ryder
Mum to Jasmine & Peyton
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I dont know anything about your benefits, as quite frankly, here you would be getting very little from the government if you were living with parents and going to school.
I agree with everything mervs mum and blob have said.
Not to sound harsh, but it is your choice to have a baby, and you are very lucky you and your OH are not having to get your own place to do so, because rent, bills, food, heat, hydro etc etc all cost ALOT, way more then you can ever imagine until you are actually doing it. Your parents dont have to let you stay there, especially if they dont have alot of extra money to throw around, your a grown up now.
I can see your dads point about all the extra money, its another person showering, another person needing food, another person doing laundry, another person flushing the toilet, plus on top of the the expense of a baby and doing that for a baby.
I do agree you need some independance, You should have your dad sit down and talk about how much he thinks it fair. I think it would be nice for you to buy Aidens supplies too, as this is your baby and you should be getting the experience doing it.
I agree with everything mervs mum and blob have said.
Not to sound harsh, but it is your choice to have a baby, and you are very lucky you and your OH are not having to get your own place to do so, because rent, bills, food, heat, hydro etc etc all cost ALOT, way more then you can ever imagine until you are actually doing it. Your parents dont have to let you stay there, especially if they dont have alot of extra money to throw around, your a grown up now.
I can see your dads point about all the extra money, its another person showering, another person needing food, another person doing laundry, another person flushing the toilet, plus on top of the the expense of a baby and doing that for a baby.
I do agree you need some independance, You should have your dad sit down and talk about how much he thinks it fair. I think it would be nice for you to buy Aidens supplies too, as this is your baby and you should be getting the experience doing it.