LoveBubble16
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Hi ladies, Ive commented on a few threads the last couple of weeks - I have two children, a 3 year old and a 9 month old, and myself and my hubby have found out we are expecting no.3. I know it sounds ridiculous but we are gobsmacked.
Ive had two miscarriages before, our first baby was a missed miscarriage and that was just awful. We then had our DS, we then planned no.2x miscarriaged again at 7 weeks.. and then had our DD. We feel so blessed, even more so after the heart ache of our losses.. well here we are expecting no.3 and Ive never felt so un-excited its a horrible feeling. Everyday I change my mind on how I feel (not sure if thats hormonal) some days I look at my two dear children who already have an amazing bond and think 1 more is a blessing.. we will be fine.
Today Im now sat feeling so worried thinking I dont want this, I dont want a 3rd baby, my daughter is still my baby, shes so young, I dont want to be pregnant again which is such a strange feeling after having losses and being desperate for previous pregnancies.
Im probably tired, my daughter has a cold and hasnt slept for three nights (not that she ever sleeps well!!)
Has anyone else been where I am and come through the other side feeling like this was all meant to be and is a blessing? Are these feelings normal? I feel sad to feel so negative towards our little baby
Any advise or any experiences, please help xxx
Ive had two miscarriages before, our first baby was a missed miscarriage and that was just awful. We then had our DS, we then planned no.2x miscarriaged again at 7 weeks.. and then had our DD. We feel so blessed, even more so after the heart ache of our losses.. well here we are expecting no.3 and Ive never felt so un-excited its a horrible feeling. Everyday I change my mind on how I feel (not sure if thats hormonal) some days I look at my two dear children who already have an amazing bond and think 1 more is a blessing.. we will be fine.
Today Im now sat feeling so worried thinking I dont want this, I dont want a 3rd baby, my daughter is still my baby, shes so young, I dont want to be pregnant again which is such a strange feeling after having losses and being desperate for previous pregnancies.
Im probably tired, my daughter has a cold and hasnt slept for three nights (not that she ever sleeps well!!)
Has anyone else been where I am and come through the other side feeling like this was all meant to be and is a blessing? Are these feelings normal? I feel sad to feel so negative towards our little baby
Any advise or any experiences, please help xxx