Rainbow gems
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This baby was a suprise so I'm not even sure when my last period was but I got my :BFP: on DH birthday (27th November) xx
Aw that's great! I'd of made that his birthday present!
This baby was a surprise too, such a shock! OH and I had sex on the wrong day, oops!
At first I was pretty gutted but now I am really looking forward to having 3 under 3! I've been thinking about contraception afterwards but right now I am having a serious think to myself about having my tubes tied... Kind of looking at all the benefits! IDK, will think some more and wait and see what happens xx
That was his birthday suprise!
I was really shocked about it when we first found out but as I have had time to think about it, I think we will be just fine
I was going to send DH to go get snipped after this baby but he has now said he may want another after ... Plus I'm so young I don't like to think of my baby days to be over ... I just don't know xx
If OH and I were to have any more children it wouldn't be for years yet and I don't like the idea of being on contraception for the rest of my life with all those hormones and side effects etc! This is going to be my third c section in just under 3 years, I don't like the idea of the risks that come with having so many of them! I have no chance of having a vaginal birth again, it's set in stone that from now on I'll be having c sections... I'm about to have my third, can I really do all this again in 10 years time?
I shared my thoughts with OH last night and he thinks it's be a good idea as it is reversible although chances of getting pregnant afterwards are slim. The snip is out of the question, he point blank refuses lol!
We also talked about the possibility of adopting if we can't have any more if I get it reversed and he is in board. Really having a good long hard think about it but I'm thinking I may just go for it! Thoughts?xx
personally id wait and give it more thought after LO is born but i couldn't do it.
but saying that OH said after 3 kids no matter what hes getting snipped. Hehe