hello ladies. didnt post for a while.... i got another BFN and i was feeling really upset. today i discovered that my best friend got a BFP and i was the last one to know... its so sad and frustrating.. i feel so much hurt... i am taking loads of fertility pills and medication to help my mucus but nothing is working .what is wrong with me? can i just conceive???
Hi Isabel209, sorry to hear you are so down - I feel the same as you and everyone around me is always pregnant and having babies its very hard to understand why we can't. Sometimes it just takes some people longer. We've been trying for a year and a half now. What fertility pills and medication are you taking, is it from a doctor? Have you had any tests at the hospital and if you don't mind me asking how old are you? Hang in there! Go and run yourself a nice hot bath and have a glass of wine or something yummy to eat to cheer yourself up, try and read a nice magazine totally not related to pregnancy or babies! Have a nice evening and I hope you feel better, you aren't alone! x
Hi CRC
Thanks for your post. So here is my story in short
I am 29 years old. Have been ttc since june 2010. tried to take clomid but it didnt work. Had visual disturbances with it. so my specialist put me on femara. This is my 4th cycle on femara. This cycle I took 7 femara and 2 prednisone (to help femara work as they seem not to be working). Specialist also gave me muciclar tablets to help my mucus as I am not noticing any. Do you know how mucus is suppose to be during the whole cycle. I know there is a period of time where I should be dry. In other days it must be clear and stretchy and in other days cloudy white
but I am noticing any
B6 vitamins didnt work not even evening primrose
help !!!!! I feel really down
Ps. I cant take hot baths and they give me an irritation.. I cant use a lot of water while showering as water irritates me. I am very sensitive
wine gives me abdominal pain (IBS)
I am allergic to some foods as well so I have to be very cautious
how can I relax? How can I not thing about anything? I am so concerned about everything and think that I can never conceive
Hi Isobel, I'm so sorry to hear you are so down. Its very hard for me to make you feel better over the internet and I really don't want to say the wrong thing. I think you need to speak to a mecical professional/counsellor or someone that is close by like a friend or family member that can help.
I also think that although this won't help, you have not been trying for that long and you are under 30 so I think you really have to try and relax as your stress levels will not be helping you get pregnant.
Have you done yoga? If not you should really try that. Also reading nice magazines (nothing to do with babies though!), taking a walk in a park (nature is great for calming you down and if you are anywhere near an ocean then even better) and if you can afford it then take a break away somewhere to get away from all your familiar scenes.
Re Mucus, it should get heavy around the time of ovulation (it gets heavier and heavier bit by bit as it leads up to ovulation) and then dries up after that before your period.
I hope these things help!
x