why are you wtt?

[wanna-b-mummy]

I am WTT because my OH is a complete pr*ck!

They do have a habit of being one of those from time to time. Is he in the dog house?

 

[MarieGx]

1. Son has only just turned 2 months
2. Need me and my partner to be more financially
3. Have the implant in my arm
4. Parents wouldn't be to happy if i decided to have another baby so soon
5. A bit scared of what might happen if i start TTC
6. Partner doesn't want another one to soon, so WTT in 2012

 

[pinkclaire]

Reading this made me realise I can't think of one reason lol but at a push:

hubby isn't ready to put up with pregnant me again just yet (I was a complete moaning cow!) and would probably result in divorce.

Could be better financially (although I don't think you can ever be where you want to be!)

my body needs to recover from last pregnancy.

There we go I did it! Xx

 

[Catalyst]

We are waiting for these reasons

1. Our Lo will be 1 in july, my OH would not mind start TTC now but I want to wait a year longer. The reasons are that I had a C-section and also I want to have 1 good nigth sleep before I try for another LOL!
2. We are moving to our own hous in 1 month and need to do some things for it and that costs money and is taking a big chunk of our savings and I would like to save a litle bit before we start TTC.
3. Im starting a new job in july and I want to get settled in and try to been working for 2 years when I give birth.

 

[4magpies]

I am WTT because my OH is a complete pr*ck!

They do have a habit of being one of those from time to time. Is he in the dog house?

Yes he is... although slightly less than he was over the weekend! Lol.

xxx

 

[lulu61388]

- neither OH or i are finished with school yet.
- we'd prefer to be married before we start having LO's
- financial/$$$$
- i'm still enjoying my freedom! but i do have baby fever.

 

[Shrimpy]

I have only just convinced hubby that we NEED 1 more baby to make our family complete so by giving him a couple of months grace period he has managed to get his head around it Also depending on how long it takes us, our eldest daughter will either be about to start school or will have already started and daughter #2 will be about to, or already be in nursery half a day all week so I wont have 3 rugrats driving me loopy

I also want to lose a stone and hopefully get a fertility monitor and use it before ttc so it knows my cycles for when we seriously try.

 

[sarah1989]

I have moved here from TTC/LTTC recently and here is my story lol:

My DH and I have been Trying To Conceive since March 2008 with little luck. We experienced a miscarriage in early 2009 and then lost our son in February 2010 at 17 weeks.

Since all the problems we have been experiencing we were referred by my GP to a specialist who told us (from extensive testing) that I have a bicornuate (heart shaped) uterus as well as an under-active thyroid, which is pretty much not working at all.

My DH and I have decided that we would like to put off TTC'ing for a few years to get our health back in order and sort out things that need to be fixed and/or dealt with. We would like to save for a house and possibly move to another city. I would like to go back to school to study something else. We are 21 & 22 so are young still and have time to start a family in the near future. We have decided to wait 3 or 4 years until TTC'ing again, as hopefully by then everything will be better health wise, as that is our main concern.

 

[HippieJess]

I was supposed to be TTC in a couple of weeks. DH still wants to move forward with that date but I want to wait.

1. We can't afford daycare without being on a strict budget (DH doesn't want to follow a budget)
2. I really enjoy the freedom of spontaneously taking off for the day
3. I'm scared to death about the whole thing, pregnancy, birth, being responsible for someone else's life & upbringing.

As much as I love kids (and feel like I want one), I'm starting to think that I would make a horrible parent and shouldn't have children. I keep changing my mind every week and it's driving DH crazy. So for now, we're waiting.

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

We are waiting because

1. We already have one child and cannot finacially support another
2. I want to finish my nursing
3. I want to have an establised career before I have anotehr one
4. I am only 18 and I want to be in a better postion to what I was when I had Aidan

xx

 

[nzblondie]

Hey Ladies,

I've been living in the 'Two Week Wait' forum since the beginning of this year (and making myself rather mentally unstable) but after 2 early m/c and 3 vists from the I'm now joining you in this forum.

Our only reason for waiting is that I am flying home to New Zealand for my brothers wedding in April 2011 and I can't take a newborn baby on the plane for that length (24 hours flight time each way) and I can't be really heavily pregnant on the plane either so to avoid either of those situations we can only start trying again at the beginning of October! Seems like an eternity away!

So for now, I've switched from the Two Week Wait to the 18 Week Wait!

 

[Sambatiki]

Hi Ladies

Im WTT until after my wedding 28th August this year. I was TTC for 21 cycles before we 'gave up' to concentrate on wedding plans and give me some time to get my sanity back.

 

[wtt :)]

*DH is not ready yet (he's younger)
*DH still wants to go to college or at least get a certificate
*just started my own business and want to focus on it a little more (but that will still take till after we start ttc i'm sure)
*how much money do you need to have saved up for the first baby? (we already have a house and money saved up)

 

[alex_85]

Because it seems even the hint that I want to have a baby with my OH freaks him out!

Also, I'm just finishing my MSc, so I want to have a 'proper' job, and be a bit more financially stable.

I want one now though!!