hey... so i just found out im pregnant... im sixteen right now... what should i do? i mean, do i keep the child? what about adoption? where i live abortion is ilegal i mean, i have plans, i wanna go to college and become an engineer. but how in the world am i gonna do this being a MOTHER? how is this affecting your life?? i mean, of course it changes your world, but how much? and in what ways? is everything ok between u and ur family? what about friends? im not even gonna ask about the dad, because i really doubt my childs dad is gonna do anything... most important: what about u? are u still a teenager or do u feel like u totally lost that part of your life? thank u sooo much!!