Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D

[ladyluck84]

I'm good that's 7dpo and just wait....

 

[ladyluck84]

How's everyone else all quiet

 

[cathgibbs]

Woohooo 7dpo! How you feeling?

Im gokd hun but think we will be stopping ttc sooner. Being made redundant in January so dont want to get pregnant then miss any benefits from ml by getting pregnant too soon into a new job

 

[ladyluck84]

Oh cath sorry to hear that! What job do you do? Are they offering a redundancy package? just feel the same really. I got my positive OPK on day 18 of my cycle. But since the ectopic they are now longer than 28 days (wonder how and why this has changed) so presume af will be due later. Temp has gone back up again after my dip a few days ago.

 

[HappilyTTC]

Well, we just came back from a long camping trip. So relaxed! Cath, so sorry about being made redundant!!!

As for me, AF showed this morning so no before the hysterectomy. Hope everyone is doing okay.

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Hi ladies,

Csth sorry about your job. If I remember rightly u didn't like your job? I hope u can find something else asap hun.

Happily im sorry af got u hun. Im glad u had a relaxing trip. Thinking about you x

Nina how ru?

LL84 good luck hun

Xxx

 

[cathgibbs]

Thanks girls, I dont dislike my job as such I dislike what I do but I love the people I work with but we are all being sold off to different companies and the one im going to will take 4 hours to get there and back

Awww Happily I am soooo so sorry hun What a crock of shit glad you had a relaxing trip though hun!

MRsb how you feeling chick??

Nina hope your ok??

LL my cycles went longer after my ectopic but I didnt have my tube removed just had methotrexate? xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Oh no, u couldn't be expected to travel 4 hours! That's crazy!
I hope u can find something new and a job u will enjoy.

Im ok thanks. Xxx

 

[cathgibbs]

I know Got to write down what time I would need to get the bus/trains and add up how much it would cost etc.

Got any Drs apt coming up?? xxx

 

[HappilyTTC]

Oh, Cath! 4 hours? I really hope something better comes along for you.

 

[ladyluck84]

I agree 4 hours is a stupid amount of time to travel per day!

 

[cathgibbs]

Yep! Had a meeting with HR today and they have offered to help me look for a new job. Need to ring someone to speak to to see if im entitled to redundancy as even though I have been offered a job its not realistic to get too

How is everyone tonight? ? Xxx

 

[ladyluck84]

I'm fine I have more bloods again on Thursday they have asked for day 21,28 and 1-3 for my referral

 

[cathgibbs]

Woooo thats great hun! will that be day 28 on Thursday? xxx

 

[ladyluck84]

Yes it will but u or islets 2 days later than normal so not expecting af until day 30th. Had a temp drop today so think I might be out

 

[ladyluck84]

Ladies your all very quiet. Everyone ok?

 

[Nina83]

Hey guys, I'm quiet because I'm depressed and just want this year over with already I can't believe we're the only ones left. Oh well, I guess we're just the cream of the crop
I'm trying to take some time off.
Currently 1dpo and hoping for the best.

Cath- How's the job hunting?
Lady- Did you have blood taken? I hope your temp jumped right back up! A dip doesn't always mean something!
Hilslo- Where are you Hun?

 

[cathgibbs]

Morning ladies!!

How was all of your weekends?? I was VERY drunk Sat night haha woops! drowning my sorrows over the job situation!

LL How you doing hun??

MRsB :-D Hope your ok chicken? when is your drs apt?

Awww Nina massive hun! This year will soon be over with then its onto 2014 babies!! YAY! Have you been up to anything interesting??

Hilslo! My Cycle buddy! where are you chick??

Well i potentially have a job lined up to start in January - im not getting my hopes up as i still have to go through the interview process etc but iv been tld its 95% mine soooooooooooooooooooo we are def going to stop trying as its such a good job with the local council I can progress really well so looks like we are def holding off until after the wedding now BUT im still going to be here egging you all on! xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Cath im pleased u have a job lined up. Good luck with the interview.

Nina im so sorry to hear u are depressed. 2014 will be a better year!

Ive been spotting red and brown. Very worried. Im getting an early scan on wed to see whats going on. I don't feel very hopeful. Will let u know what happens

Xxx

 

[hilslo]

Oh no just wrote a big long reply and it's been wiped grr!
Oh we'll long story short. I'm got back from holiday this morning and feeling the happiest I have for ages. It was a much needed break and I enjoyed every second.
I still took my temps and peed on lots of sticks and think I o'd on cd18 (same as my cycle buddy cath!!!!). If I did it will be the earliest I have ever o'd.
I have to admit I'm not feeling very lucky this cycle though. The two times we caught the egg I have had two days of v positive opks then o'd the following day. This time was like the old days where opks only got to about 85% (I've marked it down as a positive) and I o'd on the day I got the positive. I also had no cm and no o pains so if I did o it wasn't very strong. I've had one high temp but missed this morning as we were on an overnight flight. Oh well.
Nina - I'm looking forward to 2014 too. Part of me doesn't want to risk getting pregnant again in 2013 as it has been a disaster of a year and I want a clean start. Not stopping though - I'm 33 now so the clock is ticking loudly
Cath - great news on the job front! Do you think you will get redundancy pay too?
Happily - so gutted there was no miracle bfp. I really thought Sod's law might have come through for you!