Why do people think making my baby cry is funny!!!? Rant!

[bump_wanted]

well put Kris

i still totally fail to see why the mil finds it funny odd woman she shoul be bonded to thw baby enough not to want to distress him xx

 

[lynnikins]

To the OP

tell your inlaws that you dont like them doing it and dont find it funny that they are purposely scaring your child for their own ammusment tell them you find it sick and revolting and that if they carry on then you wont be letting them near your child till they can show your child the respect he/she deserves ( sorry cant remember if you have a son or daughter ) as a human being.

I would be livid if people made my children cry on purpose for their own entertainment, does that mean i dont do things that make my children cry sometimes NO but i dont find it funny when they do cry either ( although sometimes ds1's tantrums are drama worth an Oscar and make me smile ) as a mother i find it hard to hear my children cry it sends a reaction through me and at times with ds1 when he had colic i just had to leave him with DH and go out caus i was getting so upset and unable to help him by being upset it was easier to leave him with DH ( i dont know how my husband does it but the crying doesnt bother him the way it does me )
Ive used CC and CIO before and had vaired results with each child but its not easy or fun to do at all its heart wrenching and painful,

anyone messing with my kids had better watch out caus i'll be after them

 

[Jchihuahua]

I've just seen this post. It is so cruel to make a baby cry . I would do anything in the world to not have Daisy cry in fear/pain/shock whatever. If anyone made her cry on purpose for fun I think I'd actually hate them!

 

[SKATERBUN]

Fear can be very damaging to a undeveloped brain, the stress hormones released can be so harmful that the damage could be irreversable if its a repeated action.
Thats why people develop phobias as they had some sub concious negative feeling or event experienced as a baby. Children are not toys they are not there to make adults laugh. Its so distressing to hear a baby cry as you never know what they are feeling sometimes, its not always as easy as they are hungry, windy etc, its so unfair as like animals, infants cannot voice their distress.

 

[pink.crazy]

Poor soul MIL's hey??