I'm a Spiritualist, and attend an SNU (Spiritualist National Union) church....
We have no holy books or rules to live by, just 7 principles which we must accept before we can really call ourselves a spiritualist:
1. The Fatherhood of God.
2. The Brotherhood of Man.
3. The Communion of Spirits and the Ministry of Angels.
4. The Continuous Existence of the human soul.
5. Personal Responsibility.
6. Compensation and Retribution hereafter for all the good and evil deeds done on earth.
7. Eternal Progress open to every human soul.
You can explore more on
www.snu.org.uk, or I am happy to answer questions too, as best I can. Essentially we believe that all human beings are first and foremost spirits, and that the body is a tool, or shell used to enable us to learn on the earthplane. As spirit, we are all part of the Great Spirit (God) and can communicate with other spirits who are discarnate (not in a body, ie, 'dead').
We communicate with spirits who want to talk to us to prove that there is no death, and to encourage us to use this insight to live better lives, with more love and care for others. It's not for entertainment (though it can be entertaining!) and it's not to scare people - it's about showing the interconnectedness of the world and all spirit.
We have a philosophy but no rules, as I say, so we are very independently minded and don't try to persuade others to our point of view. We believe the evidence speaks for itself!