And can I just say that I'm really sorry you had such a nasty experience? I hated the idea of having a c-section, but never was I tied down or declined anything. My husband did leave with the babies, but they moved me to a bed and rolled me with them into the recovery room right away and even helped me put them to my breast, skin-to-skin. The nurses were (for the most part) kind and helpful... When they administered all the freezing and spinal for me it was uncomfortable and awful and my husband couldn't come in either, but once I was all numb they let him in and sat him beside my head and when we first heard our sons cry we both looked at each other in amazement, I think it was sort of magical and I watched him as my midwife walked him to the warmer and I sent my husband over right away. They never once gave us the impression that our babies were not our own. The sad thing is I have heard so many stories like yours because you live in the states. That doesn't make sense to me! You guys pay for health care and yet get treated with no respect. I think you should all start a protest, or move to Canada! I'm really happy to hear your babies are doing well and I hope you find healing from your experience.