TTC/NTNP buddy?!

[babydustcass]

its a shame isnt it, they agree its time to have another baby and that they want one... but when it comes down to it, its us doing all the leg work and getting excited, then feeling the hurt and disapointment when it's not our turn.

OH has changed his tune this morning, kinda lol

 

[katiekittykat]

its a shame isnt it, they agree its time to have another baby and that they want one... but when it comes down to it, its us doing all the leg work and getting excited, then feeling the hurt and disapointment when it's not our turn.

OH has changed his tune this morning, kinda lol

My OH seemed a lot more...affectionate this morning. Maybe its the multi-vits! If that's the case I might start swapping them for Viagra

 

[3boys]

hey all! hope you are all well! I think swapping vitamins for Viagra is a great idea! lol!
Well I am good. I spent the day cleaning. I am moving my youngest boy in with his older brothers and into a "big bed" so I am hoping there wont be too much drama tonight, decided to do it today as my husband is off to the 10th so at least i can have a nap during the day!

 

[katiekittykat]

hey all! hope you are all well! I think swapping vitamins for Viagra is a great idea! lol!
Well I am good. I spent the day cleaning. I am moving my youngest boy in with his older brothers and into a "big bed" so I am hoping there wont be too much drama tonight, decided to do it today as my husband is off to the 10th so at least i can have a nap during the day!

Bless. Hope he's OK in his new 'big bed'

 

[3boys]

I hope so too, I also moved Ava into Calebs cot and packed her crib away, now i'm not sure that was a good idea, sounds like another sleepless night for me! lol! At least when i finally do conceive and have a new baby I wont have to adjust to no sleep as i havent been getting any! lol! Anyway enough about me what about you? how was your day? have you any plans for tonight?

 

[katiekittykat]

No plans at all for tonight I'm not drinking because I may or may not be ovulating (I'm not really one for drinking anyway) and I don't much feel like celebrating. And even if I was, OH is at work at 10am tomorrow morning. So just a quiet night in for us.

What about you?

 

[3boys]

yeah we have had a quiet night in so far. Watched a few movies etc. and i'm just out in the kitchen getting ice-cream but being a BnB addict i couldnt resist a sneaky peak! lol! We dont drink anyway so its no big deal staying at home and not many people want to babysit 4 children 5 and under! lol

 

[babydustcass]

its a shame isnt it, they agree its time to have another baby and that they want one... but when it comes down to it, its us doing all the leg work and getting excited, then feeling the hurt and disapointment when it's not our turn.

OH has changed his tune this morning, kinda lol

My OH seemed a lot more...affectionate this morning. Maybe its the multi-vits! If that's the case I might start swapping them for Viagra

hahaha that had me rolling, thing is mine doesnt't need viagra so much, maybe a brain transplant would do it?

Joking aside, this morning after some exmplaining, he realised how OPK and temping was important so I think I have his full support once again. Thank heavens for that, that put me on a real downer.

Happy new year everyone!!!!!!!

 

[katiekittykat]

Happy New Year to all!!

Have just counted how many times we DTD since starting TTC....10 times in 12 weeks. I think we're officially NTNP with those sorts of figures

 

[3boys]

Happy New Year to all!!

Have just counted how many times we DTD since starting TTC....10 times in 12 weeks. I think we're officially NTNP with those sorts of figures

Gosh why so little? That must be hard. I start to worry if we miss 1 day, I cant imagine what thats like for you. Have you tried talking to him? I know my husband would be clueless if it wasnt all expained to him (again and again) maybe he doesnt realise what a short time your fertile for? But in saying that it only takes 1 time in theory so lets hope you dtd at the right time! Im sure it will be fine. x x

 

[NDH]

You seem like a lovely bunch to be TTC buddies with, and my DH also considers us to be NTNP while in my mind we are TTC so I hope you don't mind if I join.

DH and I have been married just about 2 1/2 years, though we were apart recently for 6 months, and I have been hoping to get pregnant for 2 years, but we don't BD enough so not concerned about the time (from a biological standpoint anyway, but my heart has been aching the whole 2 years).

3boys, I see you want 6 kids as well. DH and I also decided when we got married that we would like 6. Since then he keeps increasing that number, thouh still doesn't seem very keen to DO something about it.

Oh, and were both 26.


Happy Ney Year all! The first is pretty much ended here, and I am off to bed now.

 

[3boys]

Welcome NDH, yes we would also love to have 6 although in saying that i cant imagine ever thinking I'm done, i wish i was normal but i just love children so much! lol! Im 26 as well so there is probably a high chance i will have more than 6 lol! Happy New year to you too! talk soon! x x

 

[katiekittykat]

Happy New Year to all!!

Have just counted how many times we DTD since starting TTC....10 times in 12 weeks. I think we're officially NTNP with those sorts of figures

Gosh why so little? That must be hard. I start to worry if we miss 1 day, I cant imagine what thats like for you. Have you tried talking to him? I know my husband would be clueless if it wasnt all expained to him (again and again) maybe he doesnt realise what a short time your fertile for? But in saying that it only takes 1 time in theory so lets hope you dtd at the right time! Im sure it will be fine. x x

I don't know why so little - I wish I did. And I've tried everything...from telling him when it's a good time (or my best guess at a good time lol), from not telling him so it doesn't seem forced, to explaining to him why we need to BD more often, to talking him through my chart and telling him what supplements I'm taking and why. He started taking multi-vits yesterday, and has indeed continued today so I thought he was starting to get on board....but last night he saw in the New Year (while I was up in bed) got hammered and slept on the sofa. I can't even get a cuddle on New Years Eve

I don't know what else to do. It's really getting me down.

 

[3boys]

Happy New Year to all!!

Have just counted how many times we DTD since starting TTC....10 times in 12 weeks. I think we're officially NTNP with those sorts of figures

Gosh why so little? That must be hard. I start to worry if we miss 1 day, I cant imagine what thats like for you. Have you tried talking to him? I know my husband would be clueless if it wasnt all expained to him (again and again) maybe he doesnt realise what a short time your fertile for? But in saying that it only takes 1 time in theory so lets hope you dtd at the right time! Im sure it will be fine. x x

I don't know why so little - I wish I did. And I've tried everything...from telling him when it's a good time (or my best guess at a good time lol), from not telling him so it doesn't seem forced, to explaining to him why we need to BD more often, to talking him through my chart and telling him what supplements I'm taking and why. He started taking multi-vits yesterday, and has indeed continued today so I thought he was starting to get on board....but last night he saw in the New Year (while I was up in bed) got hammered and slept on the sofa. I can't even get a cuddle on New Years Eve

I don't know what else to do. It's really getting me down.

I really dont know what to say to you. I think you really need to have a talk and see whats going on. But it really does only take one time and i think when we are actively ttc we tend to forget that and think that if we are not DTD every night then we dont have a chance. But when i get pregnant with Ava not only was i using contraceptive but I was also suffering from PND and was on loads of meds that left me not wanting to do anything never mind have sex. So I had a couple of drinks one night and DTD for the first time in ages and thats the night she was conceived, so dont give up hope hun, whatever month its meant to happen it wont matter if you do it once or 100 times! x x

 

[browneyedbeau]

I'd like to be your ttc buddy! we are planning on doing the same. ntnp

 

[babydustcass]

Happy New Year to all!!

Have just counted how many times we DTD since starting TTC....10 times in 12 weeks. I think we're officially NTNP with those sorts of figures

Gosh why so little? That must be hard. I start to worry if we miss 1 day, I cant imagine what thats like for you. Have you tried talking to him? I know my husband would be clueless if it wasnt all expained to him (again and again) maybe he doesnt realise what a short time your fertile for? But in saying that it only takes 1 time in theory so lets hope you dtd at the right time! Im sure it will be fine. x x

I don't know why so little - I wish I did. And I've tried everything...from telling him when it's a good time (or my best guess at a good time lol), from not telling him so it doesn't seem forced, to explaining to him why we need to BD more often, to talking him through my chart and telling him what supplements I'm taking and why. He started taking multi-vits yesterday, and has indeed continued today so I thought he was starting to get on board....but last night he saw in the New Year (while I was up in bed) got hammered and slept on the sofa. I can't even get a cuddle on New Years Eve

I don't know what else to do. It's really getting me down.

aw hun... that must be so frustrating.

I am sure you have exhausted all the avenues you can think of, but just as a suggestion have you got the stockings out? You will obviously know what he likes or maybe you could try something new and spontaneous, but my OH is a sucker for a gorgeous lacey set and heels and could never say no I am sure. I feel really weird saying that, but I don't know what else to suggest? Perhaps some sexy underwear and candles will get him in the mood? Massage oil?

 

[babydustcass]

Hi NDH, welcome to the chat

I would LOVE to have lots of babies, but my OH is not to keen on the idea of more than 3... and thats pushing it, if we have a girl next we think we will stop unless a few years down the line we are too broody not to have one more.

 

[BrEeZeY]

well AF came... :'( sadness

 

[3boys]

well AF came... :'( sadness

sorry hun, hopefully we will all do better next month! x x

 

[babydustcass]

well AF came... :'( sadness

sorry hun xxxx