Wishing, wanting, waiting.....TTC for a year PLUS!

Hey girls. How are ya?

Thinking of you Julia.:hugs:

Well, I am not happy... I have been putting off calling the dr because I just really don't want to have to go to a fs... I just kept hoping that I wouldn't have to... but I finally broke down and called the dr today and they asked me why I needed an apptmt. I had to say the "i" word.. yuck... thats all I have to say.:cry:
 
ahhhhh bbdreams, I'm so sorry. The I Word totally sucks and it should be banned. It only makes us feel even worse about things. grrrr. Hope you feel a little happier when things are underway.xxxx
 
Hi ladies, thought I'd check in.

Dh is recovering quite well. He's able to drive now and is in less pain. :)

Hope everyone is doing well. Sorry for those who the witch got. :( bbdreams, I know what you mean about saying the I word. I agree with honey, it should be banned!

As for me, I feel like we're in a holding pattern. Dh's dr said that he will have to have another SA...but not until Feb! I understand that it takes 3-4 months for new sperm to grow, but it still feels like 4 wasted months. :( Oh well, I will try to think positive thoughts!

I hope everyone else is doing well!
 
Hi bbdreams, sorry about the I word and the doctors. Hopefully you will get some answers and a way forward x

Lucie glad your OH is feeling better, fingers crossed everything works out good x

nothing exciting happening here, just waiting for O, due probably sunday or monday (I have a very regular 28 day cycle and always O on day 14 or 15!)

Just about to head into work, gotta clean my teeth

catch ya later xx
 
Juliaaaaaaaa can't the f*cking witch f*ck off and f*cking leave us all af*ckinglone. sheesh. I f*cking hate her.
She's due today/tomorrow for me, not hear yet, obviously playing one of her 'fun' games, where she'll appear just as I've got my hopes up. Gaah.
I was thinking about progesterone cream, but i had my progesterone checked a few months back and it was fine. I guess the travelling messed it up, and having swabs done on friday didnt help it. blah.
Ahhh titi, I sure will miss seeing you around bnb, but will defo keep in touch on fb.
xxxx

Boy you are just as angry as I am with her this cycle! :hugs: Glad she's not there for you, hopefully she stays away. have you checked yourt cp??
I remember you progesterone tests but I wasnt sure if progesterone cream may help the spotting stop. This is only my 2nd cycle out of all of them that I have some spotting before hand, and I was just wondering if progesterone cream would stop that. I hate it, it gets my hopes up for IB bleeding.

xoxo

Hey girls. How are ya?

Thinking of you Julia.:hugs:

Well, I am not happy... I have been putting off calling the dr because I just really don't want to have to go to a fs... I just kept hoping that I wouldn't have to... but I finally broke down and called the dr today and they asked me why I needed an apptmt. I had to say the "i" word.. yuck... thats all I have to say.:cry:


I'm doing Ok love. Thanks for asking! How are you?

I hate the I word as well. I went one time to the RE and he suggested clomid and IUI and HSG and after reading everyones experiences and seeing it, I just dont have the $1000.00 a month to hand over for nothing in return.
It works sometimes and others it doesnt. I just want everyone to skip right to IVF and choose whether to have one or two babies.....I know I know...I'm NUTS! LOL

Hi ladies, thought I'd check in.

Dh is recovering quite well. He's able to drive now and is in less pain. :)

Hope everyone is doing well. Sorry for those who the witch got. :( bbdreams, I know what you mean about saying the I word. I agree with honey, it should be banned!

As for me, I feel like we're in a holding pattern. Dh's dr said that he will have to have another SA...but not until Feb! I understand that it takes 3-4 months for new sperm to grow, but it still feels like 4 wasted months. :( Oh well, I will try to think positive thoughts!

I hope everyone else is doing well!

Glad your DH is feeling better!! :flower:
Did the doctor specifically ask you guys not to do the dead for a few months for him to heal??

Positive vibes and well wished are virtually being sent your way! :)

Hi bbdreams, sorry about the I word and the doctors. Hopefully you will get some answers and a way forward x

Lucie glad your OH is feeling better, fingers crossed everything works out good x

nothing exciting happening here, just waiting for O, due probably sunday or monday (I have a very regular 28 day cycle and always O on day 14 or 15!)

Just about to head into work, gotta clean my teeth

catch ya later xx

Have fun :sex: (legs up in the air, bicycle legs and a$$ on pillow!)......


AFM, I am 14dpo, and I always come on full flow on 14dpo so I am waiting and waiting.....I didnt spot all day yesterday, I kept checking and this morning I had really wet cm, eggwhite cm with some pink in it. Waiting and waiting for her to arrive. If she started showing her face 4 days ago, why didnt she just come so I would be almost done with her now??? LOL
Temp still above cover line, so does that mean by tomorrow it should drop right? Does it drop when you start bleeding heavy or how does that work???

I'll probably get her tomorrow in the middle of my brothers memorial service. Blah.......
 
Thats how I feel too julia, she started to show and then stopped, it's frustrating huh. I hope she does stay away forever, but I cant see myself getting that lucky. I can't imagine getting pregnant anymore. Hope she stays away for you too my love. I want you to get pregnant so badly.

Lucie I'm glad your dh is recovering well. Jeez feb is a long time to wait, but i bet it'll go quickly with christmas and stuff between now and then.

ahhhh have fun ejay! I love that time of cycle, full of hope and optimism!!

my day at work was sooooo busy im exhausted. i want to eat junk and go to bed lol.
xxx
 
Well, who in the world would I share this story to except my lovely ttc ladies in hopes that it gives you something to smile about today....this is another lovely episode in what is my life.
A few months back my sweetie dh bought me a very special, expensive high tech "personal massage device". I've never really had anything like this and found it pretty amazing and am virtually very dependent on it for the ttc time of month when say we have to BD like, 7-10 times in a row.
Soooooooo I'm at ov time now, in what we've decided is our last TTC cycle before a break and we get in our bd (with a little help from my "friend").
Now, DH has this really annoying habit since the day we met of immediately springing to his feet after the deed for whatever reason (he's thirsty, he's hot, etc.) and washing off and usually putting up anything else we use (toys/towels, whathaveyou). So this time I begged him to just "marinate" with me as I said maybe him never "soaking" is why we can't make a baby. So he reluctantly agreed and then I passed out after and I guess b/c he was not used this he didn't remember to take up the stuff (namely my "friend") and it got left out on the bed while I passed out nicely.
So........later in the eve, DH comes to bed and wakes me and asks me if I took care of everything and I was asleep so didn't really pay much attn. to him. Well the next day when we are getting ready to BD he asks me where I put the vibrator. And I'm like, "Where did YOU put it?????" He's always the one that takes care of everything! So we just assume it's in the bed. And it's not. We spent HOURS looking all over the house for this thing. Wondering what the hell happened to it?????? Now, at some point, when we retraced all our steps, we realized the only plausible thing is that one of our dogs must have dragged it off. But now there is two sickening feelings since we can't find it anywhere. #1 What if they ate it and we have to take them to the vet??????? or #2 What if it mysteriously pops up somewhere crazy when company is over???????????????
Well finally after a day of searching my dh found it under the dresser. MANGLED. Yes, one of the dogs did get if after I fell asleep and mistook it for a BONE and ate the living crap out of it ruining my favorite little helper.
This is seriously my life people??????
 
hahahahahahaha ahhhh titi!!! What a nightmare. Bad doggy. Bet you didnt know whether to laugh or cry!!xxx
 
OMG!!! Titi!!! So sad but so damned funny! I'll contribute to you "friend" fund if you like?! :rofl:

Hmmmm Not a bad idea?.....I wonder if I should think about it!!! LOL
 
yes honey-BAD doggy!!!! It sounds funny but it was very stressful worrying that maybe Marlow had it in her belly or that my parents would be over and it would fall out of the couch or something. Still-I REALLY liked this one-it was amazing. It was a Lilo-they make some very high tech stuff and its definitely a recommendation. : (
Now I don't know what to do for the rest of fertile week!!!! Ooooh I like the idea of a friend fund!!!!!

PS I'm sorry about the red kootch monster trying to shove her way back in Julia and also sending love and will be thinking of you tomorrow.

BBdreams I am sorry about your having to say the I word but glad you are getting on with a dr......it helped me to feel like I was being proactive-

love and dust to the rest of you girls!!!
 
Is there a website where we can check out this item? I'm in the market for something new... Hard to tell from a website sometimes if you'll like something.... :)
 
I just google searched. Is it Lelo? Wow, are they expensive! The toy I have was under $20! Wonder if buying a $100 one would be just mind blowingly good in comparison.... :haha:
 
Morning

So last night i did a cheapo 10miu and got a faint line (15dpo), and this morning, i did a 25miu one and got another faint line. Then I did a digi opk and got a smiley face. So I bit the bullet, dug out my emergency digi hpt, and got..... 'pregnant 1-2 weeks'. I can't believe it. I don't feel pregnant at all.......!!!! So excited. So scared.

Love you girls. Have a great day/eve.xxx
 
OMG Honey!!! did i just read that right!!!

OMG OMG OMG OMG :happydance::yipee::yipee::happydance:
 
Morning

So last night i did a cheapo 10miu and got a faint line (15dpo), and this morning, i did a 25miu one and got another faint line. Then I did a digi opk and got a smiley face. So I bit the bullet, dug out my emergency digi hpt, and got..... 'pregnant 1-2 weeks'. I can't believe it. I don't feel pregnant at all.......!!!! So excited. So scared.

Love you girls. Have a great day/eve.xxx

Honey Im :cry::cloud9: in tear here you dont know how happy I am to read this as I am sure every one else will be as well :hugs: huge congrats and I hope and pray it is a very happy and healthy 9 months for you Im so happy for you :hugs:

Now for the rest of you please please give us all more BFP :hugs:
 
EMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You've broken the bfn drought!!!!!!!!!
I am so f*cking happy for you!!!!!!!!!
I love you chicky! Going to bed now with a big smile on my face.

Girls, I think our luck is going to turn around and Emily is the trailblazer!!
 
Titi, I loved your story, you cracked me up!! I've got a special friend too ;)
 
I just google searched. Is it Lelo? Wow, are they expensive! The toy I have was under $20! Wonder if buying a $100 one would be just mind blowingly good in comparison.... :haha:

It might be Lelo-I don't know-DH did all the research and buying. I agree-I've only ever had little "bullets" before that were pretty cheap. I'm going to have to say that yes-super worth the money and mind blowingly good in comparison. I was in amazement. Don't get me wrong-regular sex with the hubby super great but at 35, after 2 years ttc, once you get to the fifth bd in a row in a fertile week, (in the SAME position per doctor's orders)......it was nice to have some help and I'm glad my dh was understanding of that. Well of course-he did coin the term "speed smep" ha ha
 
Morning

So last night i did a cheapo 10miu and got a faint line (15dpo), and this morning, i did a 25miu one and got another faint line. Then I did a digi opk and got a smiley face. So I bit the bullet, dug out my emergency digi hpt, and got..... 'pregnant 1-2 weeks'. I can't believe it. I don't feel pregnant at all.......!!!! So excited. So scared.

Love you girls. Have a great day/eve.xxx

OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congrats I can't believe it that is amazing!!!!!!! So happy for you and excited too about breaking the bfn drought!!! whooopeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ha ha now go to a bunch of unknown threads and post pop in bfps!!!!!! Serves them right!!!!! lol.

So more details please! Any symptoms besides being 15dpo??? Did you get pg in Thailand? OH NO it's true you really do just need to relax and take a holiday, arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
 

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