TwilightAgain
LTW for our LO <3
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I refuse to repeat myself again. Twice i've explained, I give up.
At the end of the day, every one of you ladies would do the best for your child I should think if you were in the position to do so, so why criticise the decisions of others who are only trying to be good parents as well?
Oh and some people don't want to live on benefits. Its to do with pride and embarrassment. I think some would rather pay full rent in a council house than part rent and claim benefits for private (if thats what you mean).
This is precisely the point I made earlier. I want what is best for my children which is why I would not want to bring them up in a hostel/b&b/high rise in a dangerous area which unfortunately is happening to many families because of the lack of suitable houses available.
And thats fair enough. You want to do whats right by your child by providing a safe environment. Well he wants to do whats right by his and provide her with an education. And like I said before, you'll always put your own kid first than other peoples needs right?
In this world, unfortunately we sometimes have to be selfish. Its just the way it is. Can you not rent privately and get help or something? Move in with a family member for a while rather than living in a hostel or something?