MissBroody
Well-Known Member
- Joined
- Jun 14, 2009
- Messages
- 1,584
- Reaction score
- 0
Wow!
Well I have a couple of thoughts on this topic, purely from a mum point of view
I have read posts on this that have made me range from to to and WTF!!
When I was pregnant with Emily *cough* 12 years ago I was asked what I wanted to do, I said bottles, They said fine and that was that, now that seems mental to me, My mum Bf'd but I never really asked her about it and she never pushed it on me. She used SMA later and that is what I used.
There was no advertising and follow on milk didn't really exist so much then but I just knew about formula, mainly from working with young children, so I guess that is what I felt comfortable with.
I also didn't even have a computer never mind t'internet
Oh and they used to do little tins as well, don't know if you can still get them.
Fast forward 7 years, again I was asked what I wanted to do and I didn't know, I'd discussed Bfing and expressing with OH.
I said this and they just told me to have a think, I though about it and still didn't have much info so went with what I knew which was bottles.
They accepted it and never mentioned feeding again.
I could have well been persuaded to BF, but had no guidance at all from health professionals.
I know the OP was about and advert but I thought I would give my tale about why I chose to do what I did, and TBH I will defend my descions to the hilt and my children are no worse off from being FF.
They are bright intelligent children who are never ill.
I never had an advert influencing me, and really if your mind can be changed so easily by an advert it does make me wonder......
We are bombarded by adverts all the time be it in magazines, on the telly or on the radio.
I don't get new windows every other week because the new one claims to be best, I don't buy cars willy nilly although there is a very attractive purple one being advertised at the minute
I just really don't get all the arms up in the air over a bloomin formula company advertising other services, turn the page, ignore it, If you are set on BFing a glossy mag is not gonna change your mind.
RAFwife got it spot on, it is clever marketing and in a way it has worked as we are all chatting about it.
But this FF v's BF is getting very old now
Seriously liquid feeds are such a small part of your child life, yes it is important for 6-12months whatever but so much more comes into play when you start proper food, oooh and if any of them watch T.V from 2yrs god help you as then the pester power and bombardment of adverts really do begin.
I was going to say this but feared the backlash of how important the first year is and so on, but seriously, when you look at the bigger picture does it matter what your baby ate for the first year of its life? Healthy food for the rest of their lives surely has more importance? When our babies are teenagers and adults are we really going to be obsessing about what they ate 13+ years ago. The BF vs FF debate is so old but rears its ugly head every once in a while and I think we all lose sight of whats most important - the health and happiness of our babies no matter what the source - breast or bottle.
Sorry but I really don't agree with this at all. The effects of being breastfed last much, much longer than the first year of life. It's a really vital decision and in my opinion it is incredibly important what my baby eats for the first year of their life.
I was bottle fed, my OH was breastfed. We are both healthy, intelligent adults. In fact, OH has a few health issues that I don't - asthma, hayfever... In the long-run, what we ate as babies has had no effect on us and not made a blind bit of difference to us as teens and adults. Yes breastmilk is best, we all know that, but as said - whatever milk we choose to give our babies for that first year is a teeny tiny piece of the bigger puzzle. I'd be concerned when the children are older, and you have someone feeding their child mcdonalds all the time, and another mum feeding her child only healthy food. Only then do I think its a major issue.