When I get my BFP I'm going to.....

[Athena]

Buy myself a new perfume so that the smell reminds me of how amazing it felt to finally get my BFP and be pregnant at last!

I also want to go into this shop I pass all the time, it's a beautiful baby boutique type shop and when I go past it I have such a longing to be able to go in there and buy something nice.

I'll be on I hope I get to fulfil my dream.

What will you guys do?

 

[smallstar]

That sounds like a really lovely idea Athena

I really do not have a clue what i will do.....seems like such an unachievable dream at the minute its hard to visualise anything positive!!!

I think i will be completely numb with the shock...2 and half years TTC a BFP would seem like a small miracle!

Ecstatic would probably be an understatement!!

I genuinely love your attempt at putting a positive spin on LTTTC its really made me smile
Thank you
x

 

[Athena]

Thank you smallstar. I am trying to visualise a successful outcome before I start my IVF.

I can not imagine just how it will feel to see those two lines appearing on the test after wanting it for so long.

I sincerely hope you get you BFP soon hun, I know how the disappointments can be so very hard.

Good luck

 

[flipbabies]

i love this thread!! i think the perfume sounds like a great idea! and shopping in cute baby boutiques is always fun...good plan!

i think i'll:
start a journal from that moment...so that the little bean in my belly knows exactly how i felt on the day i found out.
i've always wanted to make a baby inspired dinner. like baby corn, baby cornish hens (you get the picture) to tell my hubby!

thanks for shedding a little fun in this forum! i wish you luck with your and send lots of baby dust your way! xxo

 

[Athena]

Oh my goodness that's an amazing idea! You could serve it and then see how long it takes him to guess, brilliant!

I love the idea of a Journel that will be so special!

I hope you get to have your baby dinner really soon xxx

 

[Berrysmoothie]

Wow, lovely thread and love all the ideas. Journal is a must for me...already keeping one about the whole LTTTC process.....when our baby finally arrives one day he or she will know how hard we tried and how much we wanted him/her. Here's hoping for BFP's all round!

 

[Athena]

BerrySmoothie, absolutely I intend on telling them every day just how special they are and how long we have been waiting. Good luck in your ongoing journey to Motherhood

 

[readyformore]

I have no clue what I would do. Honestly, I think that I would be in denial until a screaming pink baby comes out of my body.

I'd be the lady in the emergency room coming in for abdominal pain that comes and goes every 2 minutes. I'll tell them my last period (which is as regular as clockwork) has been absent for the past 9 months and I have no idea why.

I like the perfume idea. Very cute.

 

[Bump2B]

Start my 'stash' of Nappies and baby wipes, bottles, clothes etc.

I already stash dried and canned foods, soft drinks, cereals and anything else non-perishable that I find as a bargain!

 

[Claire145]

I love this thread! It's nice to read something positive for a change and it made me smile

 

[Kimiw]

I don't know what I would do. we have been trying for six years so it seems like that is something that is out of reach right now. But I think I would start planning on how to tell my parents and my husbands parents. I have had so many ideas over the years ( I have had plenty of time to think of some lol) and I would probably go to the store and start looking at things to buy so that I can share the wonderful news. I would go and get a pedicure and get my hair done. I will be so happy on the inside I will want to show it on the outside! lol I love this thread!

 

[macca197831]

I am most likely going to scream the house down and probably do some kind of ridiculous happy dance when annoucing the news to my hubby!

I am then going to get hubby to take my picture so that I can look back and remind myself how happy I was when I found out!

 

[beegray]

More then likely bawl my eyes out on my bathroom floor shaking the pee test in my DH's face.... then it would take a truck to wipe the huge ass grin i will have for the next few weeks!

 

[Athena]

I have no clue what I would do. Honestly, I think that I would be in denial until a screaming pink baby comes out of my body.

I'd be the lady in the emergency room coming in for abdominal pain that comes and goes every 2 minutes. I'll tell them my last period (which is as regular as clockwork) has been absent for the past 9 months and I have no idea why.

I like the perfume idea. Very cute.

Ha ha it would be like that show I didn't know I was pregnant!!! Seriously though, can they not feel it moving inside them, lol. They always say, I thought I had gas!!

 

[Athena]

Start my 'stash' of Nappies and baby wipes, bottles, clothes etc.

I already stash dried and canned foods, soft drinks, cereals and anything else non-perishable that I find as a bargain!

Great idea! I am a massive hoarder too. I don't even drink coffee any more and have like 6 massive jars of the stuff lol!

 

[Athena]

I love this thread! It's nice to read something positive for a change and it made me smile

Happy I made you smile hun

 

[Athena]

I don't know what I would do. we have been trying for six years so it seems like that is something that is out of reach right now. But I think I would start planning on how to tell my parents and my husbands parents. I have had so many ideas over the years ( I have had plenty of time to think of some lol) and I would probably go to the store and start looking at things to buy so that I can share the wonderful news. I would go and get a pedicure and get my hair done. I will be so happy on the inside I will want to show it on the outside! lol I love this thread!

I know EXACTLY what you mean, we have been ttc similar length of time. Gosh it's been so long. Can't imagine how I will feel. I've heard of loads of cool ways to tell people, that will be the fun part. Love the idea of the hair and pedicure. I can't wait to go shopping either

 

[Athena]

I am most likely going to scream the house down and probably do some kind of ridiculous happy dance when annoucing the news to my hubby!

I am then going to get hubby to take my picture so that I can look back and remind myself how happy I was when I found out!

Can just imagine you doing your happy dance

Love the idea of the picture, can't wait to photograph my bump, goodness me I'm getting so excited and I'm not even preggo haha!

 

[Kimiw]

I don't know what I would do. we have been trying for six years so it seems like that is something that is out of reach right now. But I think I would start planning on how to tell my parents and my husbands parents. I have had so many ideas over the years ( I have had plenty of time to think of some lol) and I would probably go to the store and start looking at things to buy so that I can share the wonderful news. I would go and get a pedicure and get my hair done. I will be so happy on the inside I will want to show it on the outside! lol I love this thread!

I know EXACTLY what you mean, we have been ttc similar length of time. Gosh it's been so long. Can't imagine how I will feel. I've heard of loads of cool ways to tell people, that will be the fun part. Love the idea of the hair and pedicure. I can't wait to go shopping either

Your right, we have been trying for about the same amount of time! You would think it gets easier as the years go by but you find that your hearts yearns for it even more so! We have been refferred to IVF also, but before we go that route I asked if I could try Clomid again ( I have PCOS and the first time we tried it 3 years ago, I did not respond at all, no O whatsoever). The doctor was a bit skeptical, he felt that if it didn't work the first time it was not going to work the second time. But lo and behold, first round ( he put me on a high dose 200 mg) I developed 3 beautiful follicles and O'd that cycle. Didn't get pregnant but that was ok! I responded! On my second cycle now and O should be happening any day now. I know I kind of got off subject, but I just wanted you to know that there is hope. You only have one chance at IVF, keep your fingers crossed and keep the positive attitude. We can't afford IVF, not even for one cycle, so we are keeping our fingers crossed for Clomid to do the trick. Hubby's are just fine 88 million, and his other numbers are good too. Keeping my fingers crossed for you! I hope that it all works out, I know how hard it is to wait so long for something you want so bad but it is out of reach.

 

[WANBMUM]

I will cry everyday! But for a change it will be happy tears!

I will also give my mom a book (I have had for 3 years) which is a grandparents book that she has to fill out for her grandchild, with details of my parents childhood, how they met, all about us as babies etc etc.

Love your ideas about the photo and the perfume and rolling around the bathroom floor.