emergrn- wow thats alot to deal with for sure. im sorry your going through all of that. In life we have to try not to stress the things we cannot change like sickness or loved ones getting better. my mom is very ill, but I really try not to think or stress about it because there really nothing I can do. I just enjoy my time with her and treat her as normal. As far as your friend Im sure shes wonderful but maybe u guys shouldnt be prego together, you both should have your own special moments to share separately with each other that just my opinion. I am praying for your just dont put pressure on yourself because your friend is prego. fx'd for u lots of your way.