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[StillPraying]

Welcome jcleary! Sorry for your loss hon did they follow your levels to 0? I ask because im 4 and a half weeks post delivery and still getting positives.
Glad you and dh are getting all of the testing done.

 

[tcinks]

Hey ladies! I am glad I found this thread. It's been hard finding one that I felt "fit" what I have going on. After 2 years of TTC I got pregnant in June through IUI. I miscarried in August and had a D&C. We did genetic tissue testing, which showed a normal baby girl. So, my amazing RE ordered a ton of genetic testing and blood work. So far the only issue is I was borderline APA, which he feels doesn't need treatment at this time and my genetic test showed I am a carrier for primary hyteroxaluria Type 3, which is also not an issue unless my husband is a carrier, as well. He should have his genetic testing back early next week and we will go from there.

I STILL have not started AF after my D&C. I did not check ovulation or anything because we were not yet in the mood to really try. We definitely didn't prevent but I doubt that it happened on its own since it hasn't this whole stinking time. It has been 6 weeks since my D&C so I should be starting soon. My HCG was monitored it is went down to 0 a few weeks ago so I hope to be getting back on track soon.

I've read all the posts and I am praying and sending good vibes to you all!

Waiting for af after a miscarriage always seems like an eternity...but hopefully af won't show up and you'll end up with bfp!

 

[tcinks]

I'm trying so hard to keep myself busy until October 4th! I know that in a few days I'll be itching to test

How is everyone else doing? It's officially fall! It totally doesn't feel like it here, it's been in the 80s and 90s this week. Hot hot hot. But hopefully a cold front will come through, I'm ready for boots and sweaters and scarves!

 

[G x]

Hi ladies, hoping to join your thread, I've very recently had a MC on @ 10+5 on Sept 17th. I had bloods took on 19/8 @ 86 then again on 21/8 @ 29, midwife was really happy with the scans & blood results so DH and I have been giving the go ahead to TTC again.
The last few days I've been wanting the bleeding to go so we could start trying, so today the bleeding has gone and all I can think of is how frightened I am about trying incase it happens again.

Hope you are all well & the BFP come soon for all xx

 

[StillPraying]

Tcinks its still warm here too but the leaves are changing!

Welcome G im sorry for your loss

 

[tcinks]

Hi ladies, hoping to join your thread, I've very recently had a MC on @ 10+5 on Sept 17th. I had bloods took on 19/8 @ 86 then again on 21/8 @ 29, midwife was really happy with the scans & blood results so DH and I have been giving the go ahead to TTC again.
The last few days I've been wanting the bleeding to go so we could start trying, so today the bleeding has gone and all I can think of is how frightened I am about trying incase it happens again.

Hope you are all well & the BFP come soon for all xx

Sorry for your loss. It is so hard when you want to try but are afraid of what might happen. Don't give up though. How does dh feel?

 

[G x]

Hi ladies, hoping to join your thread, I've very recently had a MC on @ 10+5 on Sept 17th. I had bloods took on 19/8 @ 86 then again on 21/8 @ 29, midwife was really happy with the scans & blood results so DH and I have been giving the go ahead to TTC again.
The last few days I've been wanting the bleeding to go so we could start trying, so today the bleeding has gone and all I can think of is how frightened I am about trying incase it happens again.

Hope you are all well & the BFP come soon for all xx

Sorry for your loss. It is so hard when you want to try but are afraid of what might happen. Don't give up though. How does dh feel?

Thanks Tcinks, my DH has been great through all this, as soon as we got all the blood results back and midwife confirmed that's it was safe to start trying straight away, he was so ready to start, as was I while still bleeding but now the bleeding had gone the total frightened feeling has kicked in! Hopefully we will BD over weekend & it will give me the confidence back that I seem to be lacking right now.

How's are you feeling? Where are you at in your Cycle?xx

 

[tcinks]

I'm about 3dpo, so just waiting to test! We DTD a LOT more this cycle than in previous , so I'm hoping this is our month. Trying not to symptom spot too much, though.

 

[G x]

Tcinks, I'm hoping you get you BFP this cycle. Are you planning on holding off until AF is due before testing?xx

 

[StillPraying]

AF showed *sigh* here's to October :thumbsup:

 

[WishnandHopn]

Still, as much as it sucks to see AF, it means your hormones are settling back down to normal and your body is doing what it's supposed to do...new cycle, new chance to conceive your rainbow!

Welcome G and very sorry for your loss. It's definitely scary to try after loss...I am terrified of losing another one.

tcinks, yay for lots of BDing...I hope it does the trick!

AFM CD17 and I finally got a positive opk! We shouldn't really be trying until my uterine polyp is removed...but it's so hard not to try! There's hardly any space in my uterus for a fertilized egg to implant, but I can't help hoping and praying that we could beat the odds!

 

[tcinks]

AF showed *sigh* here's to October :thumbsup:

 

[tcinks]

Still, as much as it sucks to see AF, it means your hormones are settling back down to normal and your body is doing what it's supposed to do...new cycle, new chance to conceive your rainbow!

Welcome G and very sorry for your loss. It's definitely scary to try after loss...I am terrified of losing another one.

tcinks, yay for lots of BDing...I hope it does the trick!

AFM CD17 and I finally got a positive opk! We shouldn't really be trying until my uterine polyp is removed...but it's so hard not to try! There's hardly any space in my uterus for a fertilized egg to implant, but I can't help hoping and praying that we could beat the odds!

So are you guys going to go for it this cycle? 😃When are uiu you supposed to have your polyp removed?

 

[WishnandHopn]

Well we BD'd last night so I suppose that counts as trying! Even if my egg did get fertilized, it probably won't stick since the polyp acts like an IUD and prevents implantation. I have my follow-up appt with the fertility specialist on Wednesday, so I'm hoping he can book me in for surgery asap. The clock is ticking...damn clock.

 

[G x]

AF showed *sigh* here's to October :thumbsup:

Sorry AF hit you this cycle , sending you for October xx

 

[G x]

Well we BD'd last night so I suppose that counts as trying! Even if my egg did get fertilized, it probably won't stick since the polyp acts like an IUD and prevents implantation. I have my follow-up appt with the fertility specialist on Wednesday, so I'm hoping he can book me in for surgery asap. The clock is ticking...damn clock.

Hope you app goes well in Wednesday & you can get booked in to have polyp removed, do you can begin TTC.xx

 

[tcinks]

Wishn, is it dangerous to be pregnant and have the polyp, or does it just make getting pregnant more difficult?

 

[StillPraying]

Wishn how soon after you get it removed can you ttc?
Tcinks how are you doing today ma'am?
AFM tested the waters with dh on ttc in October.... he didn't really answer but when I mentioned trying to gender sway he seemed interested so maybe he'll go for that lol

 

[tcinks]

I'm okay. I've been binge watching Hulu all week, which is a nice distraction. But lately all the commercials are for Clear blue pregnancy test and women having cute announcement celebrations...and it makes me so sad. Like after 3 losses, pregnancy will never be that exciting for me. I mean of course I'm looking forward to hopefully being pregnant again at some point, but it won't be that exciting, carefree spirit like I had with my first pregnancy.

 

[StillPraying]

I totally understand that. I didnt really know what was going on my first mc, i was very young and gotten pregnant by accident. With dd1 everything was textbook simple. After my 2nd mc i was terrified the whole 1st Trimester, thinking 12 weeks was the safe mark. With my last loss i learned that just isnt true. when we get our bfps we will have to keep encouraging each other to enjoy every minute of it!