Would this upset you?
My partner and I have been going out for 6 years. We have a 3 year old son and he has agreed to TTC in September. I assumed this would mean marriage but when I ask him he said "I'm crazy and I want it all".
It really hurts me to the point of not knowing if I can continue without a proposal at least. Why does he agree to a baby but not a marriage. Money isn't an issue at all. All of our friends are engaged or married.
What hurts more is he is a best man this year. All he speaks about his their wedding and stag weekend. It hurts because he seems to care more about their wedding than us ever getting married.
Last year we went through a tough time and we briefly spoke about so splitting up. He blames his lack of wanting to marry on this. I understand this but there was very very valid reasons for our discussion last year and now we have moved on from this. I'm more than happy with him and I've shown him so much commitment. I moved 500 miles away from my family to be with him.
What do I do? I despretly want another LO for our family but in the back of my mind I don't want to do this until we are married.
My partner and I have been going out for 6 years. We have a 3 year old son and he has agreed to TTC in September. I assumed this would mean marriage but when I ask him he said "I'm crazy and I want it all".
It really hurts me to the point of not knowing if I can continue without a proposal at least. Why does he agree to a baby but not a marriage. Money isn't an issue at all. All of our friends are engaged or married.
What hurts more is he is a best man this year. All he speaks about his their wedding and stag weekend. It hurts because he seems to care more about their wedding than us ever getting married.
Last year we went through a tough time and we briefly spoke about so splitting up. He blames his lack of wanting to marry on this. I understand this but there was very very valid reasons for our discussion last year and now we have moved on from this. I'm more than happy with him and I've shown him so much commitment. I moved 500 miles away from my family to be with him.
What do I do? I despretly want another LO for our family but in the back of my mind I don't want to do this until we are married.