May, we went to the rugby (England V Barbarian's) together, it was a present for his 30th. Before that was the weekend of his 30th birthday in Feb, we went for a meal and drinks, then before that it was August last year (our anniversary we went to the cinema and a meal) and then August the year before we went to New York for a few nights. May go out alone in August but may not but have a week long holiday booked for our tenth wedding anniversary next year.