Mrs_Bump
Daniel's mum
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I have a 19 month old son whom I love to pieces and me and Dh have always talked about aiming for roughly a 2 &1/2 year age gap, and as such we agreed to start ttc in December. Originally I struggled to wait that long but now I'm wondering if we should wait longer. Mainly this is because I'm so tired all the time. I work 37 hours a week (in 4 days) and then look after my son and attempt to do some housework in the other 3. I'm constantly exhausted and stressed out. I also need to loose weight. My son is lovely but very hyper and hard work. He's a mummy aholic and follows me everywhere. My house is a mess. I also won't qualify for occupational maternity pay unless I work a few months more before I get pregnant. But despite all the reasons not too part of me thinks we should stick to December to start. It's so hard to know what to do for the best.