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aob1013
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Personally, i don't think artificial feeding should be easily promoted to pregnant women, or be easily available. I believe deterring people from artificial feeding from the moment they are pregnant, whether that be no advertising etc would encourage alot more Mum's to just give it a go. Artificial feeding is too easily available these days, and these companies know that.
They make no money from breastfeeding
my point isnt that the term 'artificial' is technically accurate, its the tone in which this post was made.. using the word artificial SO many times in a short sentence, and saying that FF shouldnt be easily available.... what do u suggest happened to my daughter, who at 2 days old was having photo therapy for severe jaundice, and i was pumping constantly but not yet producing enough fluid to help her? what do you suggest happened when after months upon months of exclusive pumping, my milk finally ran out and I couldnt keep up with her? What about mums who have been sexually abused, and literally cannot cope with the thought of breast feeding? what about mums who have had their breasts removed? what about mums whos life depends on them taking medication which means that they cannot breast feed? you need to think about these women before making such off hand sweeping statements, the world is full of women not breastfeeding for these reasons, nothing to do with just 'deciding' they fancy the idea of FF more.. where do you suggest these ladies get their milk from? hould we take a 3 day camel ride while beating ourselves with wire brushes?
ive noticed this in a number of your posts tbh, you make these dramatic statements, which are actually only based on your own little experience, and have no consideration of the bigger picture at all. the world is a HUGE place, filled with lots of different people and circumstances, almost no 2 people have the same experience, ever, so really, its not all as easy as oh i BF because its clearly best.
as for the statement that its just 'too easily available these days' are you for real? when i stopped pumping, my daughter NEEDED formula to stay alive, are you suggesting that i shouldnt have been able to go to tesco to buy her milk? when you get to weaning stage are you going to start suggesting that jars & packets of baby food be banned from supermarkets, as we all know that home made organic is best for our babies!????
u think no formula advertising would increase the amount of BF mums? is there actually a SINGLE mum reading this who has never heard the 'breast is best' statement?
I didn't have time to go into detail when i wrote that post so i will try and elaborate on it here - as i think you have the wrong end of the stick.
Firstly, this is the internet, no emotional tone or body language is used so the way you may read something may be entirely different to the way i mean it.
I also wanted to point out that i know what it is like to have a premature baby, pumpig constantly, and having a child constantly under a billibed, being physically seperated etc .. i know how hard it actually is to breastfeed when your child is in those conditions.
When i said i don't think artificial milk should be so easily available, i mean't that for first time Mum's that are stil unsure of what to do, or are uneducated in how to feed their child, breast milk should be promoted as much as possible .. do you know what i mean? Of course for women that have great difficulties or medically cannot breastfeed artificial milk should be easily available to them, along with emotional support. In SCBU i met may women that had their babies more prematurely than i had Leni, 25 weekers, 28 weekers the majority just couldn't breastfeed - so believe me i do have alot of respect for these women, they had no choice - and in THAT instance artificial milk should be available to them along with lots of support, which the neonatal nurses are fab at doing, by the way.
So just to clarify, i think that a Mum with every chance of breastfeeding successfully, breastfeeding should be promoted, and information on artificial feeding less so .. and for Mum's of premature babies, Mum's medically restricted, Mum's that for whatever reason cannot breastfeed should be given all the medical and emotional support they need, with all the information, leaflets and guidance that they need, because women that artificially feed need the support just as much as breastfeeders.
Of course what i say is based on my 'little experiences' just like what you say is based on your 'little experiences' .. that is how we make our own beliefs and opinions in life. I don't take back what i said, as i mean't well, i just think i didn't word it properly, and i apologise for that as i'm terrible with words at times.
At the end of the day, there are of course exceptions to the rule that 'breast is best' as we are real people in the real world, and some people just cannot breastfeed, but the majority can, so overall that is why the health professionals and government promote breastfeeding so much, it's not a bad thing, they aren't trying to piss anyone off, it's just what is best for the baby. BUT, artificial milk these days is brilliant, and kept Leni alive for the first hours of his life .. so i am not a formula hater at all, i'm grateful - it's just that breastmilk would of course be the first choice before formula which is why i wrote the statement that i did, i wrote it that in the ideal world, everyone would breastfeed .. do you know what i mean?!
I'm not explaining this well, sorry
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