We are PUPOLICIOUS hotties! (19 BFPs so far!!)

[jessy1101]

Ohhhh...my..sweet...baby..jesus...DH is makin me watch a goddamnnn huntin show ewwwwwwww somebody save me??????

 

[confusedprego]

Hi all, just got back from the drs. Had a great scan. Measuring 6w5d. So a bit farther than I thought. Saw our little bean clear as day! Heartbeat of 128 so good and strong. And I think the measurement was just over 5mm? The Dr said that if everything looks good at the 10wk mark, our liitle bean should be fine. So just over 3 weeks! I have my midwife apt on the 22nd with another scan. I'll post a pic tonight

I got my scan today and I'm measuring 6wks 5days too!! That's one day ahead of what we thought based on my ov date We saw a heartbeat of 120. Glad to hear your appointment went well too

I attached the picture for you guys

 

[keepthefaithx]

Omg congrats omg omg omg im so happy for you girl !

 

[jessy1101]

Awsome pic sweety lookin really good i think!!

 

[jessy1101]

Im happy to not find it hard to look at honestly. Yes u get a bittersweet feeling but u deserve this baby so much and have been threw so much.

I want u to have the best 9 months possible. If throwing up morning noon and night will garantee u a healthy baby then damnit i hope u will b as sick as a dog in the best way lolololol

 

[NewbieLisette]

Lol Jessy u said it sooo good girl! I was feeling the exact same way tonight!

Confusedprego I am truly soo happy to read ur update & see this beautiful pic! All the happiness & peace in the world my friend!

We all deserve that & will be right behind ya to all my PUPO girls tonight!

 

[jkb11]

hi ladies so happy to hear about all the positive scans congrats girls!

Rach Life can be such a challenge sometimes can't it? With my job in the NICU I am surrounded weekly by situations I do not understand. For instance, how can there be in one bed area a baby of a crack head mom with herpes and this is her 5th kid that she will desert with foster care like the other four then in the next bed area there is kind, loving, caring parents who have been trying for more than 10 years they are standing by there baby that might live for a month at most and that is with the help of a feeding tube and ventilator... WHY??? I have NO idea. Life is hard and unexplainable. My heart goes out to you sweetie. I spent many years away from family and my friends I grew up with and it was the hardest part of my life. I was trying to put myself through school. DH lost his job and had trouble getting one at the time. and we had a baby that I felt I could barely provide for. Along with many other challenges that I will not bore you with. I NEVER want to go through that again. BUT, looking back on those hard times, it made me into who I am today. Hang in there sweety all the sucky stuff will develop your character. stay positive. set small goals and reach them. We are here for you Do try to find a couple of people you can confide in ( in person) EVERYBODY needs support.

 

[jkb11]

I want to share something with you girls. I found this so moving but I must warn you that it is very heartbreaking.... but when I lost my baby I actually found comfort through this. It made me view my M/C differently. I was no longer angry that God chose to take my child home to heaven I was thankful and felt blessed that God chose me to carry her b/c she was a blessing even though I didn't get to enjoy her for as long as I wanted to. She touched my heart and did change my life.

https://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=th6Njr-qkq0

 

[babydust818]

Well here is my update. I have been having mild cramps. All in my uterus/ lower abdomen / hips area since a few hrs ago. I went to the bathroom and i really think AF is on her way. I truly do. In all honesty i am in complete shock. I felt many things this month that i never feel with AF but unfortunately it is. After having 2 evaporated tests and getting my hopes up with that and Mesina's reading kind of really made for a hard let down. So here i am feeling almost as if i did when i had my MC. I feel so sad, hurt, betrayed, stupid, alone, depressed. I just want it all to go away. I got a decision to make. Whether i am going to put a stop for now on ttc and just become NTNP but still using my cbfm or just keep ttc. I'm not really sure yet. All's i can say is I'm just torn apart. I'm wondering if i should go NTNP to become healthy and lose some weight before ttc again. That way i don't feel so completely like it's my fault. Ugh I'm just really stressed out and sad. Only bad thing is i know i'll result to alcohol and i don't wanna do that. Don't get me wrong, this site has helped me so much! You girls all have and you make ttc fun! I just sometimes wonder if bnb is bad for me because being on here everyday makes me analyze and go more in depth with thinking. Im not giving up bnb completely! I still wanna chat and keep in touch but ugh i just really don't know. Even if it's for a couple days or weeks. I just feel like trying to make ttc my number one priority is stressing me out way more than i should be which i think could also be a reeason why i can't get pregnant. I took a month off from trying which was july and became pregnant. So we will see.

 

[MrsMoo72]

Hi all, just got back from the drs. Had a great scan. Measuring 6w5d. So a bit farther than I thought. Saw our little bean clear as day! Heartbeat of 128 so good and strong. And I think the measurement was just over 5mm? The Dr said that if everything looks good at the 10wk mark, our liitle bean should be fine. So just over 3 weeks! I have my midwife apt on the 22nd with another scan. I'll post a pic tonight

I got my scan today and I'm measuring 6wks 5days too!! That's one day ahead of what we thought based on my ov date We saw a heartbeat of 120. Glad to hear your appointment went well too

I attached the picture for you guys

Yay - our first pupo baby!!!!!!! I can already tell its beautiful!! So happy for you xx

 

[MrsMoo72]

Awww rach, we will miss you but I completely understand if you need some time out from bnb. TTC does get all-consuming and takes over your life doesn't it? I hope you can take some time for yourself and feel better soon. We will still be here when you come back! Lots of love xxx

 

[MrsMoo72]

Well im officially peed off!! My doc said I wouldn't get a scan before 12weeks as im not high risk and there is no reason not to be optimistic about this pregnancy- wtf???!!! He said he 'feels' like everything will be ok this time!! Well im glad your medical opinion is based on your "feelings"!!!

He did say that a scan wouldn't predict the future which I understand but I was just hoping for a scan to know that everything was progressing normally

 

[confusedprego]

Thanks girls for your comments - I know you will all be posting pics of your scans very soon!!

Rach - I'm so sorry hun - this is your first month with the CBFM, I heard it takes a couple months to get to know you and your cycle, maybe you just need to give it another shot? but I can understand about not wanting to stress about ttc, it's easy to take over your life, so if you need a break - take it! You never know, you might fall pregnant once you stop thinking about it

Emma - Do you have any alternative choices to your doc? or are early scans not normal near you? And he's right, early scans can't predict the future, but they can ease your mind until you get there.

 

[MrsMoo72]

Think its just a uk thing coz we dont have ob/gyns just regular general drs. Just wanted some reassurance so I can stop analysing every twinge and stop checking for blood every time I pee!

 

[lauren10]

Rach honey, I think it would be good for you to take some time for yourself, and grab life by the balls and make changes that you know will make you happy!! Take control of it...do some small things each day towards your ultimate goals and they will happen. TTC is so frustrating, but all the wishing and hoping in the world can't make it happen. Easier said than done, but try not to let it consume you, because it's one of the few things we REALLY have no control over!!

Confused your bean is absolutely perfect!!! So happy for you!!

Moo- it's the same in Canada (well, NB anyway)...if I was under 35 I wouldn't even get an ultrasound until 20 WEEKS!!!! Can you believe they do that shit to people?! That's way too late to find out that something is wrong.

I would normally also have to wait until 12 weeks for my high risk scan, but due to my harassment skills, I have one at 10 weeks (but still hoping for a call this week). It's totally torturous for them to make us wait. BUT...I'm sure everything is fine, with both of us...and things will work out

JKB...I can't watch the video you posted atm because I'm at work, but that's exactly how I feel about my MC. That I was given something special even though it was so devastating that I lost it...and I need to be happy, even for that. I found a lot of peace thinking about it that way.

Hope you all have a wonderful Tuesday! Sons of Anarchy season finale tonight...omg....!!! Can't wait.

 

[lauren10]

Think its just a uk thing coz we dont have ob/gyns just regular general drs. Just wanted some reassurance so I can stop analysing every twinge and stop checking for blood every time I pee!

oh and also in New Brunswick, you don't see an OB until 20 weeks. bullshit. My family doc is nice, but he's kind of new and naive, so I often find that I have to tell him what to do. I'm sure he loves it when he sees me coming

It's universal healthcare for you I guess!!

 

[keepthefaithx]

Well im officially peed off!! My doc said I wouldn't get a scan before 12weeks as im not high risk and there is no reason not to be optimistic about this pregnancy- wtf???!!! He said he 'feels' like everything will be ok this time!! Well im glad your medical opinion is based on your "feelings"!!!

He did say that a scan wouldn't predict the future which I understand but I was just hoping for a scan to know that everything was progressing normally

omg wtf..the uk is wack lol jk but seriouusly thats bullshit! you cant base things on feelings. if we could that would be amazing but hun im sure everything is fine. but this situation sucks.

 

[keepthefaithx]

lauren whens ur scan i forgot!

 

[keepthefaithx]

moo..like im mad..thats bullshit

 

[themarshas]

Here's a picture of our scan. She didn't print the best image but you can see our little bean and that's all the matters