Will you be trying for a particular gender?

[clementyne]

We really wanted a boy first time round, so we purposely tried for one and got one. This time I'm open to either sex (though of course I would have been happy if we had a girl last time) but I'm just thinking about family dynamics and whether to try again for a particular gender... my son keeps asking for a sister, and I've read that boy/girl combos are calmer than boy/boy, but I suppose because I have two brothers I just pictured us having sons and never really considered a daughter though I am now. Is anyone playing on trying for a particular gender and why?

Just to clarify, we will be grateful whatever we get!