My experience is similar, I ordered the old English Marie set in August 2008 for delivery in October, (I bought and paid through woolworths who told me I had to ring tutti bambini to arrange delivery) when it arrived the chest changer was missing, I had no warning or paperwork explaining why and because I didnt pay for them to install it they left it all on the pavement outside my house saying they weren't insured to lift it any further than off the van and just drove off! When I checked and noticed it was missing, I rang woolys who said my order was complete with them so contact tutti bambini direct. All TB said was, there wasn't any in stock I should call back early December to arrange delivery!!
I called early Dec to be told that they were in stock but I couldn't have one because woolys had just gone bust so they weren't sending out any woolys orders! I told them I'd paid in Aug and received everything else but was told it's not their problem, if I wanted one it would be £425!! I'd paid £1000 for 5 pieces so was not gonna pay half that again for one peice! Woolys apologised and after 3 weeks offered a refund of £300... I had just gone into labour (the week before Christmas). Tried TB again as my mum offered to pay the difference, but closed for Xmas! Rang 1st Monday of new yr to be told ok, took payment and then told they were out of stock again, it would be April!... Then May! .... Then guaranteed end of June! I told them my baby was now on solid foods and would be out of nappies at this rate!!! We were moving abroad on the 13th July and they guaranteed that it would be available for dispatch no later than the 5th, on the 5th I was told they would be in stock fri 10th for del mon 13th our moving day!! I agreed morning delivery finally. Mon afternoon I rang and there had been a loading error and no van now til 15th!!! The attitude I got was basically - what are you moaning for it's in stock now and we are offering to finally get it to you after your wait!! As if I was the awkward one and they were doing everything they could!! I had no choice but to cancel after all that wait and when I asked for a refund they said "we never took it off your card anyway, we just keep your card details until it's dispatched, then take payment!!" - so basically they were never under any obligation to fulfil my order!! I continued to use a changing mat on the floor!!!