Bride2b
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This is my first pregnancy and I am 18 weeks. I have never really been maternal and am not that good with kids ( I guess as I dont have much experience with them), but have always known I will have children.
I dont think I have quite realised that in 20 something weeks I will be a mum, it doesnt seem reality. Is this normal?
We have our 20 week scan in 2 weeks and we are going to find out the sex, before we fell pregnant we both would have loved a little girl, but now we just want a healthy baby and really dont mind if its not a girl. Does it become more real once you know what you are having? I am hoping so as I have not looked at anything in the shops to do with babies or even considered buying anything yet. I guess I am worried about not bonding, reading on these forums people seems so in love with their little ones on the way (not that I dont love it) it just isnt real yet.
I hope this makes sense......just wanted some feedback on if/when reality hit that you were bringing a new life into the world.
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I dont think I have quite realised that in 20 something weeks I will be a mum, it doesnt seem reality. Is this normal?
We have our 20 week scan in 2 weeks and we are going to find out the sex, before we fell pregnant we both would have loved a little girl, but now we just want a healthy baby and really dont mind if its not a girl. Does it become more real once you know what you are having? I am hoping so as I have not looked at anything in the shops to do with babies or even considered buying anything yet. I guess I am worried about not bonding, reading on these forums people seems so in love with their little ones on the way (not that I dont love it) it just isnt real yet.
I hope this makes sense......just wanted some feedback on if/when reality hit that you were bringing a new life into the world.
x