Update on me

[suzan]

I went to see my doc today.

The ultrasound showed nothing :hula: I was worried I had a cyst or something like that bec I have been feeling poking feelings and felt nauseas two days ago as it's a symptom for a cyst. Anyway, we met the doc and he told me everything was good and then my husband does this:

Doc: everything is good... u shouldnt worry, the good thing is that u can get pregnant.. there was a woman in here that has suffered from infertility for 9 years and now is pregnant with twins thanks to the IVF..

DH: yes plz doc, give her hope.. she has been feeling so depressed, as if we wont be able to have kids, all she does is crying..

Me:

DH: I have done everything I could.. I support her a lot, have been loving her more than before, care about her a lot, and I am hurt with her, but she isnt cooperating.

Me:

Doc: I think it's advisable that u rest for two months. Feeling this way wont help.. refesh.. reset yourself and make a new person from you. The ultrasound is showing tiny follicles.. see? u ovulate perfectly.. Take a deep breath and rest, wait until u get ur first AF after the curettage and then rest that month and when AF comes after that.. then visit me on cycle day 2.. I will put you on clomid which will automate the process and make sure u conceive that month...

Me: clomid? but I ovulate!

Doc: Dont worry!! clomid just automates! I have given it to normal people like u and helped to conceive that same month, and Twins! so maybe u r lucky!

Me: Ok.. I think u r right... I need to press on reset.

So yes.. I think we have decided to do what he suggested. I burst into tears there and it's a feeling I just cannot be able to control.. It's a good thing because I can be able to get fit and healthier!

I am sad bec it's almost 2 months away, but he put hope on me though I am like "clomid? well, it wont hurt!"

Thanks everyone for listening.. We are taking a break from TTC, officially.. bec even if I neglect that, DH wont accept to make me pregnant! and as we know, we cant conceive without them

So girls!! 1 month plus to go!

Thought of asking.. What do u think about the idea of clomid?

 

[Vickie]

Glad to hear your appointment went well. I hope you feel better about everything now

 

[Suz]

Sounds so promising hun!!!! Your Dr sounds so nice!!!! I would def. give that Clomid a chance Enjoy your rest!

 

[Mervs Mum]

I dont know anything about the drugs so cant help there but the rest sounds good!

 

[jo27]

I don't know anything about clomid. Hope you feel a bit more positive about things x

 

[poppy]

That is really good news Suzan! What if you end up having twins! That will be soooo exciting!

 

[ladymilly]

a friend of mine in work was TTC for about a year and her doctor put her on clomid and within two months she was pregnant. she due in April. This is her second. with her first she was ttc for 3 years. so in my opinion clomid sounds like the way to go as it seems to be good

 

[avistar]

You need that time to re-coop and get your body and mind rested and at ease. I think clomid would be a good option for you!! Since he said that you are Oing just fine, maybe you could ttc without clomid and if there is nothing, get on it. I think things are going to be looking up for ya!!! Lots of !!!!!

 

[HAYS]

aw hun sounds good really, i dont no much on clomid but i thought it kinda boosted those struggling with ttc, so really sounds like what you might need,and hey who knows you might get pg that month!
2months is nothing hun, well it is i no but u no what i mean

all the best
xxxx

 

[Iwantone!!!]

aaawww hunni gladu been the docsi hope the rest does u good and u get ur bfp xxx

 

[miel]

i am very glad for you Susan ...take care of yourself and make us some beautiful
twins at the end of your break
good luck!

 

[NeyNey]

I think my Gyno is putting me on clomid next month, either that or metformin, but I think he was leaning towards clomid. He was raving about it, and even warned me of the chance of multiple births. He asked if we were to conceive multiples would we be upset.....

Are you kidding?!!!!!!!!! lol.

So yeah, best of luck on it sweetie, we'll probably be starting it around the same time.

 

[justme00]

My friend had some miscarriages then was put on clomid and now is pregnant with a healthy baby boy.

 

[avistar]

Hey Suzan and Ney Ney, wanna mail me some clomid ??

 

[Wobbles]

I've seen people who have known they ovulate also be put on clomid with success. Im baffled why he is though to 'make sure you conceive that month' because you don't only ovulate but you do fall pregnant.

Hmmm

Is this your normal GP? If it is do you have a consultant at the hospital? If consultant said that I am surprised.

I bought clomid you know Never did have the balls ...

 

[suzan]

Wobbs,

He is a fertily/OBGYN/GYN/Hormones professional. he has had so many successful stories, from IVF to IUI to everything, clomid, and others.. well, he seemed confident, and made us feel confident about it too.. he is a very good reputated doc in here!

 

[Wobbles]

I would just be worried he is only giving you clomid to catch your BFP that month rather than any medical reason or long term TTC with no pregnancy.

oh well lol

Good luck hun x

 

[suzan]

I dont know! Maybe he just wanted to cheer me up?
He was optimistic, so within his optimisim was the confidence of increasing chances of conceiving on the first month. It's not in his hands, neither mine, it's what's meant to happen.
If there are things that help us conceive ont he first try, then why not!

 

[Wobbles]

I would talk to him about clomid before hand just so you know what the side effects can be and risks hun

x

 

[suzan]

I talked with DH today and he isnt agreeing on me taking it.
OMG, I never knew ttc was so hard
I dont know what to do.