TTC for 9 months; frustrated

[DoubleUCN]

We have been ttc for 9 months now. My periods have been irregular since we started trying. They range from 24-28 days. On average about 26 days. I am a day late, so I got excited but it feels like I will be starting my period tonight. I recently found out my fiance has been chewing tobacco for 6 years behind my back, so I am wondering if that could be causing issues.

I have charted, BD every other day, used OPK.. What else is there I can do!?

 

[bluestars]

We have been ttc for 9 months now. My periods have been irregular since we started trying. They range from 24-28 days. On average about 26 days. I am a day late, so I got excited but it feels like I will be starting my period tonight. I recently found out my fiance has been chewing tobacco for 6 years behind my back, so I am wondering if that could be causing issues.

I have charted, BD every other day, used OPK.. What else is there I can do!?

I know how frustrating it is. I caught my OH smoking at the weekend. He told me he stopped in march. Both my OH and i use vitamins also. FX this is your lucky month

 

[DoubleUCN]

I sure hope so, but I feel like I am starting tonight. And on the smoking topic, my fiance told me he quit a month ago so I try my best to not snoop or go around him when he is working on things in case he is doing it behind my back. I would be furious if I caught him lol

 

[bluestars]

I sure hope so, but I feel like I am starting tonight. And on the smoking topic, my fiance told me he quit a month ago so I try my best to not snoop or go around him when he is working on things in case he is doing it behind my back. I would be furious if I caught him lol

I don't blame you. Its more the fact he lied. lol If he told me i wouldn't be so angry. (I probably would) but the lying is more frustrating. He says he only does it when he has a very stressful day. We will see. x

 

[DoubleUCN]

Haha exactly. They don't see that though. They think lying is the best way to go about it. Ugh men! I am still in shock that he hid chew for SIX YEARS but hopefully it isn't the reason we aren't get pregnant lol

 

[bluestars]

Haha exactly. They don't see that though. They think lying is the best way to go about it. Ugh men! I am still in shock that he hid chew for SIX YEARS but hopefully it isn't the reason we aren't get pregnant lol

It shouldn't stop you conceiving them completely. There are drug users and sorts that are able to conceive, however chewing it is really bad for his mouth. Hopefully he will cut down or even stop and that will only help improve your chances. Just wish there was something you could switch on and that would be you pregnant. Trying is so disheartening. Hate when AF comes every month! x

 

[SweetTart78]

This will be my 9 th month also, if af doesnt show for me this month.........im annoyed n frustrated already

 

[DoubleUCN]

This will be my 9 th month also, if af doesnt show for me this month.........im annoyed n frustrated already

I wish you all the luck in the world. It is very frustrating.