I completely understand, we both feel the same way, like last month we were both sick, DH was on cold meds, so I told him we didn't have to do it so much, but he said "but we have to!" So we did, tired runny noses and all, the sperm donor and the bank... Lol. Do what you have to do. Try to make it fun! Like today after work while DH is in the bathroom or something I'm going to "hide" and then text him to find me, spoiler alert: I'll be in the garage in the back of the car with sexy music playing! LOL! He has no idea what he is in for! He is just going to shake his head and laugh when he finds me. But it gets to be such a chore that the fun goes away some times! Good luck!