TTC just off the pill buddies

[MoonLove]

I'm suffering now after coming off the pill! Feel SO tired and groggy all the time - and my husband has taken this week off work and i feel so bad that i'm just being boring and sleepy!

 

[squeal]

I feel rubbish tonight, I have a headache and feel really sick

It seems that when I come from home from work I feel sick, I don't know if it's because I'm hungry or what, I've just eaten though and still feel it so maybe this is the start of morning sickness. I can cope if it's just in the evening, as long as it's not at work

Glad to see you're all feeling pretty positive.

xx

 

[Caroline:-)]

I feel rubbish tonight, I have a headache and feel really sick

It seems that when I come from home from work I feel sick, I don't know if it's because I'm hungry or what, I've just eaten though and still feel it so maybe this is the start of morning sickness. I can cope if it's just in the evening, as long as it's not at work

Glad to see you're all feeling pretty positive.

xx

Yeah, pretty positive I'm NOT pregnant, lol... Although I get hopeful and sort of convince myself with symptoms sometimes... I actually don't really believe it will ever happen... I just can't believe that something that amazing will happen to me... and even if it does, I'm convinced it will be years... I'm just really not a lucky person... Nothing happens easily, it always seems to be really hard work... but anyway, enough of feeling sorry for myself! I'm doing all I can, nothing else I can do!!!!

Aaaaw, sorry you're feeling so cr@ppy hun... But like you said, better in the evening than at work! You'd not be able to hide that you're pg for long if you were throwing up every morning!!!

And Gem, sorry you're feeling rubbish too

 

[MoonLove]

And Gem, sorry you're feeling rubbish too

Thank you for hug!



Why is my stomach cramping up like this!?

 

[squeal]

Where are you in your cycle?

 

[babycakes1982]

Hi girls, sorry I've not been on for a while. Been riding the ttc roller coaster. I have eventually got a +ve opk late last night and today (CD 31!!!). So as you can imagine I was getting very frustrated with my body! Also my skin is really bad now. So think I may go to the docs about it....

Thinking about going for some acupunture to help regulate my cycles. It was actually my OH that suggested it. I was suprised cos I didn't think he was thinking about the whole ttc thing as much as me. But he was talking to a workmate about it and the mate said his wife tried it. She is now 7 months preggers!

Anyways, how is everyone else doing? Where are you all with your cycles?
xxxx

 

[babycakes1982]

P.S Squeal how are you honey? xxx

 

[squeal]

P.S Squeal how are you honey? xxx

I'm okay thank you, although not had the best weekend. My OH has been working all weekend, finally got him to myself now.

I had a rubbish nights sleep due to potential asthma caused by the cat and possibly the dog. I went to bed at 2200 but couldn't sleep due to wheezing so I got up again and didn't go back to bed till 0200. I was still wheezing when OH came home at 0700 and still when I got up at 0930. I had a bath in the hope the steam would help me breathe which it did, but then I was sick three times after that! I'm hoping the sickness won't be turning into a daily thing.

Anyhow, feel better now, we've just watched a film and shortly we're going out with friends for a meal

So pleased you've finally got your +OPK, you've waited ages for that!! Get my fingers are tightly crossed for you! xx

 

[Caroline:-)]

Hey girls, how is everyone doing?
Evil evil evil got me yesterday so I'm out ... and I'm soooo gutted... I had a good old cry last night - feeling pretty sorry for myself! But, Cycle #4 WILL be the one!!!!
So how's everyone else doing then?!?!

 

[xsarahbellax]

Aw Caroline, that's rubbish

I plan to test on Saturday, but have full on AF symptoms, so expect she's on her way.

 

[Caroline:-)]

Aw Caroline, that's rubbish

I plan to test on Saturday, but have full on AF symptoms, so expect she's on her way.

Aaaaw, don't give up Sarah, you never know You're not out 'til nasty witchy arrives... GL

 

[Caroline:-)]

Come on guys! Where are you all?!?!?

 

[purpledragon]

bugger. Woke up yesterday with what I thought could have been implantation bleeding. Then nothing all yesterday. Then 24 hours later..... AF. That is 6 months now. It is driving me crazy. Especially with all the new babies and their photos all over facebook. Grrrrrrrr.

 

[Lou1234]

I'm around!

I think AF is due this weekend sometimes. I thought last month was a 26 day cycle but looks like I calculated wrong and it was 25 days. 25 days would make me due on today and nothing yet.

I've said to hubby I'll wait until Sunday and if hasn't shown by then, I will POAS! I know that I still have a while before I can see any pattern in my cycle days so we'll see what happens this weekend!

 

[Caroline:-)]

Aaaaaw, so sorry got you again purpledragon It's so hard isn't it... especially knowing there's nothing you can do except keep trying... It's hard to understand too - why is it that we are all timing BD exactly to give us the best possible chance... and nothing! Yet, so many people who have no clue about what time of the month they can conceive, have 1 little accident and bam, BFP?!!?? So not fair...

Hey Lou, well, fingers crossed fo you hun! You never know!!!! I don't know whether it's better or worse to not know quite when to expect AF, lol... I know my first couple of months off bcp I was the same and didn't really know... but my cycles seem to have regulated now going by the last 2 months... It's good that I know when I'm due on... but having an actual date that you are waiting for gives you even more reason to obsess!!!! Aaaarargggghhhh...
So how's married life anyway hun? All good I hope...
Good luck & I hope stays away for you! Let us know!!!

 

[Lou1234]

Married life is good!! It is the same as before in some ways but it has made us feel closer as well! He is still saying 'how's my wifey' when he phones or when I get home! It is still a novelty calling each other husband and wife!

I had the extreme urge to POAS last night and hubby just agrees with me and says that we can just buy more sticks so go and POAS! This could become an expensive habit!! It was a BFN but I should have really waited to use FMU this morning.

No AF yet but I have had very light cramps for the last few days so it feel like it is on its way and should show in the next day or so!

 

[Mandyloo]

Hi Everyone, A friend of mine sent me to this site because it helped her when she was TTC and now its my turn. I am 24 I have been married for 2 months. My DH is 36 so I am hoping that this does not have any affect on our ability to have kids. I have been taking prenatal vitamins for 6 months now and this is my frist month off of the pill! Ya! I am so excited and cannot wait for us to have cute babies running around : ) Wish me luck!

 

[squeal]

Hi MandyLoo, welcome my OH is 36 too and we had no problems so hope that reassures you, age doesn't really come into it for men, it's us women that have that time bomb!

Lou FX'd for you!

How are you today Caroline?

I had a bad night last night. I went to the toilet before I went to bed and when I wiped there was blood. We've not had sex for a couple of weeks now (how I miss it!) and there was no reason for there to be any blood. The tears just started to fall. I wiped again, and there was more. I went to bed and just cried, then my OH came to bed about an hour and a half later and I eventually managed to tell him what was wrong, he tried to reassure me etc and to think positive. I went to the toilet before I went to sleep and there was nothing, I went in the middle of the night and nothing, and there's been nothing since, but everytime I feel wet down there now I am paranoid. It's really worried me now. All I can think that could have caused it is my dog jumped on me earlier on in the evening and her paws went where my uterus would be. I'm really hoping everything is okay, the fact that I had no cramps other than normal and it was only the one/two times that I wiped makes me hopefuly that everything should still be okay.

I wish you didn't have to wait so bloody long for a scan!

 

[babycakes1982]

Hi Girls I'm still alive! I've been staying away for a while as I am becoming ttc obsessed. My AF is due today and I really think it is on it's way (cramping!). I am so frustrated with this process already. Keep thinking the worst i.e I am broken and it will never happen. Think it may just be this cycle (on CD 45!!!)


How are all of you? Where abouts are you in your cycle?

Squeal I hope you are ok too. When is your scan date?
xxxxxx

 

[Caroline:-)]

Hey babycakes!!!!! Nice to see you again stranger!
Big hugs hun it's so sh1tty isn't it... I feel exactly the same as you... Just so terrified that there's something wrong and it'll never happen... such a scary thought! It's so hard not knowing and knowing all you can do is keep trying and hope for the best!!! It's seriously getting me down too hun, so you're not alone!
Here's hoping won't arrive for you after all though! I've heard plenty of people say on here that thye're convinced AF is on the way and have cramps, etc, then get a BFP - so you never know!!! GL x

Hey Squeal, how're you doing now? All sounds very worrying for you although I'm sure it'll be fine... I have read that spotting in early pregnancy is actually quite common.... Have you been ok since? Maybe have a chat with your doctor, maybe they could push for an earlier scan if you have reason to be concerned? Hope you're ok now though lovely x

Hey Lou, glad all is going good with you guys... So... did AF arrive then hun, or are you still in with a chance for a BFP?!!?! Good luck hun!!! x

Hey Mandy, how's it going with you then hun? Congrats on your recent wedding!!!! x

Well, as for me - who bl00dy knows what's going on?!?!? I was so convinced that my cycles had reculated now after BCP... the last 2 months my cycles have only been one day apart and ov was only one day different too... The last 2 cycles I ov'd on CD15 & CD16 and I've always got the positive opk actualy on the day of Ov ... BUT, yesterday - CD11 - I think I got my positive opk! (I say think because they're never completely positive but I've read that some ic's just wont ever show a proper positive or it could be just that I only have a very short surge and I keep missing it?) But anyway, yeah, so it looks like I might have already Ov'd eben though I wasn't expecting it til Wednesday! I also had EWCM yesterday which I only ever get for one day... I had a completely white opk on CD10, what I think was the pos on CD11, and now a V faint line today on CD12!!! So I'm a bit annoyed that my cycles actually might not be settled, a bit confused because my pre-Ov temps are higher than normal too and seriously p1ssed off because we hardly BD'd because I wasn't expecting Ov so early! We BD'd yesterday (which I'd guess is when Ov was?) and then today... so I mean, we hopefully did it on one of the best days, so I'm not out, but still... so angry!!!! I really HATE this!!!!! Please let me get a BFP this time...