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[honeybee28]

Honeybee, I agree. maybe we should just do exactly what this forum is all about. Have Fun. I love sex, it keeps our relationship strong and intimate. I have a couple nice things of lingerie I bought months and months ago for ttc but hubby says he just loves me naked OR in cheeky underwear and a tee/tank. Let's spice it up this cycle and give it all to our men and 'maybe'he'll be able to give to us!

This sounds like an awesome plan to me!!! I am so tired of having sex to conceive! I just wanna have sex for fun again!

YEEEY!! It is a fun plan huh. i told dh about it last night, about how i dont want to have sex 'just' to make a baby anymore, that i want it to be regular and fun, wow he got all worked up and excitable - but couldnt do anything about it coz it's his sa today! poor guy!!
We're going on our date tomorrow night and im really excited about it. Hopefully af will be totally gone by then!!

urgh i dont want to go to work! you think they would let me have a day off for passing my exam wouldnt you. but oh no, i have to trudge down the road in the rain. blah.

hope you have a great day! Loves ya.xxxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

Awww Loves Ya Too!

That's the plan for me this cycle. Starting today. CD1.

The bitch arrived during the night. Ooooh what a surprise! Not!

Whatever right? I at least have tanning to look forward too this cycle too! I can feel all sexy and stuff this cycle!

Bbbdreams, it sounds like a wonderful plan and it just may help us relax. TTC sometimes is bullshit!

 

[Moondance]

I am so over my body being weird...
I didn't really temp properly this cycle, just an occasional random temp to see what was happening...
Was trying to chillax.

AF was due according to any "normal" cycle, to arrive today.
Started spotting yesterday. Am still spotting... but no full blown period. I've had maybe a single bit of pink the size of a quarter, in my pad, thats all, the rest is toilet paper bound and only when I go to pee...
Boobs don't hurt... and coz I've not been paying attention to temping, I don't actually know when I ovulated, if I even did.

I thought I knew when I did, which was CD24, I had the pains in my right ovary, very light pink spotting and egg white mucus. But a couple days later when I temped, my temp was too low for me to have possibly ovulated. I don't get it.
I'm honestly not even really "trying" anymore, if it happens it happens, I don't wanna stress out anymore!


Sorry I haven't been around much or answering everybodies chats and stuff, time has been so limited for online activity of late. Have just been flat out with life!!!

 

[tryforbaby2]

No need to explain Moon! Our bodies can sometimes be F'd up.
I take breaks here and there and then come back and then take breaks. With it being 14 cycles since we started 'actively' ttc with no viable pregnancy, I am on the same page as most of you girls. Sick of it. Sick of the bullshit, the stress, the vitamins, opk's, rrl tea, temping, softcups, etc etc.....what have you. Millions of people get pregnant without doing one of those damned things.
Thats why I vote YES to just have sex because we want to, because we want to fall in love again with our spouses, and to have fun and just do it.

Hope you are well!

 

[honeybee28]

Julia (haha when i wrote your name then, i wrote Hulia, and had to amend it - hulia julia!!), im real sorry the witch got you hun, that totally sucks.
but yeeeeey to the sexy cycle! woo woo. I really feel like something's changed, me and dh are all over each other and im loving it. like you, im just so over the trying. cant be bothered with it anymore.

his sa went ok today, he said it wasnt too weird or awkward, so that's good. we have to wait 2 weeks for the results though. whatever right?

moon, good to see you. hope the witch stays away.

i have to go and snuggle with dh on the couch now, see what happens! lol!!

hope you're all ok.xxxxx

 

[Moondance]

Still only spotting today on toilet paper only.
Am getting annoyed with wearing a pad, LOL - hate having underpants on and a bulky pad for no good reason. But I bet as soon as I say "stuff it" and take it off, AF will come full bore.

It's difficult for me to have sex just because, whenever I want to, because I'm not really a very sexual person. It's few and far between that I'm actively horny or wanting sex. Like my partner and I were forced to be away from each other for 7 weeks. 7 weeks of no sex and he was horny as all heck, once we were back together he couldn't keep his paws off me.
I had no sex either for 7 weeks, and no masturbating either... and I still have trouble getting horny. I have such a low libido its crazy. Wonder if that means anything.
(Something apart from "you are mental in the head" coz I know that already...)

Sometimes I wonder if being molested as a kid has damaged my brain so I can never be a sexual type person. Because anytime I'm having sex, I do picture that stuff in my head, or at least remember it, and its not good.

 

[MyTurnYet]

No need to explain Moon! Our bodies can sometimes be F'd up.
I take breaks here and there and then come back and then take breaks. With it being 14 cycles since we started 'actively' ttc with no viable pregnancy, I am on the same page as most of you girls. Sick of it. Sick of the bullshit, the stress, the vitamins, opk's, rrl tea, temping, softcups, etc etc.....what have you. Millions of people get pregnant without doing one of those damned things.
Thats why I vote YES to just have sex because we want to, because we want to fall in love again with our spouses, and to have fun and just do it.

Hope you are well!

Amen!

 

[MyTurnYet]

haha at lunch today, i was sitting outside a pub and my colleague asked what i'd wanted to drink. i'd already had a beer, which tasted so amazing, been ages since i'd had one, and i had to go back to work, so i asked for a lime and soda water.
he went inside, and came back out again and said "Em, sorry, Ive forgotten, did you want lime and soda water, or soda water and lime?". I just sat there and looked at him, and sniggered, realised he was being serious, and went "think about what you just asked me". and then nearly fell off my chair laughing! The look on his face when he realised how dumb he was was hilarious. He's blonder than me i tell you!!!!

oooooh a Mars Bar Icecream?! dont mind if i do!!

Thanks, I totally needed that laugh!!!

 

[tryforbaby2]

oh my gosh moon! I can't imagine visualizing it over and over again.

I wonder if you watch some porn before you do the deed or occassionally,if you will get excited?....TMI! lol

My step dad and my brother Christopher calls me Hulia! lmao
Bow chicka bow wow......I so hope being sexy and fun helps!!! I am only day 1 of the period shit but when shes gone, I am jumping on my husband!

Ugh....the next 2 weeks are going to drag on aren't they?.....I can't wait for the SA results! I am hoping all is well, and just because you stepped foot in there that you'll get pregnant this cycle!!!

 

[tryforbaby2]

Hiya Myturn! How are you?.....Hope everything is well!

 

[MyTurnYet]

I'm hanging in, Tryfor. Having another stress filled week and kind of in a state of panic. I decided my job is too stressful and is not helping my TTC efforts because of all the stress, long hours, and pressure, so am seeking out a new job, but now am in the midst of interviews and writing tests and background checks while trying to keep on top of my current work and planning an IUI this month. I know I shouldn't complain - I already have a job and 2 possible offers...I should feel lucky, right?

I'm wondering if the Clomid is having an effect on my brain and perhaps is making me extra loopy.

Julia, you inspired me to finally make the FS appointment and now it's all happening and I'm really thankful to you. It seemed less scary after you outlined the process. I will keep you posted on how it goes.

In other news, I just noticed a new smiley. I'm going to beat SquirrelGirl at posting it:

SquirrelGirl, by the way, I missed you!!!

Moon, BBDreams, Dee and everyone else!

 

[MyTurnYet]

Tryfor, I forgot to mention that I love the quote at the bottom of your sig. Beautiful.

 

[soph77]

Hi girls, I'm back!!!!
I'm over my meltdown/hissy fit/ttc tantrum - whatever you want to call it, and have my happy back on!

I'm feeling positive about things and am enjoying life (except parent teacher interviews this week at work, but there is nothing I can do about that). One more week of work and I am on my holidays and it's my birthday soon, so what have I got to complain about?

I started acupuncture last week and am going again tomorrow. She says don't 'try' for 3 months while we get everything balanced and healthy egg production happening and just,,, wait for it....... HAVE FUN! If I fall pg, well that is just awesome, if not we will go balls to the wall with conception/fertility points once everything is balanced. That seems to have taken the pressure off a little. I mean I am sure I will still completely obsess, but not so much because we are working on a plan, kwim?

Ok, a funny story, or crazy, I haven't decided which yet. Dh's car is dieing a painful death. It really is running like shite and unroadworthy now. I would cost more to fix it than it is worth so he has started looking around at getting a new one. By new, I mean second hand. We just got my new car recently so not looking to spend a lot of money but he was thinking about an older 4ww with a tow bar so we don't have to rely on my car to tow the boat. He has been looking int he trading post and car yards etc.

Anyway, last night he went to a friends house and I went to bed early. I don't know when he came home because I was sleeping but he comes to bed at midnight and wakes me up. He says, 'Soph, I just bought a car.' I thought he must have gone and had a look at one that night, but nooooooooo he bought it on ebay!!!! Who buys a car on ebay? I asked him if he rang the sellers. Nope. He said he was looking for cars online and it was just freshly listed and he did some quick research and seems to think that car was worth more than what they were asking so it was a bargain and just bought it before anyone else had the chance to. Is he crazy or what??? I just got home from work and he isn't here so I don't know if there are any further developments but i think we are going to pick it up on the weekend, so I will let you know.

So I have gone back a few pages and it doesn't look like we have any more bfps. That's sad Lot's of visits from the witch though I am sorry to all of you who have her company at the moment. She left me a few days ago. I hope we don't see her for a looooong time!

Who has some happy plans for the weekend? We are going to pick up the above mentioned car and I am going to an education expo. Other than that I really hope we can get out in the boat enjoy the start of Spring.

 

[Dee7509]

Hi Myturn, Soph, Honey, BBd, Moon, Anna, tryfor and everyone else

Sorry to hear about those with af. CD1 for me today too.

Wow! A car on e-bay, interesting! Good Luck, I hope you got a great deal!

 

[Annamumof2]

Hi Myturn, Soph, Honey, BBd, Moon, Anna, tryfor and everyone else

Sorry to hear about those with af. CD1 for me today too.

Wow! A car on e-bay, interesting! Good Luck, I hope you got a great deal!

hey hun and sorry the witch has turned up, i hope this cycle will be better for you, how long have you been trying?

 

[Dee7509]

Thanks Anna, TTC since March 08.

 

[Annamumof2]

Thanks Anna, TTC since March 08.

have you been to the doctors? it took me over a year with jay and 4/5 months with skye and over a year with this one... and counting lol

 

[Dee7509]

Yes, I've been. So far, they haven't found anything they're concerned about!

Lots of boring details in my journal if you want to take a look. The link is below.

 

[bbdreams]

:wave:Hello Anna, Julia, Honey, Dee, Soph, Myturn, ans Squirrel!!! Hope you are all doing well! I am trying to recover from the witch... and trying to find a (legal) way to make some extra cash... we got a statement from dh's lab work and semen analysis and it was $500.00 and that isn't counting the dr's visit... so I need to get this paid off quickly, so we can go see the fs...

It is hard to come up with that much extra cash! I don't understand why everything to do with fertility or infertility has to be sooooo expensive.

soph-goodluck with the car buy. Hope you got a great deal!

I may be crazy, but since dh's swimmers have problems swimming I am thinking of standing on my head after bd to help them out!?! Just don't know if I can do that for very long???? And I imagine it will be a funny situation to be in. Have I gone crazy girls?

 

[Annamumof2]

:wave:Hello Anna, Julia, Honey, Dee, Soph, Myturn, ans Squirrel!!! Hope you are all doing well! I am trying to recover from the witch... and trying to find a (legal) way to make some extra cash... we got a statement from dh's lab work and semen analysis and it was $500.00 and that isn't counting the dr's visit... so I need to get this paid off quickly, so we can go see the fs...

It is hard to come up with that much extra cash! I don't understand why everything to do with fertility or infertility has to be sooooo expensive.

soph-goodluck with the car buy. Hope you got a great deal!

I may be crazy, but since dh's swimmers have problems swimming I am thinking of standing on my head after bd to help them out!?! Just don't know if I can do that for very long???? And I imagine it will be a funny situation to be in. Have I gone crazy girls?

hiya hun hope your doing alright