i wasnt gunna post any thing else on this thread because im obviously not getting my point across clearly . but now ur just getting personal.. i have had 9 children and i can say hand on heart that i have never for one second wanted to shout,shake or hit my babies so if that makes me super mum then yes i must be...i beleive that children are gifts from god and should be treated as such..not be living in fear of being shouted at or hit because they are in pain with teeth or colic..yes im actually quite shocked too, at the amount of people on this thread who just dont seem to care about this tiny defenceless baby being brought up in such a hostile enviroment... yes i do feel for kiitabird if indeed she does have pnd as i have said but feel more for the por child being yelled at for no reason . what must this poor child be going thruI am actually shocked at some of the comments on this thread.
Kitabird, I hope you're ok and that you seek the medical help you need soon, it's nothing to be ashamed of and it really is helpful to talk to someone about how you feel.xx
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who the hell said that the baby is growing up in a hostile environment?!? you are making damaging and unfounded claims there!!
if you dont have anything constructive to say then tbh you are doing more harm than good. yes you think you are helping by trying to "bully" the op into getting madical help but she is making slow progress and is getting there.
she needs support not "GO DO THIS NOW" posts. if she is like me, if someone tells me to do something the more i will fight against it coz i dont take well to being told what to do!!
every single mother i know has had a point when they have had such a bad day with colic/teething or whatever and have been so close to smacking or hiting or shaking their baby as they are so frustrated and they have put them down in their cot and walked away for a few mins to calm down and gather their thoughts and compose themselves.
you may not think those thoughts are normal but for about 95% of mothers i think they are. if you have never ever had one fleeting moments thought like those above you must be supermum.
where exactly did i make it persoanl?