Mantha
Mummy to Lewis :) x
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Usually i find my MIL lovely. But just a lately she has been doing my head in with the stupid comment and patronising me!!! I dont like sharing my LO lol his my baby, and OH's of course. So i am actually quite selfish when it come to grandparents having him. But other week when we was at theres he was quite tired and whingey so MIL didnt get him as he was asleep so she was sat there with a face like a smacked arse, pardon my french. Then when he woke up i let her have him for a little bit as i couldnt do with the sulking and she turns round and say ' this is what u live for when ur my age ur kids and grandkids' almost as if to make me feel bad. Lol but when ever i pass him to her she always say ooooh watch his head as though im guna hurt my own child, his been holding his head up for months for god sake i think i know how to hold my own child and pass him to someone. This is what really annoys me, me and OH was touching LO's head as he has 1 hair thats loads longer than the rest lol so we was having a look at how long it had got, she say 'aww his thinking i wish ud stop touching my head' so we all know that really she wants us to stop touching his head'. Why do that, we all know she doesnt know what his thinking. Aaaargh
Also OH wants me and him to go out on saturday night as we havent been out just me and him since i had Lewis, which suits me fine as i dont really want him staying out just yet but ive agreed for OH. So his mums having him, i would rather leave him with her other than any1 else as i know she will look after him. An i suppose i do trust her with him. But she turned round and goes 'im looking forward to having him, ive not had many cuddles with him yet' i know she probly doesnt mean owt by it but it really winds me up. I dont want to leave him just yet, i hate the thought of some1 else mothering my baby and i know she will do everything we say different. I know im guna have to leave him at some point, i also hate the idea that his not guna need his mummy she seems to act as though OH' kids arent her grandkids instead she acts like there hers. He has a dughter from a previous relationship and she undermines him all the time when it comes to his daughter. Its almost like he just has the title daddy. I dont want this with my son, its his business when it comes to his daughter. But i dont want her thinking she can do sumat with my son when ive said no. I want him to know were his mummy and daddy and we say what goes. Pointless thread really, just needed to write it all down really. Im just dreading saturday night now i know she will be telling him his her little man and mothering him!!
xxx
Also OH wants me and him to go out on saturday night as we havent been out just me and him since i had Lewis, which suits me fine as i dont really want him staying out just yet but ive agreed for OH. So his mums having him, i would rather leave him with her other than any1 else as i know she will look after him. An i suppose i do trust her with him. But she turned round and goes 'im looking forward to having him, ive not had many cuddles with him yet' i know she probly doesnt mean owt by it but it really winds me up. I dont want to leave him just yet, i hate the thought of some1 else mothering my baby and i know she will do everything we say different. I know im guna have to leave him at some point, i also hate the idea that his not guna need his mummy she seems to act as though OH' kids arent her grandkids instead she acts like there hers. He has a dughter from a previous relationship and she undermines him all the time when it comes to his daughter. Its almost like he just has the title daddy. I dont want this with my son, its his business when it comes to his daughter. But i dont want her thinking she can do sumat with my son when ive said no. I want him to know were his mummy and daddy and we say what goes. Pointless thread really, just needed to write it all down really. Im just dreading saturday night now i know she will be telling him his her little man and mothering him!!
xxx