- Talking to 1st year students and realising that they're still so naive and idealistic and then realising that I was like that once and now I'm jaded and cynical!
- Not being a student anymore!
- Having mothers tell their children to "mind the lady" when they're in front of me in the street/ shops.
- Having so many weddings to go to in the next few years, some of them where the bride's younger than me!
- Planning a family! I'm ready but it's still a shock sometimes to remember that I'm at a point in life when it's right for me!
- Having a group of friends that are more like family to me than my actual family and who accept me for me. Being able to piggy back off this fact and actually talk down my parents and be strong in my opinions and feelings towards them instead of hiding them away like I always used to.
- Having lifetime membership to RocSoc- and knowing that I'd be getting it anyway this year, regardless of my services to the committee!
- Realising that planning a holiday with friends will take almost as much effort as my wedding did because everyone's scattered across the country!
- Having mates who started uni after me graduating and having another friend most of the way through his PhD!
- Drinking and getting drunk most nights having lost it's appeal! It's OK going out for a couple of drinks and the odd pub crawl every so often but I usually order soft drinks when I'm out now and probably would even if I had the money! I'm in the pub at least 3 nights a week and only have a drink once every couple of weeks. I prefer drinking at home and having people round for a party!
- Finding my feet when it comes to being a hostess! I've gone from a really awkward hostess who hated throwing the party to someone who throws parties every couple of months and offers to cook for groups of 10 + people!
There's lots of things really! Mostly stemming from living in a student town and being part of societies that are predominantly aimed at students! I'm only 22 and I actually described an idealistic 18 year old as a baby last night!!
Beca :wave: