why does ttc have to be so hard!?:(

[kelseyjean]

So this is my second month ttc after getting off the pill. Yes I know your suppose to wait since you don't know your cycle but we just couldn't help ourselves. But last month seemed like a normal cycle, 29days, very wet and ewcm around cd 13 and cd 14 15 and 16. But then this month I'm going on cd25 and I'm not sure of I O'd. I haven't gotten serious with temping or opk's yet...I'm sure if takes much longer I'll start being more active about it but now I'm just letting nature take its course. I know bcp can make you have irregular cycles for a few months but I'm so confused as to whether I'm regulated or not and if I actually O'd this cycle!! So frustrating