Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D

[MrsBroodyPant]

Nina 15dpo and no af is great going. How long is your lp usually? How long have u been married tomorrow? I hope this is it for u x

LL84 I hope af stays away. Sorry u think u can feel her approaching. Sometimes thats a good sign.

Happily im glad the work situation should soon be sorted. Im thinking about u a lot. Hope u are ok.

Dont know where Cath has gone

Xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

My due date is now.
My bump buddy just had her baby yesterday! Congratulations Pansy if u read this

Xxx

 

[Nina83]

Oh Mrs.B, I'm so sorry I wish there was something I could do for you

My LP is usually 14 days. I am excited inside because I have a feeling this might be it.
We're celebrating 3 years tomorrow. I can't believe how fast it's gone! But seriously, these three years have SUCKED. 1 year of unemployment, 1.5 years of fertility buisness. The day we got married was the first rain of the season, we had the service outside and as soon as he crushed the glass (a Jewish marriage tradition) the rain stopped and the sun shone through. Everyone said it's good luck. I am ready for the rain to stop now

 

[cathgibbs]

Ladies!! Sorry I went AWOL!!

We are going to stop TTC from the new year on in prep for the wedding so im trying to wean myself away but i am still stalking!!!

Happily sooo sorry to hear whats going on with you right now etc what will the hospital do next??

Nina!!!! When are you going to test lovely!??! so excited for you! have you got any plans for your anniversary?

MrsB Sorry to hear it would have been your due date today hun how are things lovely?

Lady!!!! where are you at in your cycle hun?? Are you gonna plan anything diff this month in regards to ttc??

Have I missed anyone? xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Hello Cath.
Nice to have u here! I thought u might of been taking a break. I hope u get your bfp by new year! I bet u get it once u stop trying .

Im feeling a bit rubbish as usual but trying not to stress myself out. I need to chill a bit and realise its ok to not get pregnant yet I still have plenty of time.
Nina ive been married three years too and have not enjoyed it due to ttc . I hope the sun shines for u tomorrow in more ways than one
Xxxx

 

[cathgibbs]

Well Ill be going back on the pill from February so I literally only have 4 cycles lol I think we will go for it this month - havent been charting as much so I should really start that again in the morning!

Love your way of thinking hun - you still have a load of time yet - how about the days in your fertile period - you and hubby go on date night - nice meal somewhere - few too many glasses of vino then a night of DTD - fun drunken sex :-D xxx

 

[MomaRockMe]

I just started my period yesterday and my husband and I are trying to conceive baby #1!

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Yeah sounds good. Im planning on really going for it this month too. Going to dtd each night this week! FX lol. I know u should hsve sex too much but u can't get pregnant without it so im going to try to do it loads. We did it a lot the month we were successful. Like u, I haven't been charting yet but going to start tomorrow. I did opk this morning but negative.
Good luck hun xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Hi momarockme.
.sorry af got u. How long have u been ttc? X

 

[ladyluck84]

Hi mommarockme

Yay all the ladies back. Well Monday is over yay!

Cath a friend of mine has done exactly the same and stopped trying (after a loss) in preparation for her wedding. How are the plans going? I loved planning mine.

Mrs broody I went for it this month in the sex department but have been more chilled out with other things so no fertility monitor or temping. Though randomly temped this morning just to see (no idea why)

I said to my husband today I wanted a puppy and he replied with "we can't have a puppy and a baby" and as I pointed out the baby thing isn't happening....he told me to stop being stupid and he wants a baby not a dog so that me been told! : )

 

[HappilyTTC]

Nina: Excited for you. I hope this is it.

MrsB: Thank you so much.

Cath: Well, as far as the doctor has told me, I have my follow up on the 24th of this month and at that point, the doctor will schedule the hysterectomy for as soon as possible after that. I am thinking it will be within the two weeks that follow it since I will most likely have my period on the 17th and the doctor will want to do it before my next period.

Of course, there are second opinions to be gotten before then and all of that. But, if things go according to what I am thinking they will, that is most likely my next step.

 

[ladyluck84]

Happily i hope you don't mind me asking as I just don't know how it works but could taking your eggs ever be an option such as surrogacy? Obviously your health needs to come first I just wondered how you felt about it?

 

[HappilyTTC]

I am most likely going to be able to keep my ovaries, unless something goes really wrong. I have two girlfriends who would be willing to be surrogate mother's for me.

I am pretty lucky in that aspect. We would just have to figure out the other costs associated with surrogacy, since the surrogate herself would be free of charge.

 

[ladyluck84]

Oh good. How nice to have such supportive friends.

 

[cathgibbs]

Oh sorry Happily I didnt realise that you were def going to have a hysterectomy So sorry hun - although the silver lining is that your friends are willing to become a surrogate for you which is a wonderful gift off them

LL haha Hubby has told you!!! No dog!! just a baby! Its happened before and it WILL happen again for you lovely

Wedding plans are coming along fab - although i have to ring the bridal shop and tell them i no longer want my wedding dress so they can do what they wish with my depost My wedding dress was from there and put a deposit down last year but I fell in love with an Essense of Australia dress and it was a bargain!! only £18 more than my deposit so the dress is now in a wedding box in my dads house haha! yeah I dont want to have the fear of rushing to lose weight aling with having a very VERY young baby at my side Looks like ill be hoping for a 2016 baby haha xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Happily that is amazing of your friends.

Cath im glad u found a wedding dress that you love.

Nina have u tested? Happy anniversary xxx

 

[ladyluck84]

When you find 'the one' wedding dress then you have to go for it! happy anniversary nina! are u testing in your anniversary?

 

[cathgibbs]

Happy anniversary Nna! I really hope you had an extra prezzie xxxx

 

[Nina83]

Thanks guys. I'm not sure what's going on. Temps are slowly going down, but no sign of AF whatsoever. I'm getting bloods drawn tomorrow. AF has never been late like this, and I know when I ovulated for sure, so it's not that.
We had a nice diner, but I was bummed about not knowing what's going on.
I'm kind of depressed lately and don't feel like sharing much But I am stalking and will be back with a hopefully more positive outlook soon.

 

[HappilyTTC]

Nina: Happy anniversary!

Thank you for the support, everyone!