Tubal Reversal ladies, just moved from WTT!!!

[stmom26]

So happy that you and your sweet LO are ok Jojo.

I'm experiencing some slight cramping, slight nausea, and (TMI) creamy clear discharge. AF isn't due until the 11th so I will test then.....I've not had the discharge like that since I was PG with DS..... Not trying to read to much into it just yet......Don't want to get my hopes up to have them broken again
DH and I were talking last night about how last year at this time is when I made the appointment to see about getting the TR done, Lord knows I thought that by now we would have a baby home with us..... How DUMB was I.. I really didn't think it would be this hard. It seems that before the TR he could Look at me and I would get PG lol....
Anyways I hope that you all are having a GREAT weekend!

 

[dpitts1341]

Oh robin I hope these are good signs!

 

[cj72]

Stmom, I hope this is it for you! I was the same way-Fertile Myrtle and in a month it will be 2 years. Crossing everything for you sweetie!

 

[GalvanBaby]

I know the feeling Stmom. I got pregnant very easily with my 2. The first, DD was the very first month after AF started off of BC/ My second, DS was a surprise, but a great one. We were using the pullout method as BC. It doesn't work. LOL

I am wondering what types of meds I am going to be on this month. I think she said we would do Clomid, trigger, and something else, but I don't know what other med and if it is injectable or what. I will call tomorrow to set up my appointment with her for my control on Tuesday. I will then get my prescription for the meds.

 

[BaByWiLLoW]

So glad you and baby are ok JoJo!!

Keeping FX"D for you Stmom!

AFM, Well I tested Friday or was it saturday and it was bfn!! My days are running together because I have worked everyday this week (65 hours) and I am exhausted havent even had time to sleep, maybe 5 or 6 hrs a night. AF is due tomorrow and I had some slight AF type cramps this morning but now its more pressure and burning so IDK whats going on...

 

[stmom26]

So glad you and baby are ok JoJo!!

Keeping FX"D for you Stmom!

AFM, Well I tested Friday or was it saturday and it was bfn!! My days are running together because I have worked everyday this week (65 hours) and I am exhausted havent even had time to sleep, maybe 5 or 6 hrs a night. AF is due tomorrow and I had some slight AF type cramps this morning but now its more pressure and burning so IDK whats going on...

Oh willow still holding on to hope that this is your month.

 

[momsbaby]

I have a question, af ended yesterday and today I've had a lot of cramping/pain on my right side, I've had hot flashes and felt dizzy. I've never had this before, should I be worried? What do you think?

 

[3mamabear]

Same thoughts as you all, all I had to do was think about having a baby, and would be pregnancy before I could fully processed the idea. Now I have to think and plan my schedule and diet around my ovulatory cycle. We traveled across country to get surgery and I did not want to buy clothes because I knew I would be needing maternity clothes by the end of next season.

 

[stmom26]

I have a question, af ended yesterday and today I've had a lot of cramping/pain on my right side, I've had hot flashes and felt dizzy. I've never had this before, should I be worried? What do you think?

I'm not sure momsbaby. If your still havering that I would call your DR tomorrow.

 

[cj72]

I have pressure sometimes on the side I o on right after af. Might be a cyst. Definitely call doc

 

[Jenafyr4]

Good Luck to all, I keep you all in my prayers.

I get so discouraged sometimes and wonder if the TR is worth the $. I sooo want a baby with my husband but I wonder if its worth the $$. Ive had so much stress in my life IDK if its the best idea any more. I had everything planned out so perfectly before and then life got in the way

 

[FaithHopeLove]

Jen, I completely understand what you're saying!! Our life has been sooo stressful, crazy, busy and some days I ask myself "are you crazy! you don't have time for this!" but then tomorrow comes and I feel like "I/WE CAN DO THIS!"... I believe that God chooses the time and knows best. The only caution I would have is if you and hubby are having any issues between yourselves...in that case TTC and a baby will likely make issues worse I would say keep saving $ towards it...even postpone the tr a couple of months and see how you're feeling! I know our stories can be very discouraging to those just starting, but i also know many women who got their bfp right away after tr

 

[Jenafyr4]

Jen, I completely understand what you're saying!! Our life has been sooo stressful, crazy, busy and some days I ask myself "are you crazy! you don't have time for this!" but then tomorrow comes and I feel like "I/WE CAN DO THIS!"... I believe that God chooses the time and knows best. The only caution I would have is if you and hubby are having any issues between yourselves...in that case TTC and a baby will likely make issues worse I would say keep saving $ towards it...even postpone the tr a couple of months and see how you're feeling! I know our stories can be very discouraging to those just starting, but i also know many women who got their bfp right away after tr

The issues are not so much between me and hubby....He's young and has made some DUMB choices, but our relationship is good. In the last 2 months he lost his job (no fault of his own) our taxes were delayed, we had to move and HIS friend took my car without permission and while texting crossed the median into the path of a semi and totaled my car!!! How the guy lived IDK, and he ran!!! So at 3am cops are at my door and Ive had to buy another vehicle....NOT fun

I do know things happen for a reason. I couldnt imagine having went through all that after just having had the surgery, but I'm NOT getting any younger and and everyday that passes discourages me more. I just pray and hope God leads me in the direction I need...

 

[BrandiCanucks]

I think that way sometimes too, I wondering if the reversal is worth it. I have three AWESOME kids and I am completely happy with that. I feel like I'm being greedy by wanting more. And then life gets in the way...Zoe needing a $4000 genetic test, car accidents, divorces, credit places coming after me...but then I begin to wonder...what if? What if I don't go through with the reversal? What if I pull out all of the money I put in but regret not having it done? What happiness and baby snuggles am I going to miss out on?

I'm thinking at this point, I'll go through with the reversal and just let nature take its course. I'm not going to bother trying anymore...but I'll wait for it to happen if it is going to happen. That way, I've gotten it done, then I can get Zoe's test, get myself out of debt, and if I have another baby, then it is meant to be, and I've cleared myself of any financial burdens.

It'll be worth it, Jen.

 

[momsbaby]

The pain has went away. I go Wednesday for my HSG test, I'll mention the pain to my Dr and go from there. I have another question. I've never used OPK's or temp, after my test I'm going to start doing all of that. Question is when's the best time to temp? I work night shift so not sure when would be best.

 

[stmom26]

Jen, I completely understand what you're saying!! Our life has been sooo stressful, crazy, busy and some days I ask myself "are you crazy! you don't have time for this!" but then tomorrow comes and I feel like "I/WE CAN DO THIS!"... I believe that God chooses the time and knows best. The only caution I would have is if you and hubby are having any issues between yourselves...in that case TTC and a baby will likely make issues worse I would say keep saving $ towards it...even postpone the tr a couple of months and see how you're feeling! I know our stories can be very discouraging to those just starting, but i also know many women who got their bfp right away after tr

The issues are not so much between me and hubby....He's young and has made some DUMB choices, but our relationship is good. In the last 2 months he lost his job (no fault of his own) our taxes were delayed, we had to move and HIS friend took my car without permission and while texting crossed the median into the path of a semi and totaled my car!!! How the guy lived IDK, and he ran!!! So at 3am cops are at my door and Ive had to buy another vehicle....NOT fun

I do know things happen for a reason. I couldnt imagine having went through all that after just having had the surgery, but I'm NOT getting any younger and and everyday that passes discourages me more. I just pray and hope God leads me in the direction I need...

I know how you feel I'm a planner too, It will be worth it to be able to have another one and hold it.
I'm sorry if Ive discouraged you in any way. Keep your head up...

 

[GalvanBaby]

Jen, I know the feeling. It will happen. There will come a time where you will get it done. It i a hard decision to finally go through with. I constantly thought that it would not be worth it even the day I was be rolled into the OR. Hell, I still think that at times after a year of TTC with no baby, but I remember I have a chance each and every month. If I had done IVF, it would have cost more than surgery and only have been one chance. TTC sucks, especially when you don't conceive when you plan. I saw a lady on a FB group that had her TR in January and this is her first month TTC. She got a BFP over the weekend so it is possible to get a BFP very quickly, it just depends on your body. Unfortunately, a lot of our bodies are not cooperating as they should so we are having to wait a year, 2 years or more for a sticky bean. In the end though, it will be worth it. If this is what you really want, you will never regret trying at least.

 

[Jenafyr4]

No one HERE discourages me.... ya'll are some of the strong and bravest women I know. I know I will regret it if I dont have it done, I just wish life was easier sometimes...grr.

Good Luck momsbaby on you HSG

 

[stmom26]

No one HERE discourages me.... ya'll are some of the strong and bravest women I know. I know I will regret it if I dont have it done, I just wish life was easier sometimes...grr.

Good Luck momsbaby on you HSG

Don't we all lol..... Hang in there Sweetie

 

[GalvanBaby]

Opinion needed ladies, I am doing my first monitored cycle this time. Should I still temp or since the doctor will be monitoring it all, should I just let her tell me when I will O? I woudl love this to be a non-stress cycle if at all possible. LOL