Wow, after readin all of that, I will have my say!!
To the op, I really hope you and dh manage to get things sorted. Whether its that if he is going to smoke he stays away BUT lets you know. Or if you dont want him doing it any more I hope an arrangement can be come to.
I smoked weed when I was at college, it made me high, frantic, extremely giggly and hungry. It NEVER chilled me out, my heart would beat faster, I would be very excitable and once, I climbed a 2 storey building because I knew there was chocolate inside (I wanted it) and the top window was open. I was ONLY smoking weed, not even drinking.
My brother and my uncle smoke. My uncle is very chilled out and one of those people that you have to love because he is a lovely chap. However, he was holding my son, having had a spliff and I didnt know, he fell over with him and thought it was hilarious. Luckily nobody was hurt, he has never held my son since. My brother turns nasty when he smokes, he is paranoid and violent. I refuse to be anywhere near him when he has a smoke.
My 17 yr old cousin was driving home from work, an idiot who had had one spliff, drove around the corner on the wrong side of the road, took my cousin out, killed him instantly. This chap had never been in trouble before only smoked one spliff after work each day. He only got 8 months in prison, why, because due to bad judgement, having one joint he was not in charge of his actions. I.e diminished responsibility because he was under the influence. Bullsh*t in my opinion, he knew what he was doing when he smoked, he claimed he was the same after and yet he only got 8 months because it was claimed it was an error of judgement because of weed.
My dh is a policeman, neither of us smoke it or agree with it - not after the first hand effects I have seen.
Those that smoke and look after their babies and go out driving etc. I hope to god nothing bad ever happens. I think it is wrong you do that.
Hope I havent rambled on too much!!!
xxx
opinion on it is there are FAR worse things people can be doing. And these days, unless you have a huge grow op, the police don't even really care that much about weed - they have much more important things to worry about.
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