will not trust anything until a 12 week scan which isnt for another 3 weeks. I am prepared for the worst which in my opinion isnt a bad way to be, at least it wont be a huge shock if it does happen!
My thoughts are with you, i hope to hear from you soon! Fingers crossed for this round to work. Keep a track of ur BBT and when you see that dip start dtd.
Lots of hugs! Always here if you need to talk, about anything!
Keep Smiling!