I can see both sides because I have been there. Growing up I lived in a 3 bedroom council house with my mom, dad, brother and nan. It was the house that my nan moved into when she married my grandad as it was his family home prior to that. We moved out into our own home when I was 11 and my nan had lived there for about 50 years by then, but rather then stay there on her own she took up the offer of a 1 bed flat and was more then happy.
fast forward to present times, I had been struggling to find somewhere to live and ended up cramped in at mil's house with husband, 2 young children and another on the way. I had to find somewhere to live and had been on the waiting list for a council house for a few years and was not getting anywhere because there are simply not enough houses to go round.
I was told by the housing that I would need to be declared homeless and go into emergency housing into whatever property became available as I would not get anything else. Now, I am far from being a snob but there is no way that I was going to move my 2 young children and another weeks from being born, into a top floor flat or into a dangerous area where we would not be safe because someone would not give up their house due to the fact they had spent money tiling the kitchen or whatever.
I am not going to get into the " I pay my taxes so I deserve it " debate right now because its going off track, but yes, I worked all my adult life and have paid thousands to this government as has my husband. Circumstances change rapidly, often through no fault of your own which is what happened to us and in times like this, I think a less selfish attitude should be taken. If you have the means to support yourself comfortably then please do so, because there are so many people out there who would love to do that but quite simply can't.
fast forward to present times, I had been struggling to find somewhere to live and ended up cramped in at mil's house with husband, 2 young children and another on the way. I had to find somewhere to live and had been on the waiting list for a council house for a few years and was not getting anywhere because there are simply not enough houses to go round.
I was told by the housing that I would need to be declared homeless and go into emergency housing into whatever property became available as I would not get anything else. Now, I am far from being a snob but there is no way that I was going to move my 2 young children and another weeks from being born, into a top floor flat or into a dangerous area where we would not be safe because someone would not give up their house due to the fact they had spent money tiling the kitchen or whatever.
I am not going to get into the " I pay my taxes so I deserve it " debate right now because its going off track, but yes, I worked all my adult life and have paid thousands to this government as has my husband. Circumstances change rapidly, often through no fault of your own which is what happened to us and in times like this, I think a less selfish attitude should be taken. If you have the means to support yourself comfortably then please do so, because there are so many people out there who would love to do that but quite simply can't.