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BBDreams Im sorry :hugs: she's coming after me too I just know it - if I catch her I will give her a kicking for you :growlmad:

I am due for her to appear yesterday/ today (CD31/32). Had really horrific cramps on tuesday, like I havent had before, along with really bad acid indegestion and given Ive had sore boobs for like over a week I thought she was heading for me. But cramps stopped the next day and I havent had anything like the usual slightly ones I get a few days before I start spotting.

Boobs are really killing me today, even this morning when DH gave me a hug I had to stop him hugging to hard as it hurt them :blush:

I did a test yesterday and got BFN. So she must be on her way, but no spotting or anything. Monday will be 14 DPO so she must arrive by then or I am testing again (I know, I know, unlikely but you cant help wondering!)
 
good luck waiting!! I'm due for her today/tomorrow - im 14dpo and spotting. yuck.

fx for you!!
 
She's here. I'll try to contain her so she doesn't get anyone else.xx
 
Poor your DH. Thats what always makes me worse when I see my DH get upset! I think you deserve a large vodka tonight!

My (.)(.) are soooo sore. And I swear once I finally get out of my pyjammas and put on some clothes today I wont be able to get them into my bra as they are HUGE.
 
Waitng4Baby#1 said:
Poor your DH. Thats what always makes me worse when I see my DH get upset! I think you deserve a large vodka tonight!

My (.)(.) are soooo sore. And I swear once I finally get out of my pyjammas and put on some clothes today I wont be able to get them into my bra as they are HUGE.
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Yeah I think I'm going to have a glass of wine later, and im eating plenty of junk today!!
you are right, seeing DH upset is the worst bit. And now he defo has to go to his SA, he's all worried about the results already. Keeps saying it must be his fault that we're not pregnant.

lol big boobies! Are they normally like that before af?
 
Crap Honey-sorry about the witch-she got me yesterday too. Sorry not much time to comment-I miss you all tons but have really needed as much as a getaway from preggo stuff as I can and am lucky to have most of you on my fb to keep in touch with.

Here's a quick update-had an hsg last month but it didn't help me get preggers yet. Going to give Clomid (50mg 5-9) a try for this and next two cycles. If no bfp by Jan (two years trying) we are going to go on permanent ntnp status and I guess start looking into adoption. : (

Baby dust to all my other lovelies.........hope to hear good news next time I pop in.
 
hey titi. im really really sorry the witch got you too. fx the clomid does the trick.
hope you're doing ok.xx
 
Hey Titi, sorry AF got you again - but Ive heard good things about Clomid and hopefully will do the trick for you.

HoneyBee - they are never normally huge as they are a tiny 38B. They always get sore but never likely this. DH is convinced I am pregnant and I really dont want to allow myself to believe him as Ive done this before and been very disappointed. I keep reminding myself I did a test yesterday and it was BFN so clearly the witch is around the corner.

Poor your DH. Mine was the same, we went to get our test results yesterday and he was a nervous wreck, he was convinced they wouldnt find any :spermy: in there at all.
 
Waitng4Baby#1 said:
Hey Titi, sorry AF got you again - but Ive heard good things about Clomid and hopefully will do the trick for you.

HoneyBee - they are never normally huge as they are a tiny 38B. They always get sore but never likely this. DH is convinced I am pregnant and I really dont want to allow myself to believe him as Ive done this before and been very disappointed. I keep reminding myself I did a test yesterday and it was BFN so clearly the witch is around the corner.

Poor your DH. Mine was the same, we went to get our test results yesterday and he was a nervous wreck, he was convinced they wouldnt find any :spermy: in there at all.
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How did the results go? Everything ok?
ooooh does sound promising. but like you, ive got my hopes up one too many times before. will keep my fingers crossed for you hun!! Test again soon? You hear so many stories about people that dont get bfps til after af was due.

im now convinced that I'll never be pregnant. im convinced my body kills sperm. lol.
 
honeybee28 said:
Waitng4Baby#1 said:
Hey Titi, sorry AF got you again - but Ive heard good things about Clomid and hopefully will do the trick for you.

HoneyBee - they are never normally huge as they are a tiny 38B. They always get sore but never likely this. DH is convinced I am pregnant and I really dont want to allow myself to believe him as Ive done this before and been very disappointed. I keep reminding myself I did a test yesterday and it was BFN so clearly the witch is around the corner.

Poor your DH. Mine was the same, we went to get our test results yesterday and he was a nervous wreck, he was convinced they wouldnt find any :spermy: in there at all.
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How did the results go? Everything ok?
ooooh does sound promising. but like you, ive got my hopes up one too many times before. will keep my fingers crossed for you hun!! Test again soon? You hear so many stories about people that dont get bfps til after af was due.

im now convinced that I'll never be pregnant. im convinced my body kills sperm. lol.
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Yep DH wants me to test tomorrow again so I am. Bought FR as they are supposed to be the best at detecting early so if the hormones are low it should find them. If its a BFN tomorrow AF definetly going to appear soon!!

Tests were ok. My bloods were all normal except progesterone which was 5 and should be above 15. This would indicate that I am not ovulating. BUT. Doctor was a numpty and despite me telling him I didnt usually get a +opk until CD20 he sent me for the blood test on CD22. Ive only just found out after that you should have this 7 days AFTER you O, or 7 days before AF. So its very likely given my cycles are fairly regular that I am ovulating and the test is wrong. :dohh:

DH's SA is all fine, except motility. He got 44% on the fast motility one, and I think the WHO has now change it to anything over 40 is fine. But his immobile one was 66% which is too high. Doctor was fairly rubbish and couldnt really tell us what this meant, probably means DH swimmers are largely stagnant. So what with this and the dodgy progesterone reading we have been referred to a FC. Appointment start of November and first thing they will do is repeat the tests.
 
And HoneyBee your body doesnt kill sperm hun. Your BFP has to be waiting round the corner for you. You have to believe this otherwise it all gets a bit too hard!
 
Waitng4Baby#1 said:
honeybee28 said:
Waitng4Baby#1 said:
Hey Titi, sorry AF got you again - but Ive heard good things about Clomid and hopefully will do the trick for you.

HoneyBee - they are never normally huge as they are a tiny 38B. They always get sore but never likely this. DH is convinced I am pregnant and I really dont want to allow myself to believe him as Ive done this before and been very disappointed. I keep reminding myself I did a test yesterday and it was BFN so clearly the witch is around the corner.

Poor your DH. Mine was the same, we went to get our test results yesterday and he was a nervous wreck, he was convinced they wouldnt find any :spermy: in there at all.
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How did the results go? Everything ok?
ooooh does sound promising. but like you, ive got my hopes up one too many times before. will keep my fingers crossed for you hun!! Test again soon? You hear so many stories about people that dont get bfps til after af was due.

im now convinced that I'll never be pregnant. im convinced my body kills sperm. lol.
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Yep DH wants me to test tomorrow again so I am. Bought FR as they are supposed to be the best at detecting early so if the hormones are low it should find them. If its a BFN tomorrow AF definetly going to appear soon!!

Tests were ok. My bloods were all normal except progesterone which was 5 and should be above 15. This would indicate that I am not ovulating. BUT. Doctor was a numpty and despite me telling him I didnt usually get a +opk until CD20 he sent me for the blood test on CD22. Ive only just found out after that you should have this 7 days AFTER you O, or 7 days before AF. So its very likely given my cycles are fairly regular that I am ovulating and the test is wrong. :dohh:

DH's SA is all fine, except motility. He got 44% on the fast motility one, and I think the WHO has now change it to anything over 40 is fine. But his immobile one was 66% which is too high. Doctor was fairly rubbish and couldnt really tell us what this meant, probably means DH swimmers are largely stagnant. So what with this and the dodgy progesterone reading we have been referred to a FC. Appointment start of November and first thing they will do is repeat the tests.
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yeah totally sounds like your progesterone test was done at the wrong time!! how annoying is that.
is there anything you can do to help the swimmers in the meantime? is your dh ok?
november sounds like ages away, but i bet it comes around really quickly!
 
Anna - Oh, I'm sooo very sorry. I read your posts and misunderstood. I feel like an idiot, and hope you can forgive me and are doing ok. :hugs: I will be thinking of and praying for you.

Honey - DH is not too happy about having to produce two back to back samples, but other than that, I think he's ok about it. He actually seems a little excited and hopeful. But keeps making cracks about hopefully finally having a "designated driver for 9 months." :haha:

Titi - I haven't been on too much, either. Trying to take a mental break, but everytime I'm supposed to be on the computer writing my thesis, I'm back here. I'm on Clomid right now, too...day 3 of it for me at 50 mg. Are they going to increase your dose, do you think? My dr. said 50 mg is kind of like a starting dose, but I don't know. :shrug: Do you have any side effects? I feel kind of sick, but could also be from the antibiotics I was just taking for a stupid UTI.

Waiting - Any news?
 
ooooh Jill, im glad your DH is excited about it, im excited about it too!! lol. i was telling my dh about you the other day actually, about the clomid and iui, he learns everything about ttc through me. there he was just thinking that two people dtd and hey presto the stork appears! I've been telling him how sadly misguided he is. poor silly dh.

and samples two days in a row? i think ive asked you this before, but surely the second sample wouldnt be as good quality as the first, coz when you have a sa you have to leave it for a few days beforehand right?
sorry about your uti, that sucks.
oh, and what is your thesis on?

waiting, ive been trying to keep the witch contained, hope she hasnt escaped and got you? any news?

it's quiet in here at the moment isnt it. hope everyone's ok, and those of you on breaks that are sneakily reading (i know you do it! i do it too) are all ok and having a chilled out time.

lots of love and hugs and icecream and babydust.xxxxx
 
honeybee28 said:
ooooh Jill, im glad your DH is excited about it, im excited about it too!! lol. i was telling my dh about you the other day actually, about the clomid and iui, he learns everything about ttc through me. there he was just thinking that two people dtd and hey presto the stork appears! I've been telling him how sadly misguided he is. poor silly dh.

and samples two days in a row? i think ive asked you this before, but surely the second sample wouldnt be as good quality as the first, coz when you have a sa you have to leave it for a few days beforehand right?
sorry about your uti, that sucks.
oh, and what is your thesis on?

waiting, ive been trying to keep the witch contained, hope she hasnt escaped and got you? any news?

it's quiet in here at the moment isnt it. hope everyone's ok, and those of you on breaks that are sneakily reading (i know you do it! i do it too) are all ok and having a chilled out time.

lots of love and hugs and icecream and babydust.xxxxx
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I worry about the two days in a row, too! They actually recommend BD the day of the trigger shot, which is 36 hours before the IUI. Then we have 1 IUI and then come back the following day for another one. She said we could do 1 IUI and just BD the next day, but this will help increase our chances. I'm worried the little swimmers won't be built up enough! Especially with DH's first "low volume" SA. I'm excited, but trying not to get hopes up too much since it's not very likely to work on the first try. So funny you mentioned me to your DH...my DH knows all about you ladies! I think he's thankful I have someone to talk to. :hugs: Oh, and I cracked up about you teaching your DH all these things, I'm the same way. :haha:

My thesis is on Edith Wharton...it's not going terribly well, though. Makes me feel all stressy.

Yay to the ice cream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:happydance:
 
blonde question. who is Edith Wharton? And what are you studying?
yeah i talk to dh about all the tthf girls, at first he thought i was a little crazy that i had made friends on the internet, now i think he likes that i have someone to talk to who knows what im going though. hardly anyone we know knows that we are trying, and he wants to keep it that way.

i guess with the iui, they do something to the spermies dont they..... i wanna say 'spin'...... to get out all the good ones to use. in your pants. so, even if there are less than the previous day, they should be able to pick out some good ones!

hubs and i were talking earlier..... he basically said 'hey, do you remember when we had sex for fun, not just to try to make a baby'. hmmm. he has a point. im not great at dtd in the 2ww i must say. so our new approach is to dtd twice a week, every week, well except af week. and focus on the fun stuff, not the 'we have to do it now because my opk says so'. hang on, sounds like we're going to try to have fun...?! havent i read a thread about that before...... DOH lol.

thanks dee - when's she due for you?

i really should go to sleep. ive got to study alll day tomorrow and im feeling a little loopy already.

xxx
 
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